The issue of relationships in highschool
From a man who just left one
It's always greener on the other side... This is perhaps the best way one could describe relationships in high school. On the one side, you have the absolute freedom of being single and on the other side you have the beautifal comfort of being with another. Everyone who's IN a relationship is depressed after a couple of months and want out ("But shes the ONE") while everyone whos OUT of a relationship are desperately searching to be in one.
With any decision, people dont THINK about it before acting. They believe that whatever THEY dont have is what's desirable. It's a vicious cycle, and until a carefully planned decision is made - it doesn't end. From the guys who haven't had a girlfriend - it's not the end of the world! I just came out of a 1 and a half year relationship, out of free will.
Your position is alot more desirable then you think. When you go out to a party, there will be tonnes of girls their you dont have to worry about calling your girlfriend so she knows your okay, you don't have to worry about what she's doing, you can talk about what you want and do what you want without worrying about who's on the other end. You can relax. You can breathe.
Like any decision, you have to work out your pros and cons. What's so good about being in a relationship? What's so good about single? What sucks about both of them? Each person will come to their own decision on what is desirable, but they have to figure out what is best for them instead of just blindlessly chasing what they don't have.
However, a little bit of advice.
DONT make the mistake of claiming that a relationship is what you want. THINK about this, is SEX the only reason your going in to a relationship? Chances are, it IS! But comeon, your in high school, your not READY for a relationship, your not LOOKING for one, you shouldnt be! Your young and you have to discover who you are!
You have to discover if you like blondes or brunettes better, you have to figure out what your favourite sex position is, you have to discover if you like the party girl of the nice girl more, you have to discover if you want a girl that will challenge you or supplicate, you have to decide upon all these kinds of things, and you need to approach alot of girls to do it.
Discover who you ARE and what your looking for in a relationship before you go jumping in to one. Carpe Diem! Sieze the day!! Today's your day you break all your limits, today is your day that you do what you didnt think possible - you change your self image.
It's time to blast your boundaries.
On that note i leave, but there's something i'll mention before i leave. Many of you would have noticed that over the last year or so i have posted mainly self improvement related things, which im not going against - self improvement is vital. However, my break up marks the dawn of my re-entry to the field of seduction. Expect posts
From a man who just left one
It's always greener on the other side... This is perhaps the best way one could describe relationships in high school. On the one side, you have the absolute freedom of being single and on the other side you have the beautifal comfort of being with another. Everyone who's IN a relationship is depressed after a couple of months and want out ("But shes the ONE") while everyone whos OUT of a relationship are desperately searching to be in one.
With any decision, people dont THINK about it before acting. They believe that whatever THEY dont have is what's desirable. It's a vicious cycle, and until a carefully planned decision is made - it doesn't end. From the guys who haven't had a girlfriend - it's not the end of the world! I just came out of a 1 and a half year relationship, out of free will.
Your position is alot more desirable then you think. When you go out to a party, there will be tonnes of girls their you dont have to worry about calling your girlfriend so she knows your okay, you don't have to worry about what she's doing, you can talk about what you want and do what you want without worrying about who's on the other end. You can relax. You can breathe.
Like any decision, you have to work out your pros and cons. What's so good about being in a relationship? What's so good about single? What sucks about both of them? Each person will come to their own decision on what is desirable, but they have to figure out what is best for them instead of just blindlessly chasing what they don't have.
However, a little bit of advice.
DONT make the mistake of claiming that a relationship is what you want. THINK about this, is SEX the only reason your going in to a relationship? Chances are, it IS! But comeon, your in high school, your not READY for a relationship, your not LOOKING for one, you shouldnt be! Your young and you have to discover who you are!
You have to discover if you like blondes or brunettes better, you have to figure out what your favourite sex position is, you have to discover if you like the party girl of the nice girl more, you have to discover if you want a girl that will challenge you or supplicate, you have to decide upon all these kinds of things, and you need to approach alot of girls to do it.
Discover who you ARE and what your looking for in a relationship before you go jumping in to one. Carpe Diem! Sieze the day!! Today's your day you break all your limits, today is your day that you do what you didnt think possible - you change your self image.
It's time to blast your boundaries.
On that note i leave, but there's something i'll mention before i leave. Many of you would have noticed that over the last year or so i have posted mainly self improvement related things, which im not going against - self improvement is vital. However, my break up marks the dawn of my re-entry to the field of seduction. Expect posts
