Rico
Senior Don Juan
Simply, if a woman likes you, she'll make it abundantly clear to you that she does!
Most of us know when a woman sees us as a friend or as a potential lover. When a girl likes you, she gives off certain cues. Work your DJ skills by touching her (kino), keeping her laughing, and getting the phone number or date close.
It must be said here, that if a girl seems unwilling to give you her number or go out on a date, she's not really interested. MOVE ON!
As guys we're always giving women the benefit of the doubt, because most of us would never pass up, at least, an oppurtunity to get a free meal and have a night out with a fun person. That's why we don't see how women can never seem to quite make up their minds (in reality they're saying no). We rationalize it for them by saying "Oh she must really be busy," etc. The Law of Reality (Doc Love calls it the Reality Factor) says if you like a person then you make it known to them!
I've fallen victim many times to women's fickle ways. It's as almost if, one minute they really like you and the next minute they're saying, well let's just be friends. There is no better way I know, of making a woman make up her mind than to move on! She will know that you are not the average needy chump, and that you have options. As men we have catered to a woman's every need and want in hopes that they will reward us with sex! We have even given up some of our self respect for this coveted goal...and for what I might ask? To have her call us up on a Sunday night after Mr. Suave dumped her! Hell no!
Men of the world, I say get with the program, and make women realize that they must pursue you too! Every good relationship is reciprocal. If you call, she better call back or you will (now what's the phrase of the day class?) That's right...MOVE ON!
I hear guys say all the time, Mr. Suave she's acting really funny as of late. What should I do? MOVE ON!
But Mr. Suave, we had a really nice date. I called her and she hasn't called me back after 3 days! MOVE ON!
There's this really hot woman at work/school who keeps saying that she wants go go out but never seems to have any time! You get the point.
Guys, the moral of all this is that we hurt ourselves by trying to give women who are not attracted to us, a piece of ourselves (time, money, affection). We've all been there. These women string us along, never really devoting much of themselves back to us. We see the signs and know that it's not working, but we give up reason in hopes that we'll get sex! Which do you want in the long run? Emotional well-being or baggage?
There are great women out there. Women who we truly wouldn't mind giving ourselves to, and who wouldn't mind giving themselves back to us. Happy Hunting!
[This message has been edited by Rico (edited 05-11-2001).]
Most of us know when a woman sees us as a friend or as a potential lover. When a girl likes you, she gives off certain cues. Work your DJ skills by touching her (kino), keeping her laughing, and getting the phone number or date close.
It must be said here, that if a girl seems unwilling to give you her number or go out on a date, she's not really interested. MOVE ON!
As guys we're always giving women the benefit of the doubt, because most of us would never pass up, at least, an oppurtunity to get a free meal and have a night out with a fun person. That's why we don't see how women can never seem to quite make up their minds (in reality they're saying no). We rationalize it for them by saying "Oh she must really be busy," etc. The Law of Reality (Doc Love calls it the Reality Factor) says if you like a person then you make it known to them!
I've fallen victim many times to women's fickle ways. It's as almost if, one minute they really like you and the next minute they're saying, well let's just be friends. There is no better way I know, of making a woman make up her mind than to move on! She will know that you are not the average needy chump, and that you have options. As men we have catered to a woman's every need and want in hopes that they will reward us with sex! We have even given up some of our self respect for this coveted goal...and for what I might ask? To have her call us up on a Sunday night after Mr. Suave dumped her! Hell no!
Men of the world, I say get with the program, and make women realize that they must pursue you too! Every good relationship is reciprocal. If you call, she better call back or you will (now what's the phrase of the day class?) That's right...MOVE ON!
I hear guys say all the time, Mr. Suave she's acting really funny as of late. What should I do? MOVE ON!
But Mr. Suave, we had a really nice date. I called her and she hasn't called me back after 3 days! MOVE ON!
There's this really hot woman at work/school who keeps saying that she wants go go out but never seems to have any time! You get the point.
Guys, the moral of all this is that we hurt ourselves by trying to give women who are not attracted to us, a piece of ourselves (time, money, affection). We've all been there. These women string us along, never really devoting much of themselves back to us. We see the signs and know that it's not working, but we give up reason in hopes that we'll get sex! Which do you want in the long run? Emotional well-being or baggage?
There are great women out there. Women who we truly wouldn't mind giving ourselves to, and who wouldn't mind giving themselves back to us. Happy Hunting!
[This message has been edited by Rico (edited 05-11-2001).]
