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Don Juan
I really wanted to write this a few weeks ago when this happened to me, but I have been busy with sorting my life out. Some here know that I am going through a divorce and I am signing paperwork this Thursday to finalize it. I am also trying to leave my job and once chosen career to start a business endeavor with my brother. With all the leg work involved and working out I haven't had time to share this with you.
I have come to the conclusion and a lot of DJs know this, but being happy yourself is WHAT REALLY COUNTS!!! I am glad to say that I a pretty damn happy with me. Here is how I reached the point where I just knew.
Had a drink date with a flake I dated a few times a couple weeks ago. As the night progressed with this women, I didn't talk much, I just observed her and the people around me. People really like talking about themselves! Here are some characters I witnessed. 1) A drunken Pro Rodeo bull rider hitting on everything that moved. He almost passed out he was so drunk, hope his status is not considered value. 2) A HB7 that was about 5 foot 1 and had a nice body. She too was intoxicated and whined to my date for about an hour how she was not happy with her height and thought her breasts were too small, even though they looked good to me. 3) An older chap from Wales w/ a thick accent downing drinks as well as fast as he could. He worked for ESPN and makes gobs of cash money. He was drunk too, but he was interesting to talk with. 4) My date, the cake of the flake. She was drinking quite a bit and got pissed at me when she my bought me a drink that I didn't want. She said, "You should never refuse a drink women a lady buys." This had some merit, but I was not going to drive intoxed up. My safety first and her feelings second. If I would have had a ride that would be a good rule to follow. She talked down on herself showing me pics when she was thinner.
Later in the evening, my date got mad at the bartender and left. I sat there talking with the Wales guy for a while before I left. On my drive home it appeared. THE LIGHT BULB POPPED ON!! At this point, I realized all you need to be in life is happy with yourself. Once you are, all else seems to fall into place. Value without happiness is shyt!!!
Since that night I have become more confident in my self and my game. I didn't get laid, but even better I found out who I really am and what I have to offer. Like Pook said, "You are the Prize!!" and by god I feel just like one!
As soon as my divorce is final and wife moves out, I will open another chapter in my life. For me right now, women aren't first. My workout and personal life is first. My business endeavor is second and could be first as soon as it hits. Then I may have time for women. There is one that I had oneitis for several months ago asking me, "I thought you were going to call and we get together and do something this weekend." It feels good knowing that I don't call her because she no longer consumes me. She seems bothered I show no more attention.
Being Happy is the first step to improvement!!!!!!!
I have come to the conclusion and a lot of DJs know this, but being happy yourself is WHAT REALLY COUNTS!!! I am glad to say that I a pretty damn happy with me. Here is how I reached the point where I just knew.
Had a drink date with a flake I dated a few times a couple weeks ago. As the night progressed with this women, I didn't talk much, I just observed her and the people around me. People really like talking about themselves! Here are some characters I witnessed. 1) A drunken Pro Rodeo bull rider hitting on everything that moved. He almost passed out he was so drunk, hope his status is not considered value. 2) A HB7 that was about 5 foot 1 and had a nice body. She too was intoxicated and whined to my date for about an hour how she was not happy with her height and thought her breasts were too small, even though they looked good to me. 3) An older chap from Wales w/ a thick accent downing drinks as well as fast as he could. He worked for ESPN and makes gobs of cash money. He was drunk too, but he was interesting to talk with. 4) My date, the cake of the flake. She was drinking quite a bit and got pissed at me when she my bought me a drink that I didn't want. She said, "You should never refuse a drink women a lady buys." This had some merit, but I was not going to drive intoxed up. My safety first and her feelings second. If I would have had a ride that would be a good rule to follow. She talked down on herself showing me pics when she was thinner.
Later in the evening, my date got mad at the bartender and left. I sat there talking with the Wales guy for a while before I left. On my drive home it appeared. THE LIGHT BULB POPPED ON!! At this point, I realized all you need to be in life is happy with yourself. Once you are, all else seems to fall into place. Value without happiness is shyt!!!
Since that night I have become more confident in my self and my game. I didn't get laid, but even better I found out who I really am and what I have to offer. Like Pook said, "You are the Prize!!" and by god I feel just like one!
As soon as my divorce is final and wife moves out, I will open another chapter in my life. For me right now, women aren't first. My workout and personal life is first. My business endeavor is second and could be first as soon as it hits. Then I may have time for women. There is one that I had oneitis for several months ago asking me, "I thought you were going to call and we get together and do something this weekend." It feels good knowing that I don't call her because she no longer consumes me. She seems bothered I show no more attention.
Being Happy is the first step to improvement!!!!!!!
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