The Lowdown on Asian Girls - All Types Covered

[Lancer]

hmm.. i very much agree with what jake said, thats the same impression that i am getting from you.

anyways, these are the generalizations that i picked up from my experiences.. which are pretty much limited to the groups that i have any experienced, as a chinese myself.

mainland chinese: hard working in school (which doesnt determine anything about performance). usually sticks with a small group of friends. polite if you try to pick them up, but can act cold or frigid. not proactive. fashion sense and attitude varies.. those from southern provinces often copy HK fashions. doesnt go to sing K/clubbing as much as HKs. less make up use than others. more serious about relationships.

HK chinese: divided into 2 groups. first group works hard in school and studies to get good marks, doesnt go out as much. second group doesnt study much except at necessary times, and stays out late at night (emulating HK night lifestyle). often goes to sing K, club, pool, etc. usually has a larger network of friends/acquaintences than other groups. also usually sticks with other HK chinese, as well as southern provinces mainlanders. huge focus on appearance, both in makeup in clothes/accesory branding. makeup tends to be more "balanced" than a/cbcs. has a large spectrum of personalities though.

ABC/CBC (america/canada born): either doesnt hold concern for history/tradition or recently discovered roots and doesnt truly understand the traditions. some are very friendly and energetic, and less inhibited than both mainland + HK chinese. some are also very *****y. throws tempers more often. same activities as HK chinese, but without singing K. speaks english. unfashionable (but revealing) clothing. often overuses makeup. fun, but not for long term relations. often has non-chinese friends.

korean/japanese: sticks to korean/japanese, just like chinese stick with chinese. if you hit on them, they might be receptive, but i rarely see any real relationship work out with these (not myself nor friends).

 

[deeloo]

that's why i prefer asian girls who actually live in asia... And no, not the ones that can't speak a word of english.. there are a lot of english speaking communities here as well.. for example, i live in hong kong, and im in a pretty big english speaking community in which the skin color isnt really an issue when it comes to dating or making friends.. when i go to the states.. the asian ppl there just seem a little.. unbalanced.. for some reason.. they always need to stick to their "azn pride" and always talks about how white ppl are gay and black ppl too and how they always talk **** about asians.. they're really cynical and it seems like the asian parents there are much stricter and so they are much more family orientated.. i mean most of the stereotypes for asians dont apply here.

 

[fillme]

How about Indian, Bangladesh and Pakistan chicks?

 

[ScrewIt]

good analysis Lancer,
but i've met ABC in the past that does Karaoke, most usually dont. but the ABC's that know their chinese well (literate in it) usually will go K, such as one of my ABC co-workers

I dont know what the majority of girls from Macau are like but here's an observation of 1 i met a yr ago:

Macau: Thinks she's better than everyone, likes to take advantage of ppl, never ending talking, doesnt have much friends, more of a loner, fashion sensible...
social activities: same as Mainlanders...mainly Karaoke bar & hotpot

but her cousin on the other hand also came from there...biut came to america as a kid so...this is my observation on her:

Good person, friendly, fashion sensible, sweet...opposite from the abov *****

 

[DJ Alejandro]

Originally posted by DJ_Dork
don't consider filipinos as asians

and WHY is that?

read..

ASSOCIATION OF SOUTHEAST ASIAN NATIONS.

 

[jakethasnake]

Filipinos are definately Asian. I dunno wtf that was about.

 

[DJ Alejandro]

yeah, thanks, jake.

some people just have to read more on geography.

 

[neobrood]

... some people arent even aware of the existence of filipinos...

 

[Ricky]

This is interesting again. Just visiting my family in an area with a super high concentration of various Asian races.

Is there a big time difference in who makes eye contact and who doesnt?

I ask this because of my world travels have led me to many different cultures.

Heres a quick 5 second summary, just for comparison I threw in Latin girls.

Latin Girls- Way more likely to make eye contact. I think eye contact is more common and not necessarily a come on, but nonetheless I've always done pretty well with Latin girls (Mexican and Colombian)

Japanese? I'm guessing the few I saw were all born in the US. Way more likely to make eye contact

Chinese- Mostly Avoid eye contact

True Japanese- Mostly Avoid eye contact

Vietnamese-Mostly Avoid eye contact.

