The Incorrect Truth

TheRisingSon

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The Incorrect Truth

"Incorrect Truth?" Is that not an oxymoron? Well, yes, and no. Much like "Jumbo Shrimp," I did not mean to lie to you, only grab your attention. The title of this article points to the harsh reality that I will attempt to point out, one in which our current Marxist egalitarian capitalist democracy will not permit (if that isn't an oxymoron, than I don't know what is. If you do not get what I just said, back off and read yet another "She Looked at Me... Does She Like Me?" article. From here on out, it requires intellect.).

Life is not fair. I see this board as a very fragmented place. Much as in everything, there are the haves and the have-nots. Some have looks, most have-not. Some have intelligence, most have-not. Some have money, most-have not. Some have women, sadly, even on this board, most have-not. Despite what "political correctness," and thus communism, would have to say, this is indeed proper and the way of nature.

"Oh, but that's not fair!" decries the masses. Eat cake instead.

"But, surely, if I am confident and I use C&F, and I run the 'blow job' pattern, no woman can resist me, right? After all, I paid an arm and a leg to learn this stuff." Wrong.

Doc Love is in a picture with a PT Cruiser and a poodle! If that doesn't cry out fag to you, what the fvck does! He is not "The Man" when it comes to women. Am I? No, but then again, neither is anyone, not even the guys who tell you they are. Trust me, I am one of the "beautiful people," and it still isn't Eden. Do you think Dear Abby really has the solution to everything? If she did, wouldn't she have become president and united the world by now? For such a knowledgeable person, the problems between the Arabs and Israelis would only take one short paragraph. Oh, but then again, that doesn't take into account the unexplainable, unpredictable, and, dare I say, irrational nature of humans.

That is exactly why there are boards like this and plenty of people make money off of giving dating and relationship advice. It is to give you false hope. If only I do this, and I say this, and I wear this, and I look like this... As long as I am anything but what I am... Sounds an awful lot like what Sony, Audi, Busch, and Old Navy want you to think. It's all classic marketing. Seriously, why is the only link that remains constant on the main page of this site entitled "Why not 'Just Be Yourself'?" Because if you were, and you were happy with that, they would have nothing to sell you. Are you a piece cattle to be prodded? Are you sheep or are you men? True men? I for one will never be part of the flock. And that mentality, my friend, brings real freedom, and everyone wants to be free.

How about you start doing the thinking instead of the people who promise you easy solutions for just a bit of your blood, sweat, and tears; your money, and, much more importantly, your time. Life is far too short. Never allow anyone to use up your most precious and finite resource; your time.

Ultimately, it might appear as if these gimmicks have done you some good, and infact, maybe they have. But, in reality, it isn't specific techniques that are helping you, it is that fact that you did something, anything, that lead to that date, kiss, or fvck. Sitting on your a$$ gets you nothing. Maybe those tricks got you to atleast attempt, which is always better than not. My grandmother, God rest her insane soul, used to tell me, "Wish in one hand, sh!t in the other. See which one fills up first." Now, I never actually tried this, but I have my theories on what would happen (Do try this at home).

OK, so what does work? BE YOURSELF. It is the only way to truly be happy. But, there is a catch! Make yourself something worthy of being. That is the one, and only, thing that will return dividens in the end.

I Have Risen
 

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To Be Continued...

More to follow in this thread... Simply too bored of writing to continue...
 

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Surely being truly happy would be to endeavor to be the best man that you can in every situation. Self improvement.
 

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sounds great, a tread in the spirit of this board, at least the way this board used to be(damn newbies;) )
it reminds me of a saying: "you can gloss and glinter all you want but in the morning you'll look as ****ty as the rest of us"..... :cool:
 

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Part Deux -- Do You Really Want To Open That Box?

So many of you seem to be focused wholly on "understanding" how women think. This is completely detrimental to not only your success with women, but also your mental health. Why? Let me explain; YOU DON'T WANT TO TRULY UNDERSTAND. You will never trust a woman again in your life. The ultimate, scary, truth is that women are human!

There have been many studies that point to a correlation between intelligence and depression (don't ask for proof; you can use Google can't you?). Many people have theories on why this is. Here is my own: Intelligent people can see the truth of the world, that it is not a perfect happy place where everyone lives a life filled with love, children, and picket fences. Intelligent people know how to read statistics. Further, they know that they truly aren't different than anyone else; what happens to "them" can, and probably will, happen to "me."

So, what am I getting at? Ignorance *is* bliss. Why is the AFC happy, while many DJs struggle? It is indeed deeper understanding of the game that brings the trouble. The AFC plods along, a woman is dropped in his lap, and he thinks "This one is a keeper! After all, she gives me s3x!"

Does the AFC give thought to the fact that he must be a Challenge, and a Mystery, and use a neg-hit here, and follow it up with a bit of C&F? Nope. That is why he is happy.

"Oh, but just you wait! That woman will grow bored of him and DUMP him!" you might say.

My reply, "More than likely."

But that doesn't matter. So what? He will cry a bit then search the internet until he comes across SoSuave.com. Then he will become a Man! A PUA! A DJ! A Player!

