the man has to act

DEKKA

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guys i just thought id remind all of you, mostly the new guys, about how the simple facts of our society work. its simple but often forgotten. its something you have to have ingrained in your mind though and realize completely.

THE GUY HAS TO INITIATE.

nomatter how much she'd like to meet you or get with you she won't do it because she'll be seen as too forward. its the unspoken rule that you have to start it. she won't. hardly ever.

if you're waiting for women to initiate you'll wait a long time.

don't feel bad about initiation because its the male role to do so and you're simply acting out your role.

you wouldn't believe the lengths women go through to be noticed and look good to us and make subtle gestures to us all in the distant hope that we might get a clue and INITIATE.

simple but powerful.
 

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Great reminder DEKKA.

Another way to not forget this is to remind yourself that after spotting the HB, she didn't spend 2+ hours and $100's of dollars getting ready for nothing.

She wants to look her best to create attraction

Attraction from guys who have the balls to appoach - the DJ!

Elimidate
 

Deep Dish

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Wait for a woman to make a move and surely you will be invited to her wedding.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Originally posted by Deep Dish
Wait for a woman to make a move and surely you will be invited to her wedding.
Beautiful.
 

MVPlaya

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Originally posted by Deep Dish
Wait for a woman to make a move and surely you will be invited to her wedding.
HAHA!!!!!!!!! Solid.
 

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rotlflmao! Sum chics got that look like , FUC ME NOW, dammit, when are u gonna do it!
 
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