Sup SoSuave.
(Update 5)
It's Rosh Hashannah (Thank YHWH), so I'm off from school for the next 4 days.
I've really been going in on my Don Juan materials lately, which consists of:
- Reading The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene
- Also Reading The 48 Laws of Power, also by Robert Greene
- I've watched The Mack (historically awesome pimp movie, if you haven't seen it, I highly recommend it)
- Been listening to music (a small thing, but it helps to get me into my zone)
- I've also been watching the Real Social Dynamics vids, as recommended by NorwegianDJ)
- I've also read another interesting book, called How to Get Her Back for Good, by George Karanastasis.***
First off,
I'm not trying to sell this book to you lol. It's just my review of it
***In my honest opinion, it's only worth a buy (but you don't have to, because I have a copy if you need one
) if you're truly dedicated to your ex, and really want them back. Looking at it from a breakup point of view, it's a good book. George Karanastasis helps you to get them back with the calculated and planned efforts that some Don Juans naturally take to. However, I find it funny that it told me to take steps that I was, and most people, will naturally take (i.e., there's about 4 chapters dedicated to the art of Non-Contact). In addition to a how-to-get-them-back book, it also doubles as a self help book. The main lesson George Karanastasis is trying to teach in the book is that the main way to get your ex back is to prove to them, but more importantly to yourself, that you can function without them.
I honestly have no interest in actively pursuing my ex, but it did help me to move on, by helping me to realize that I have more power and value than I led myself to believe after the breakup.
Now I'm a smooth muh****er lol
Moving on to other news:
I've been talking with this girl recently. She's a sophmore, and I feel she's giving me a lot of good signals. The problem is with me though, because I feel like I'm not sealing the obvious deal. We hug everytime we see eachother, and she's always greeting me with a smile (rest assured sosuave, I'm a better Don-In-Training than that to think these are accurate interest level gauges). I'm going in on her, because I haven't been to active in scouting her interest level. Here's the last convo we had, in which I feel I let go way too easily.
(Setting: Outside school, end of the day. She's walking to the bus, but I'm going back to school to smoke with some friends. I have a Black N' Mild over my ear. She walks up to me with a smile on her face, and hugs me and makes sure to hold on to me)
Her: What is that?
M: What?
Her: That, on your ear
M: Oh. Don't worry about it
Her: You smoke?
M: (with a half laugh) I mean...
(She lets me go, and begins to walk off. I brush her arm a little as I'm walking off.)
My critique: D
Even dealing with the fact that I was busy, and focused on something else at the time, I feel like I could've lead the convo better. Maybe something like "Why? Do You?" or (with a smile)"Why, do you want some?". But, I feel one interaction this small isn't going to completely kill her attraction, if she has any. I'm going to text her tonite, and post the results. Also, if you have any tips to help, they would be greatly appreciated.
In other news, I'm going to be digging into the proverbial Pandora's box. I'm going to try to contact one of my OLD girlfriends from last year who also goes to my school. I was nothing short of a lame back then (worse off than I am now lol), so we didn't last long.
However, this week, she ran into me in the hallway. I was talking to a friend of mine, and she pushed me in my face. I said "You're not just gonna push me and walk off", and I pushed her back in the back of my head, and she smiled at me. I honestly doubt that she's that attracted to me anymore to start another relationship, but it's possible, and if not, what highschool Don Juan doesn't need another incredibly attractive female friend
?
You stay classy, SoSuave.
Manny, signing off.
