I am having casual sex with this girl. There is no prospect of a relationship as we are very different but we are hot for each other and sex and companionship is just what I need this winter as my motivation for the chase drops when the weather gets cold and the days get shorter.
The topic of unwanted pregnancy came up in conversation. I think were were discussing the high levels of teenage pregnancies in the UK. She was saying that although the girls were careless to get pregnant if she was in that situation she'd have kept the baby too. I said "Even if it was from a one night stand or someone you weren't in a relationship with?". She said "yes it would be difficult but I think it is the right thing to do".
Now Im paranoid because we are only using condoms and they are a lot less than 100% effective. She has no desire to go on the pill because she says it makes her feel weird.
Obviously there is always a risk when you have sex but I'd always assumed if the worst happened Id be able to convince a girl to have an abortion if necessary. But this girl I would not be able to talk around.
How do you guys deal with this? Ive been lucky so far but Ive got friends who have gotten girls pregnant by accident and Im starting to think even though I use condoms every time it could still happen to me.
The topic of unwanted pregnancy came up in conversation. I think were were discussing the high levels of teenage pregnancies in the UK. She was saying that although the girls were careless to get pregnant if she was in that situation she'd have kept the baby too. I said "Even if it was from a one night stand or someone you weren't in a relationship with?". She said "yes it would be difficult but I think it is the right thing to do".
Now Im paranoid because we are only using condoms and they are a lot less than 100% effective. She has no desire to go on the pill because she says it makes her feel weird.
Obviously there is always a risk when you have sex but I'd always assumed if the worst happened Id be able to convince a girl to have an abortion if necessary. But this girl I would not be able to talk around.
How do you guys deal with this? Ive been lucky so far but Ive got friends who have gotten girls pregnant by accident and Im starting to think even though I use condoms every time it could still happen to me.
