I don't know if I missed something, but I see alot of users here using NC to try to raise IL or gain the girl back. Anyone here has a success NC story to share?
I don't get the logic of it beside just moving on with your life. If you resort to use this technique, to me it's because you've already done something wrong, you completely ****ed up and the girl has now low interrest. And since your heart is so vulnerable or fragile, you end up playing this NC game to not hurt your little feelings with the hope that she'll miss you and realise "how great you are". I don't see how not contacting her for days or weeks will make her "magically" fall for you.
Maybe you use it to gauge her interrest level when you're not not sure whether she likes you or not? If she's interrested she'll call you after a few days right? You could have answered this one question by simply asking her out in the first place, no little games and you'd have you answer right away, no wasting time here.
How can a girl really believe that you were so busy for 5 days, you didn't even have 5 minutes of your time to reply a single text message or return a phone call, probably not even Bill Gates is that busy. She'll either see this as you aren't interrested or that you play sh!tty games, the more sh!t games you pull on her, the more she'll probably do the same, why not just cut the bullsh!t?
Anyway, like I said, maybe I didn't quite get the concept , please enlighten me.
I don't get the logic of it beside just moving on with your life. If you resort to use this technique, to me it's because you've already done something wrong, you completely ****ed up and the girl has now low interrest. And since your heart is so vulnerable or fragile, you end up playing this NC game to not hurt your little feelings with the hope that she'll miss you and realise "how great you are". I don't see how not contacting her for days or weeks will make her "magically" fall for you.
Maybe you use it to gauge her interrest level when you're not not sure whether she likes you or not? If she's interrested she'll call you after a few days right? You could have answered this one question by simply asking her out in the first place, no little games and you'd have you answer right away, no wasting time here.
How can a girl really believe that you were so busy for 5 days, you didn't even have 5 minutes of your time to reply a single text message or return a phone call, probably not even Bill Gates is that busy. She'll either see this as you aren't interrested or that you play sh!tty games, the more sh!t games you pull on her, the more she'll probably do the same, why not just cut the bullsh!t?
Anyway, like I said, maybe I didn't quite get the concept , please enlighten me.
