Yeah this does kinda work, to be honist it can even work after youve cried your eyes out and made a fool of yourself 
, it only works though because some women are just as lonley/insecure/useless at finding someone as you are.
Theyl break up with you because they feel they ought to (there is a number of reasons you would get broken up with, not all of them are as clean cut as 'i nolonger want to sleep with him') but then decide that as its not been very hard on you (ie. you didnt call ever) then they may aswell get back with you as they feel they have limited options too and would like some sex while their looking for a new boyfriend.
If your planning to cut off all contact in the vein hope that she might break and call you then you have ALREADY LOST. In my opinion you must cut off all contact with a woman if they have offended you with their actions to the point you feel you nolonger want to be involved with them.
Ie. if a chick dumps me, moves on, cheats etc. without showing the same respect for me as i have shown for her then why should i want to contact her again? She has betrayed the trust i put in her - NEXT.
I gotta say - just MOVE ON - i know its very hard, and there will definitely be times when you want to get back with an ex, or maybe you see the opportunity to s e x them up and maybe get back with them or whatever but doing so is fraught with emotional pitfalls that are very difficult to avoid.
Why go back to a girl who dumped you and in all honesty will probably do so again when they realize (or you let slip) that really it was all a long, pathetic mind game to reacquire them.
This flys in the face of everything this board should be about which is GETTING MORE WOMEN, just go get another one, don't sit around watching the clock because you thought (in your twisted up, love sick head) that not calling your ex girlfriend would be a magic bullet that would return your life to the comfey loved up state it was in while you were with her.
GO FIND A NEW GIRLFRIEND, one that hasnt gone out and gotten fooked by a loada guys because she thought it might get rid of the feeling of remorse she has over dumping you...whats your plan? Go lick that pvssy thats been pummeled by your neighbours d1ck for the past 3 weeks??? Im sure the taste of victory will be sweet like candy.
Just move on if she hurt you bad, if you think she dumped you for any of the following reasons;
You wernt paying her enough attention (honistly)
You treated her like crap.
She thought you were on the virge of dumping her so she desperatly tried to save her own heartache.
Or any other reason that implies that she actualy does want you but cant deal with the hassle of going out with you only THEN do you have a case for getting back with her;
At which point you must decide if your realy prepared to make the relationship work by changing your ways or whether she is actually right to dump you and you should both move on.
If you are gonna change for her, and make things work - tell her honistly how you feel and see how she reacts. Otherwise let her go.
If you love someone - set them free.
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, it only works though because some women are just as lonley/insecure/useless at finding someone as you are.Theyl break up with you because they feel they ought to (there is a number of reasons you would get broken up with, not all of them are as clean cut as 'i nolonger want to sleep with him') but then decide that as its not been very hard on you (ie. you didnt call ever) then they may aswell get back with you as they feel they have limited options too and would like some sex while their looking for a new boyfriend.
If your planning to cut off all contact in the vein hope that she might break and call you then you have ALREADY LOST. In my opinion you must cut off all contact with a woman if they have offended you with their actions to the point you feel you nolonger want to be involved with them.
Ie. if a chick dumps me, moves on, cheats etc. without showing the same respect for me as i have shown for her then why should i want to contact her again? She has betrayed the trust i put in her - NEXT.
I gotta say - just MOVE ON - i know its very hard, and there will definitely be times when you want to get back with an ex, or maybe you see the opportunity to s e x them up and maybe get back with them or whatever but doing so is fraught with emotional pitfalls that are very difficult to avoid.
Why go back to a girl who dumped you and in all honesty will probably do so again when they realize (or you let slip) that really it was all a long, pathetic mind game to reacquire them.
This flys in the face of everything this board should be about which is GETTING MORE WOMEN, just go get another one, don't sit around watching the clock because you thought (in your twisted up, love sick head) that not calling your ex girlfriend would be a magic bullet that would return your life to the comfey loved up state it was in while you were with her.
GO FIND A NEW GIRLFRIEND, one that hasnt gone out and gotten fooked by a loada guys because she thought it might get rid of the feeling of remorse she has over dumping you...whats your plan? Go lick that pvssy thats been pummeled by your neighbours d1ck for the past 3 weeks??? Im sure the taste of victory will be sweet like candy.
Just move on if she hurt you bad, if you think she dumped you for any of the following reasons;
You wernt paying her enough attention (honistly)
You treated her like crap.
She thought you were on the virge of dumping her so she desperatly tried to save her own heartache.
Or any other reason that implies that she actualy does want you but cant deal with the hassle of going out with you only THEN do you have a case for getting back with her;
At which point you must decide if your realy prepared to make the relationship work by changing your ways or whether she is actually right to dump you and you should both move on.
If you are gonna change for her, and make things work - tell her honistly how you feel and see how she reacts. Otherwise let her go.
If you love someone - set them free.
:cheer:
