It's true that as a man you are supposed to be a leader. Or some would see themselves as a "Master" and to some the woman a follower, obedient, submissive "slave" role or "Quality" woman.
Now this may work if you require a weak minded woman whom you need to follow you like a puppet for your own securities sake.
But a "Master" or Leader is only as free as his follower/slave is in that he must always assume the role of leading, telling her what to do, and relying on her doing it.
Who has time for that as if they have nothing else to worry about in life? Isn't that being a follower to their own "slave"?
Who has time to not trust that their own woman they chose shouldn't or can't be able to use sound judgement on her own and willingly want to stay with someone who doesn't need to constantly lead her "keep her in line" or else? Doesn't it speak ill of the man who feels he always has to think of the person he chose as "less than, stupid, "hamster brained", a possible cheat, unable to make sound judgements in regards to their relationship on her own etc? Now I know it's foolish to simply ignore red flags etc, but to remember them and decide to leave if things aren't working out, but isn't having to always lead, "game" etc. a chick or your own wives more hassle than it's worth?
Is it possible the same type of leader will waste his life being worried about his follower possibly seeing other men with their women whom don't need to constantly "lead" her yet she stays with them regardless?
Now this may work if you require a weak minded woman whom you need to follow you like a puppet for your own securities sake.
But a "Master" or Leader is only as free as his follower/slave is in that he must always assume the role of leading, telling her what to do, and relying on her doing it.
Who has time for that as if they have nothing else to worry about in life? Isn't that being a follower to their own "slave"?
Who has time to not trust that their own woman they chose shouldn't or can't be able to use sound judgement on her own and willingly want to stay with someone who doesn't need to constantly lead her "keep her in line" or else? Doesn't it speak ill of the man who feels he always has to think of the person he chose as "less than, stupid, "hamster brained", a possible cheat, unable to make sound judgements in regards to their relationship on her own etc? Now I know it's foolish to simply ignore red flags etc, but to remember them and decide to leave if things aren't working out, but isn't having to always lead, "game" etc. a chick or your own wives more hassle than it's worth?
Is it possible the same type of leader will waste his life being worried about his follower possibly seeing other men with their women whom don't need to constantly "lead" her yet she stays with them regardless?
