Read an article on sosuave.com today that I believe will change my attitude towards dating. Here is why:
I picked up this broad from a picnic last month. She seemed like she was into me during the festivity. I got her number and I called her several days later to set up a date.
She began naming off every single event she had in her supposedly tight schedule so I interrupted her and asked her just to tell me when was she open.
She said evenings were best for her. So I set up the date, we went out and had fun. Her IL seemed pretty high before dropping her off that night.
Later on that week, I went out of town.
Up to that point, she had never called me on her own or any thing. I wondered if her interest level would falter significantly during this period. I returned home, was there for a few days before I decided to call her and set up another date for a day during that week.
She, again, rattled out every event that was going on for her that week so I interrupted her again (on purpose and with a small laugh) and said, "look, you are definitely busy so just call me when you have some time open in your schedule."
She said, "Yeah, next week would probably be better. Wait! You didn't tell me how was your trip?"
II told her briefly about my trip then got off of the phone. I thought she was just trying to be cool about things.
Now, normally, I wouldn't call a woman
back if she displayed the IL this one displayed. You know, every excuse why they can't go out with you that week. I am too impatient, to say the least. Not to mention my ever concious awareness of avoiding looking like chump in the eyes of a woman I am attracted to. Again, normally, in this situation, I would just wait to see if she would call. If she didn't, I wouldn't call back. I would just call up someone else and move on.
That was before I read this wonderful article brought to my attention by another poster here. It is worth printing here again.
http://www.sosuave.com/articles/persistence.htm
After reading this article, I was immediately inspired and began to think about all of the action I may have missed out on over the years from being too impatient with my newly acquired dates. It is an excellent article.
So after reading the article, and a week after talking to the broad, I called her up again. I set up a date with her for this Thursday and she seemed really excited about it and once I noticed that, I decided to get off of the phone.
A few minutes later, I decide to try the trick on another female that didn't return my call last week after having a fun conversation with her at a club. She picked up and asked me if I could call her back in 1 hour. I said "okay."
I will try her again later this week.
I picked up this broad from a picnic last month. She seemed like she was into me during the festivity. I got her number and I called her several days later to set up a date.
She began naming off every single event she had in her supposedly tight schedule so I interrupted her and asked her just to tell me when was she open.
She said evenings were best for her. So I set up the date, we went out and had fun. Her IL seemed pretty high before dropping her off that night.
Later on that week, I went out of town.
Up to that point, she had never called me on her own or any thing. I wondered if her interest level would falter significantly during this period. I returned home, was there for a few days before I decided to call her and set up another date for a day during that week.
She, again, rattled out every event that was going on for her that week so I interrupted her again (on purpose and with a small laugh) and said, "look, you are definitely busy so just call me when you have some time open in your schedule."
She said, "Yeah, next week would probably be better. Wait! You didn't tell me how was your trip?"
II told her briefly about my trip then got off of the phone. I thought she was just trying to be cool about things.
Now, normally, I wouldn't call a woman
back if she displayed the IL this one displayed. You know, every excuse why they can't go out with you that week. I am too impatient, to say the least. Not to mention my ever concious awareness of avoiding looking like chump in the eyes of a woman I am attracted to. Again, normally, in this situation, I would just wait to see if she would call. If she didn't, I wouldn't call back. I would just call up someone else and move on.
That was before I read this wonderful article brought to my attention by another poster here. It is worth printing here again.
http://www.sosuave.com/articles/persistence.htm
After reading this article, I was immediately inspired and began to think about all of the action I may have missed out on over the years from being too impatient with my newly acquired dates. It is an excellent article.
So after reading the article, and a week after talking to the broad, I called her up again. I set up a date with her for this Thursday and she seemed really excited about it and once I noticed that, I decided to get off of the phone.
A few minutes later, I decide to try the trick on another female that didn't return my call last week after having a fun conversation with her at a club. She picked up and asked me if I could call her back in 1 hour. I said "okay."
I will try her again later this week.