Is there something with some of these groups that avoid eye contact? Or maybe it's just because they don't dig Caucasians as m uch.

Any advice would be appreciated.

 

[jakethasnake]

Okay man, I'm not sure where your family is located, but I'll give you some info.



The Japanese girls you saw and who made eye contact back were in probability Japanese-AMERICAN. That means they're multi-generation Americans -- and thus fully acculturated. That makes them no different from whitegirls, with some minor cultural differences, like food preferences, etc.


And there's more to this. To top it off, you cracka-yanks (excuse the term) really fvcked those poor Japanese-Americans over during WW2, by wrongfully imprisoning them in internment camps. Anyway, because of that reason, it made the Japanese-Americans EXTRA-eager to 'blend in', at all costs. In their minds, it was their Japanse culture that got them in those internment camps. So a lot of them learned to hate themselves, and married whites, or encouraged their children to discard Japanese culture/mannerisms, and adopt white American ones. As a result out of all Asian groups in America, the Japanese Americans are the *MOST* 'whitewashed' out of them all. This isn't necessarily the case in heavily Asian areas like California or Hawaii, but in Midewestern or East Coast areas, this might be especially true.

 

[becker]

What about Indian girls?

 

[Ricky]

Well I'm part American Indian, so don't lay your guilt **** on me.

I forgot most history than most people on this board new. I tested out of AP history from high school.

But Jake, back to the question. What do you think of the different classes of Asians and their interest and also cultural issues with regards to body language and eye contact?

Becker, in grad school in engineering a ton of Indian girls gave me great eye contact. They were also very nice and friendly, however i respected the fact that their families would be very against dating a guy that looks so Caucasian as me, so i never pursued anything with them. I think much better luck with an Indian girl would be possible if she was born in the US.

 

[squirrels]

Sh*t...what is with the Asian obsession on this forum?

Is it because there are a lot of Asian men on here?

Or is it that Asian women are somehow easier to seduce or something?

 

[JT47319]

Originally posted by squirrels

Is it because there are a lot of Asian men on here?

Or is it that Asian women are somehow easier to seduce or something?

Probably yes to the first. A lot of AFC inculcated mannerisms by both family and society at large that demasculates asian guys.

And, if you're white, probably yes to the second one as well. There's distinct portion of the asian female population that, if you're white, give you extra points so to speak. It's like being good looking, but not actually being good looking.

 

[jakethasnake]

Originally posted by JT47319


And, if you're white, probably yes to the second one as well. There's distinct portion of the asian female population that, if you're white, give you extra points so to speak. It's like being good looking, but not actually being good looking.

I can sum it up nicely in three words for you, JT: a cultural inferiority complex, on the part of the Asian female.



.... and for that matter, this is why I think that white guys who claim they have mad pimp-game b/c they can get Asian girls are actually LACKING in game. If you're a man that has ' two strikes against you', like Asian or black men, and can still get women, I think its an indication of a better quality game.

 

[Skweints]

I don't see why everybody always gets into this debate.

Jake, I do have to agree with you. You are an example of what ever "wannabe-DJ" should be, and for a single reason only. The "I don't give a ****." attitude.

I'm honestly getting tired of seeing posts about "How to pick up Asian women." The number one thing I've found out that is common between ALL women is that, as long as you maintain the "I don't give a ****." attitude, and show them a good time, they will open up to you. It just takes time.

I've been out here in Okinawa for over a year, and in the past three months, I've met more women in my life. Now, considering what Jake said about how picking up Asian women requires a lower quality game, I'm here to let you know that that is not completely true. At least, not in Japan.

BTW, Filipinos ARE asian. And um, I don't think the comment about Filipinas sticking with their own Filipino men is quite 100%. I can't judge accurately, though. I dated one for a while over here, and she seriously dislikes Filipino men. (My "lighter skin" and "colored eyes", as she put it, was one thing she had a huge interest in.) And judging from a few of my buddies who have been to the Philippines, a lot of them are VERY willing to hook up with white guys (because they can take 'em back to the states.) Nothing against Filipino dudes, one of my best buddies was Filipino, and he was a cool, laid back motha-****a. Very willing to help a friend out, too.

