"The Look"

[PRMoon]

Last night I was doing some wingman work for my room mate. He had a friend of a friend (HB 7) fly into town yersterday, and apparently the girl was staying with another one (HB 7a we'll call her) for a few days. So of course I volunteered my services because that's what you do for your boy.

Anyway we went to Tangerine, hot club in the TI to meet up with them. We were early so we had a few drinks, at the breeze bar. When they got there apparently the girl she was staying with had a guy come into town as well. I figured this freed up any obligations I had to run any interference for my room mate, and I as thus free to explore some of the potential in the club

As soon as they got there we got all three of them in the club I check out the room. When I looked over at the girl (HB 7a) I saw "The Look" In her eye and I knew imeadeately that I would be leaving TI with her number. It was just a second that I glanced at her eyes but just from that one look I knew she was up for the challange. Low and behold while the two of us were sitting alone at the breeze bar talking a while later in the evening she tells me she's going to give me her number, and of course I gladly accepted.

I'm sure this happens to a lot of you because you're all practicers of the art. But has there ever been a time when you miss read "the look?" for something that it wasn't? Or when you see it does it lock in a dead instant and you already know the outcome like it did for me last night?

 

[RedKnight04]

Hey I heard of that club I got 2 VIP passes from a friend of mine.. We should wing I actually just moved to Vegas.

 

[PRMoon]

Nice I could use the company, Those passes are easy to come by but as I tell all my friends, Tangerine is never a bad decision. The girls who work there are smoking and so are the dancers/strippers who are on the bar.

Since you're new to vegas I'll give you a quick tip, never under any circumstances date the strippers here. They're all super nut jobs.

 

[RedKnight04]

I see, I don't want to make this thread about Vegas but...

Have you noticed their's alot of flaking going on here as well?

I mean I have slept with two girls (one I met on the plane and dated) and the other was just a friendly ****. A few other times I was asked to go out just to get flaked on.

 

[PRMoon]

Usually you can spot the flakes here in Vegas. I mean look at UNLV... more flakes then a cereal company. But you'll meet some flaky cali girls here all the time if you're picking these girls up at the locals bars and even the tourist package.

I got flaked on a few times a while back... one turned out to be a boyfriend coming back to town but whacha gonna do?! This is vegas If you learn the town right you can do some amazing things.

 

[Fatality]

describe "the look"

 

[PRMoon]

The look is something you can see in a girls overall facial expression but like the saying goes, they eyes have it.

There are times when I'll get less then one second to look into a girls eyes and when I do I can see exactly how much she's interested or not interested as the case may be. "The Look" is obviously associated with a high IL and (at least for me) It's very easy to spot.

It's definately not a psychic thing but it's definately a semi instinct that clues you in right away about how a girl thinks of you before a word has been uttered between you.

 

[Fatality]

Originally posted by PRMoon
The look is something you can see in a girls overall facial expression but like the saying goes, they eyes have it.

There are times when I'll get less then one second to look into a girls eyes and when I do I can see exactly how much she's interested or not interested as the case may be. "The Look" is obviously associated with a high IL and (at least for me) It's very easy to spot.

It's definately not a psychic thing but it's definately a semi instinct that clues you in right away about how a girl thinks of you before a word has been uttered between you.

I think I know what you mean. It's like the girl looks at you with wide eyes and she looks like she is scared or surpirsed. Is that right?

 

[PRMoon]

Well I'm not sure what emotion excactly I'd use to describe what I see.

Scared is kind of what I see but It's also a look of vunerabilty like a predisposition to a pass.

That isn't to say you couldn't still mess it up. I mean there have been times when I've gotten the look, been way way too drunk and said some really stupid things that broke the deal entirely. But when I've got my game face on and my head together and I get the look, it's rare that I don't come on top, unless I decide to pass on the entire thing.

 

[PRMoon]

Bump

I miss this thread. I wish more people would have posted on in back in febuary. I'm still curious about the instant acess phenomenom associated with the look.

 

[chickenlegs03]

Bump

I miss this thread. I wish more people would have posted on in back in febuary. I'm still curious about the instant acess phenomenom associated with the look.

I think I know what you're talking about.

And I think it's the thing Player_Supreme always talked about the girls choosing you, and not the other way around.

Yeah, it's tough to describe, but I think it's best described as a look of submission. Kind of like a 'puppy-dog' face...wide-eyed. You almost feel like she's saying something but her mouth isn't moving. Hard to describe in words, but when you see it, you know it.

