guys i just thought id remind all of you, mostly the new guys, about how the simple facts of our society work. its simple but often forgotten. its something you have to have ingrained in your mind though and realize completely.
THE GUY HAS TO INITIATE.
nomatter how much she'd like to meet you or get with you she won't do it because she'll be seen as too forward. its the unspoken rule that you have to start it. she won't. hardly ever.
if you're waiting for women to initiate you'll wait a long time.
don't feel bad about initiation because its the male role to do so and you're simply acting out your role.
you wouldn't believe the lengths women go through to be noticed and look good to us and make subtle gestures to us all in the distant hope that we might get a clue and INITIATE.
simple but powerful.
THE GUY HAS TO INITIATE.
nomatter how much she'd like to meet you or get with you she won't do it because she'll be seen as too forward. its the unspoken rule that you have to start it. she won't. hardly ever.
if you're waiting for women to initiate you'll wait a long time.
don't feel bad about initiation because its the male role to do so and you're simply acting out your role.
you wouldn't believe the lengths women go through to be noticed and look good to us and make subtle gestures to us all in the distant hope that we might get a clue and INITIATE.
simple but powerful.