Wanna know how to pick up Asian women?

Move to an Asian country for a while.

Asians in America are, well, American. They have the same American attitude (depending on how much emphasis their parents placed on their roots when they were raised.)

Now don't get me wrong, and don't go telling me I have a fetish for Asian women. I'm just attracted to smaller, petite women, and it just so happens that Asians fit into that catagory very well. The Filipina I was with had a gorgeous little body.

 

[JT47319]

Originally posted by jakethasnake
I can sum it up nicely in three words for you, JT: a cultural inferiority complex, on the part of the Asian female.

*shrug* I mean, I'll agree with you, but laid is still laid.

 

[jakethasnake]

Originally posted by JT47319
but laid is still laid.

I'm beyond that point. I don't give a damn about quantity anymore. Everytime I fvck some random airhead, I feel like I literally lose... no, WASTE a piece of me on them. So to me 'laid' is NOT 'still laid'. You feel me? That's just me though.

 

[Le Parisien]

Hey guys it's interesting some times to share your experiences and points of view.

But we have enough "Asian" threads already, don't you guys think so?

 

[jakethasnake]

Originally posted by Skweints
I don't see why everybody always gets into this debate.

Jake, I do have to agree with you. You are an example of what ever "wannabe-DJ" should be, and for a single reason only. The "I don't give a ****." attitude.

I'm honestly getting tired of seeing posts about "How to pick up Asian women." The number one thing I've found out that is common between ALL women is that, as long as you maintain the "I don't give a ****." attitude, and show them a good time, they will open up to you. It just takes time.

I've been out here in Okinawa for over a year, and in the past three months, I've met more women in my life. Now, considering what Jake said about how picking up Asian women requires a lower quality game, I'm here to let you know that that is not completely true. At least, not in Japan.

BTW, Filipinos ARE asian. And um, I don't think the comment about Filipinas sticking with their own Filipino men is quite 100%. I can't judge accurately, though. I dated one for a while over here, and she seriously dislikes Filipino men. (My "lighter skin" and "colored eyes", as she put it, was one thing she had a huge interest in.) And judging from a few of my buddies who have been to the Philippines, a lot of them are VERY willing to hook up with white guys (because they can take 'em back to the states.) Nothing against Filipino dudes, one of my best buddies was Filipino, and he was a cool, laid back motha-****a. Very willing to help a friend out, too.

Wanna know how to pick up Asian women?

Move to an Asian country for a while.

Asians in America are, well, American. They have the same American attitude (depending on how much emphasis their parents placed on their roots when they were raised.)

Now don't get me wrong, and don't go telling me I have a fetish for Asian women. I'm just attracted to smaller, petite women, and it just so happens that Asians fit into that catagory very well. The Filipina I was with had a gorgeous little body.

Yeah, you're right that not all Asian women stick only to Asian men. Some definately do like white guys. But the interesting thing is that 99% of the time, white men will end up with Asian women who prefer white men over Asians. Duh - why else would an Asian woman let herself get seduced or picked up by a Whitey if she preferred Asian men? Thus in reality, most white dudes' (those that hooked up with Asian women) perceptions are skewed. To them it might seem like a large chunk of Asian girls prefer white men over Asian men because all they run into are Asian girls that like white guys. This is no coincidence - that I often run into white chicks that like Asian guys is no coincidence, either. But I know better than to assume that 50% of whitegirls prefer Asian men. That's not true, and neither is the assumption that 50% of Asian women prefer white dudes.



Just remember that, and let's drop his stupid 'Asian' thing. I also agree with Le Parisien that I'm tired of this garbage. Afterall, The white male-Asian female thing is played out as hell to the point of being corny, and overall pretty lame. The novelty/taboo factor has worn itself out, and more and more nowadays people are likely to be UN-impressed by a WM/AF couple. All it does is remind them of white johns and Bangkok hookers. Honestly!