the mainstream is starting to get it

[backbreaker]

very well put.

 

[Trader]

guys, sometimes it really isn't you. sometimes that just be yourself motto does have some place. There was a girl before i met my Fiancee that said I dressed too preppy. Okay. There is nothing wrong wtih the way I dress. The guy who changes the way he dresses (if he knows he can dress that is before hand) for a woman is a chump.

even if you did change the way you dressed she wouldn't respect you. you changed the way you dress to get laid. that's pathetic.

The first question you should ask yourself is not what did I do wrong, but, is she even right. I"m not one for blaming women for everything, alot of times you do need to look in the mirror, but some women out there, honestly,


2. The law of women is like the law of anything else worth while... anything you actively chase, you want more and the more you ant it the more it will elude you.


the simplest rule of DJing and my game just automatically feel into place once I realize this, is that when you strive to be the honest, best person you can be, in all areas of life, and don't put women first, you will instinctively know how to deal with women becuase they aren't that important to you.. Most men want a woman so bad they are afraid of making mistakes. It really is just that simple.

it's not alpha or beta. women don't...a woman worth a damn, does not want nor respect a man's life ambition is to always be around her. a woman wants a man that has a life outside her and not just to attract her.

all the posts here are in relation to how to ge women.. man what kinda music you listen to "to get laid". man how would you dress "to get laid".. man what kinda musical instruments can I play that "can get me laid"

guys who do that I feel bad for simply becuase they have no clue on the life they are missing out on.

This is the key to women.. To get your life in order. Order is the most important word in that sentence. Yet it will fall on deaf ears because guys want to get laid NOW with as little effort as possible.


3. Create yourself. When a woman walks in my house and sees all my horse racing memorabilia, all my books and my jazz collection, and the way I dress.. if anything they will not be able to say that I am like anyone else. the uniqueness of myself alone kept women interested. How she can instinctively look at my house and see within minutes that I have interests.. lots of them..and that she is not and will not be a priority.

I'm not saying go out and buy jazz and throw on a chalk stripe suit with a fedora.. that's me. that's my personality. But that TRULY is my personality. I'm not fake.

You are a real man - you have own unique style and you don't change for any girl, girls are not the focus of your life.

 

[CarlitosWay]

You are a real man - you have own unique style and you don't change for any girl, girls are not the focus of your life.

Yeah what backbreaker said is pure truth. It may hurt some people in a way but that's cause everything he says makes sense and something most should grasp.

Took me a while to find a purpose in life that I'm passionate about, but it makes me real happy every time I'm working toward my goals and think about what I want to achieve.

 

[wait_out]

People are fvcking retarded.

I got dragged to a fan appreciation day at a baseball stadium a while back. Anyway people were waiting in this huge line going into the locker room. I was there too. It took about 15 minutes. Inside, there were a cubicles for all the players and a few couches. Clothes hanging around, jockstraps, and most interestingly a World of Warcraft sticker. People are taking pictures of this nonsense like it's fvcking Van Gogh.

If anyone had just been passing through, nobody would have given a sh1t at all. Like I said fvcking retarded.

Tucker Max may be a smart capable guy with potential behind the BS image, but lots of smart capable guys amount to jack sh1t. What offends people (me included) about him and the girls that drive that scene -- lets face it, getting drunk and losing your job is not too glamorous without some blonde sorority girl sucking you off for your 'daring' -- is that's its glorifying mediocrity. It's interesting how all the PUA tell-all books end with some kind of revelation and personal growth -- fvck that. You fvck a lot of girls and well, that's it. You don't see the face of god. Fvck. Get real.

When real sh1t happens -- imagine the Haiti earthquake -- how useful is some POS like Tucker Max who wasted his whole life in a terminal adolescence? Probably a lot less so that somebody who devoted his life energy to becoming a capable & competent adult.

So if good mass media followers internalize this, and our sexual, financial, status rewards are all slanted towards being some drunk retard... well we'll have a lot more drunk retards, won't we?

I'd like to think most people outgrow this phase and it's just media alarmism, still it irritates me a lot though. Oh well. It takes all types.

Man that felt great

 

[backbreaker]

the greatest misconception in America is that your wealth is dependent on how smart you are.

Now..i'm not stupid.. i was hand picked to be in this program in high school, it was 50 of us, 2 black people me being one. out of those 50.. I was probably.. as far as raw intelligence... between 20-35. there were some brilliant motherfvckers there.

now...one of the smart guys is on his way to being heart suregon..he will be fine lol. but for the most part... a bunch of over intelligent tech admins and whatever.

My 1 best friend, lol, the other black guy, he's a bill collector. the english teachers daughter that was well on her way to success? librarian. full ride to texas, ****ing librarian.

another one of my friends runs his dad's ran down tree cutting service, another is the guy that preps patients before surgery.


I wouldn't say I was the 20 or 35th smartest person as much as I would say, I didn't realize my calling until I got out of school. I don't give a fvck about chemistry. could care less about reading in cold blood (good book though) and could give a **** about the patherium theorem.

I know alot of rich..well..well off people. I tease my fiancee for having a knack for finding men with moeny, her last BF before me was a millionaire..times over. In my web company I talk to clients from day to day who are very well off.

