Lately, people have been telling me that I'm acting like an *******. At the same time the amount of friends I have (including girls who talk to me) doubled if not more.
That's mainly because I only really changed one thing- I stopped caring what others think (to an extent obviously). I'm not at all a mean person, I just like joking around and having a good time and most of the time I just say whatever comes to mind with very little limits (ex. don't call a girl fat, don't put down a friend in front of girls, etc.)
Most likely, people are having this reaction because they're used to me being more quiet and nice. And as much of a paradox as this post is, what if I'm actually a plain *******. I don't mean in terms of just getting girls, I mean in terms of being an overall good person. Say what you want but I have other priorities besides girls and I wouldn't want to be seen as an ******* all the time. I also don't want to change my personality around girls.
Okay enough of this rambling I have to get back to work on my college essay lol. I'm just curious what you guys think on this subject, not just in my situation, in general.
edit: since I posted this another girl called me a jerk and my dad told me I'm too arrogant with some french girl. I'll see how the first one goes tomorrow, maybe she was negging me =/ and I'll explain the second one later. This is legit starting to bother me though because I don't think I'm arrogant nor a complete jerk. Who knows though, maybe I went from one extreme to the other which I really doubt is the case..
That's mainly because I only really changed one thing- I stopped caring what others think (to an extent obviously). I'm not at all a mean person, I just like joking around and having a good time and most of the time I just say whatever comes to mind with very little limits (ex. don't call a girl fat, don't put down a friend in front of girls, etc.)
Most likely, people are having this reaction because they're used to me being more quiet and nice. And as much of a paradox as this post is, what if I'm actually a plain *******. I don't mean in terms of just getting girls, I mean in terms of being an overall good person. Say what you want but I have other priorities besides girls and I wouldn't want to be seen as an ******* all the time. I also don't want to change my personality around girls.
Okay enough of this rambling I have to get back to work on my college essay lol. I'm just curious what you guys think on this subject, not just in my situation, in general.
edit: since I posted this another girl called me a jerk and my dad told me I'm too arrogant with some french girl. I'll see how the first one goes tomorrow, maybe she was negging me =/ and I'll explain the second one later. This is legit starting to bother me though because I don't think I'm arrogant nor a complete jerk. Who knows though, maybe I went from one extreme to the other which I really doubt is the case..
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