I don't...I've been in a long drought lately and just getting my head back in the game...

but anyway...yeah, it's definitely priceless.

 

[BlahUgh]

Yea I think I know what you're talking about. Where after looking at a girls whole facial expression, you just sort of instinctively get the feeling she's attracted to you. Her eyes are almost sparkling or glittering right, and almost like she's smiling only with her eyes? I'm pretty sure its her pupils dilating, which is a subconcious sign of attraction.

 

[st_99]

Oh, I defenitly know what you mean regarding "the look" I guess its kind of a puppy dog look as an earlier post mentioned but when you see it you will defenitly know it. Its wierd because when it happens, you are basically 100% sure the 2 of you are going to hook up with no effort and thats without even having talked to eachother yet! At least thats what I've found.

 

[Tomatoes]

Last night I was doing some wingman work for my room mate. He had a friend of a friend (HB 7) fly into town yersterday, and apparently the girl was staying with another one (HB 7a we'll call her) for a few days. So of course I volunteered my services because that's what you do for your boy.

Anyway we went to Tangerine, hot club in the TI to meet up with them. We were early so we had a few drinks, at the breeze bar. When they got there apparently the girl she was staying with had a guy come into town as well. I figured this freed up any obligations I had to run any interference for my room mate, and I as thus free to explore some of the potential in the club

As soon as they got there we got all three of them in the club I check out the room. When I looked over at the girl (HB 7a) I saw "The Look" In her eye and I knew imeadeately that I would be leaving TI with her number. It was just a second that I glanced at her eyes but just from that one look I knew she was up for the challange. Low and behold while the two of us were sitting alone at the breeze bar talking a while later in the evening she tells me she's going to give me her number, and of course I gladly accepted.

I'm sure this happens to a lot of you because you're all practicers of the art. But has there ever been a time when you miss read "the look?" for something that it wasn't? Or when you see it does it lock in a dead instant and you already know the outcome like it did for me last night?

I know exactly what you mean. The girl i number closed last night gave me "The Look" and i instantly know i had her number....before i even spoke to her.

 

[Jackman]

Sure, I think lots of guys know "the look", and in my experience it always comes in the same type of situation, winging with a buddy who is meeting a girl he's working and her friend, whom I've never met. I haven't failed here yet, and the reason why, at least I think, is because girl#2 is always there with the understanding she is being paired up. The moment she realized you're actually not at all bad looking, she's relieved and realizes the night to come is going to be a lot better than expected. It all happens in that split second she first lays her eyes on you.

Short of bad breath, being piss drunk, etc. etc., it's actually hard for even an AFC to royally screw it up.

 

[PRMoon]

All good points.
I think misinterpretation of this shouldn't be concidered a bad thing. As long as you play the situaiton like you would normally you shouldn't run into that many problems. Although I think being overconfident and misintepreting the sign might get you side lined. I also think basing your game solely on the look may not be the best idea. Don't seek out girls who get that gleam in their eye solely. If you don't see it you should still enter into your game like normal. I think the look is a good way point though that kind of eases the tension if there is any between you and whoever it is your trying to game. A good read and some quality gaming should assure your sucess.

 

[mrRuckus]

Walking like a man,
hitting like a hammer,
she's a juvenile scam.
Never was a quitter,
tasty like a raindrop,
she's got the look.

 

[DonMEgaHoss]

Reviving this back to life using my CPR training..

I was surfing yesterday with this hb8.9 and we chatted alot while surfing. I was ripping some waves with her then BOOM, Her eyes lite up like a firecracker. It gave me a damn boner sitting out in the slightly tepid water right now...We get out and we chat as we leave She throws out a compliment about my physique . Massive IOI. Inculding questions starting conversations.

Her eyes were so freaking pretty dunno sun could of been a factor too but it was damn sexy. Yeah I pretty much know its on she asked me if I was coming over to (the restaurant where we both used to work and I still do. ) Said no.. let the sexual tension build up some more..

 

[GloriouslyInsane]

You get the "look" and you get a kick signal from your gut,that's how you spot the "look".Always trust your gut.Without it the human race wouldn't come this far.

 

[DonMEgaHoss]

Its like beaming or some other term is the best I can describe it as when she's has a very high interest level in you.. I got a couple plates that Im spinning right know women wise plus a couple know each other so social proof for me right now is pretty high. All my female co-workers at some point or other display many IOIs and all but I dont want most of them like maybe 4 or so...that I can choose from or maybe have all four but Im getting too full of myself..