Umm, no, not really. You know what *will* happen? He will get over that girl and go meet others. He will think that everything he learned on those websites is what is getting him attention, but in reality, it is he, himself, who is gaining the attention, not his "moves."

"Tacitics" and "moves" are good to get you on your feet, but in the long run, they show cowardice. You are simply afraid to put your ego on the line and risk being hurt. Afterall, if you fail, it wasn't you that fvcked up, it was the DJ Bible. Isn't lesson number 1 "Be a Man?" That includes taking responsiblilty for yourself and actions. That includes risk.

In the "Discussion" forum someone asked for advice. The main point of the question was thus: "I like this girl and she likes me... How do I form a relationship with her?" My advice was this: "Ask her out. Call her after that. Then, ask her out again." My suggestion was considered garbage. Why? Because it can't be THAT simple!?!

Sorry, but it is. Too many minds are trained to look for complexity when the answer is normally the most obvious, mundane, and, yes, simple, solution. I work tech support for an ISP. I get an enormous number of questions in a single day. Most common answers are "reboot," "connect to the internet first," "plug the router into the power supply," "you are using the wrong password," etc. My average call lasts less than ten minutes. Other people I work with take 30 minutes or more... Why? Because they are looking for the complex answer when the simple one would suffice.

It is the same in the game. Things are very simple. Don't over think something that nature has already programmed in us the simple answer.

Then again, knowledge *is* power...

I Have Risen
 
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What you wrote was very eloquent and truthful...

A woman either likes a guy or she doesn't...getting her attention isn't complex, it doesn't require spending plenty hours trying to learn tons of patterns...DJ'ism is not a science, it's more like an art, it's doing something simple to get a woman's attention and then praising that action on a message board while having the hopes of it being included in a collection of stories (The Bible) with the intent of it inspiring depressed fantasy proned persons to better their present relationship or develeop a new relationship.
 

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Understanding women, bah you'll have more chance of getting hit in the head with a meteorite than figuring that one out... IT IS a waste of time trying to understand them, i should know. i spent 6hrs figuring out what the hell my ex was on about one night (she told me she hated me, blah, blah blah) and then the following night appologizing for what she said.

Never try to figure women out...

and these posts you have been posting, TheRisingSon, All true! we as humans tend to look for really complex sh!t now since we are much more evolved specie, we WANT to make it complex, but in true fact it is real simple, (probably why the Jerks get most chicks since they are simple-minded - just a thought)

another thing i gathered from this site. Sitting there right now on your chair and reading the bible 1000 times without actually going outside and applying yourself, will get you nothing! the best and only way to actually overcome problems with approaching or conversing with chicks is to get out there and do that! Simple as that (there's that word again), however easier said then done right? just go for it. trust me you'll feel better if you approach and make small talk and get no number after it, then sitting there and saying "nah can't be bothered" or "what if i make a fool outta myself?" ... just go for it!

That's enough raving for now, just some thoughts that sprung up from reading your posts, TheRisingSon.
 

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This is probably on my top 10 list of great posts on these forums.

So, what am I getting at? Ignorance *is* bliss. Why is the AFC happy, while many DJs struggle? It is indeed deeper understanding of the game that brings the trouble. The AFC plods along, a woman is dropped in his lap, and he thinks "This one is a keeper! After all, she gives me s3x!"

Does the AFC give thought to the fact that he must be a Challenge, and a Mystery, and use a neg-hit here, and follow it up with a bit of C&F? Nope. That is why he is happy.
I know exactly what you mean, do you guys realize how scientists and nerds are so smart, yet, they fail at getting, or most likely don't even try getting laid?... they over-analyze everything, they bring statistics, they panic, they become frustrated, they go through a states of depression. Yet, the dumb ones just "go for it"
 

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You're onto something, but when you look back at what you wrote in retrospect -- You'll think "Damn, look at how much I've improved!"

What sickens me about this thread (which isn't a lot, because I somewhat agree with the threadstarter) is how much SoSuave is becoming this one big ...circle jerk.

Everyone is always trying to prove or please someone else... its disgusting. I don't see it on any other boards (though I only frequent a few) but this one is infested with it...

Getting women can be summed up in a few sentences, you're right. There is more to it than that, though.

At first people want to 'get women'... that changes soon enough.

This site is a kick in the ass. It won't hold your hand or get you anywhere. It's all on you.

It always has been, and you should always expect that.
 

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As it is said, the world is in fact simple.
I think the story with the chick blowing the guy off and appologizing the next day is hilarious and illustrates the previous points wonderfully.

Everytime a relationship with a chick is going downhill with me (friend or girlfriend) I just don't pay any mind to it. Usually its for no apparent reason so when there is no direct reason (Say, me insulting them) I stop thinknig about it. It is dumb and a waste of your time/emotions to try to figure out wtf is going on. Just let time run it's course.

Stop overanalysing stuff. By over analysing, I mean thinking moree then 5 minutes about something. 2 minutes is already much. Just pay no attention to it. Time will tell.

Lik
 
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