The richest guy I know might honestly..be the most simple minded man I know. he is the first to tell you "man i don't know how to do that ****, talk to my assistant". doesn't want to know.

The one common trait between all these people is they not only work, they set goals, and find ways to achieve them, and they don't' waiver.


wait out you bring up a good point. I met my fiancee about what.. 3 years ago. The entire time I kept telling myself I don't want to get married, I don't want to get married, gotta keep my options open.

then it hit me one day... i really don't WANT to play the field. I really don't.

there was a time I was dating 3-4 women at a time and while don't get me wrong, it's always fun, deep down I was always somewhat miserable. not becuase i was using women or something stupid like that, because i was taking time away from **** i knew i needed to be doing.


Even if my fiancee cheated on me.. man give me someone to kick it with from time to time, that's all i really need.

30 year old men dating 4-5 nights a week you are a loser. I'm sorry. a 30 year old man should not have time to go on 5 dates a week.

the man who can control his sex drive, controls his destiny. I **** dont' get it twisted, but it isn't my life.

you can't persue real goals and ambitions and chase tail at the same time. my dad is that guy. even now if I called him he's going to "brag" about thewomen he's cheating on my step mom with. oh and make no mistake, there are at least 10.. seriously.

he will be 50 on october 10th..good looking man I will add. if i look like my dad when i'm 50 i'm in great shape...but seriously. that's your life? is your self esteem really that low?

note, he's the only one of his friends who still cheat like that. the others have long settled down. he still goes to clubs 2-3 nights a week. married ****ing 50 year old man. he doesn't do bad for himself. makes a little under 100k, owns a janitorial service, drives a 2010 tahoe and a 4runner.... he is content... but at the same time... man life is so much more. mydad has to get up at 3am every morning.

when i'm 50 years old, i will not be getting up at 3am to go to work.

I also think this is why the drug epedemic is so high. As most know I used to use pretty heavy. I noticed... well it took me a while to make the connection... but I was using basically becuase I knew I was not fufilling my potential in life. I didn't like me becuase I knew I was being lazy and i knew deep down I could do more. so I'd want to escape.

the harder i worked, it became easier and easier to stop.

to put in perspective, you ever get a day off, and you sit at home.. and you try to "relax" and at the end of the day you are ****ing miserable? it's like that.

I used to chair meetings at a chem free house and you'd go in there... and they would be all sitting ther ewatching TV.. all damn day. grown ass men and women. no job. no ambitions. just TV. Then when it all "hit" how lazy they were being, right back out. come back in. repeat.

the people who stayed clean, all came in, and had a plan for getting out and getting on with their life. getting a job, going to church whatever. just not sitting around, trying to scheme in some woman's ass, not gospping all damn day long about who is and isn't using.

while they were technically clean, they wrent' ready to do something different.

 

[Evzone]

I read the article beforehand, and I agree with most of it.

That said, I found it amusing/odd that they cited Roissy as a source. I used to be an avid reader of his blog, and he does indeed make some good points, but after a while the term "attention wh0re" comes to mind to describe him. Look at me! Look how ALPHA I am! I'm soooooo ALPHA everyone!! Then in some of his posts he comes across as a complete misanthrope. Yes, as he writes, some girls indeed do have a fascination with serial killers--but why the hell would you want to date one of those girls?

 

[speakeasy]

I read the article beforehand, and I agree with most of it.

That said, I found it amusing/odd that they cited Roissy as a source. I used to be an avid reader of his blog, and he does indeed make some good points, but after a while the term "attention wh0re" comes to mind to describe him. Look at me! Look how ALPHA I am! I'm soooooo ALPHA everyone!! Then in some of his posts he comes across as a complete misanthrope. Yes, as he writes, some girls indeed do have a fascination with serial killers--but why the hell would you want to date one of those girls?

Yeah, Roissy can have some quality stuff, but make sure you have fresh batteries in your bullsh*t filter with him.

 

[synergy1]

Err, I'm not doubting that Tucker has game, but you gotta take a look at his background first.

He comes from a wealthy family and went to a top Ivy law school. You put any boy in that sort of background and he will easily develop ****y arsehole game. There was a story on him nailing Miss Vermont (I think) and she was hooked the moment he introduced himself as such (talking about his background). From then on it was just him toying with her.

Eventually he also has this minor celebrity status that he could use.

Your average joe using Tucker's game will fail big time, because he hasn't got Tucker's values.

actually his family is pretty average, and he was not too well off before starting radius media. max is a smart dude and finished undergrad in 3 years and got a full boat to a top law school, but he was a goofball. He came from pretty modest background, but clearly is pretty smart/ arrogent so that helps him for sure.

I bet a lot of what we think about max is just for show. He sensationalizes his life because that is what his business is; he doesn't get fans telling them about how he helps his friends out or how he is a nice guy. I bet he's a ****, but not as much as everyone thinks he is.

 

[Jitterbug]

Ok, I was under the impression that he has a rich dad from the Miss Vermont story. He certain lives like he has one!

Good point about the sensationalisation.