Die Hard said:
DavenJuan, it seems to me you're being oversensitive.
I think this was a great and constructive comment by Iqqi. I gotta admit Karma's responses to it are a bit unconvincing to me... So what's wrong with Iqqi asking him to clarify himself? You seem to be of the opinion that we should all just be happy for him and apply no critical thought to his decision, but what good would this forum be if we held such an attitude? If a guy decides to pursue a LTR with a BPD witch, would you just tell him you're happy for him? 'Nuff said...
I truly hope Karma's decision will bring him much happiness. But there's nothing wrong with iqqi's initial comment and her subsequent attempts to get clarification from Karma.
I agree, that comment above is both constructive and ideal. I wasnt referencing that particular comment.
A noob who wants to pursue a LTR with a BPD witch, is a bit different. In that scenerio, I would give my "advice" and he would have to make his own decision, and deal with whatever actions followed. Thats all any of us can do. Provide our opinions and if that advice is taken or not is entirely up to that person. We cannot be responsible, nor control their actions.
In this particular case, Karma has been down this road before. He has seen the fruits of marriage, good and bad. I imagine he has learned something from his previous endeavors. He, I imagine, is fully aware of the risks as well as the rewards that come to follow this decision he has come to make. We provide our opinion on this choice, and move on.
I dont question that Icky has good intentions on what she is asking. I just dont understand why everyone is CONTINUING to drag this decision of his through the mud. I dont believe that if Karma decides to change his mind, it wouldnt be because of something anyone has said on this forum, moreso him making that decision on his own, for his own personal reasoning.
