The "ideal" Guy Most Women Want

[DonJuanForever]

I was looking at a recent post, KillaPetehog's The Mind of The Slayer, and based on how I found myself acting around women that got the most success, I studied this, and I find this statement is true as taken from KillaPetehog's post....

"Women in 37 countries from Australia to Zambia found attractive men as healthier looking men, who seemed mature, dominant, bold, and affluent (with money) (1995). Such attributes indicate the capacity to support and protect.

One thing I have learned is that the “ideal man” has stayed the same throughout time. The heroes and warriors of the past have EXACTLY the same characteristics, which make a man successful today! The only difference is that the armor have become clothes and the warrior is now called a “professional.”

Now, I want to add-in being subtle, being in sexual state, and being sexual around women in a subtle way, and you should not have a problem getting women. Like I said prior, a lot of actual "men" around the world have the ideal guy part down, but they don't be subtle, in sexual state, or sexual at all around women so the woman only sees him as a brother. Makes sense?

Gunwitch's method should make you naturally be a sexual guy around women, period, now adapt the above qualities, and you should not have any problems getting laid.

I found out that while I can be a wild, crazy guy, I can also be this guy, and I found he gets more success with women. So guys the time for crying is over. While its preached there is no "magic" pill, well, that's because there is no such thing as magic. But there is a such thing as factual reality and a genetic resource, and its a factual reality women want men as a genetic resource (the guy above), but the guy also has to be subtly sexual around them so she can see him as boyfriend material. Make sense?

If there ever were a "secret" this is it right here gentlemen. So now....what's your excuse for failure? You can't say we didn't tell you. All your goals as far as women and romance is concerned, stand right here before you.

-Don Juan Forever

 

[Bvbidd]

But the wild crazy guy is the one that will get into situations to get laid.

If your too busy being mature and making money, you can't just walk up to a girl and being all sexual from nothing. That is called creepy.

 

[BrotherAP]

Women in 37 countries from Australia to Zambia found attractive men as healthier looking men, who seemed mature, dominant, bold, and affluent

This is certainly true, but it warrants some analasys.

There are 3 traits here I'd like to point out, and those are 'seems mature', 'dominant' and 'bold'. What about these traits stick out to me? These are all social skills. I'll elaborate. It says Women prefer men who 'seem mature'. Well, what makes a person seem mature? Maturity is something that is hard to define, sure. But I definitely know what makes a person seem mature. One things that adds to this is dress - mature people dress to communicate this maturity. Think the difference in a tailored suit from torn baggy jeans, sneakers, and a baseball cap. Which 'seems mature'? A man in a suit certainly seems more mature than that same man dressed like a 12-year-old. Seeming mature is very much dependent on your ability to convey maturity, which is something that develops with many people naturally with age. Certainly we'd all be doing well to try and be more mature.

And what about being dominant? This is clearly a social skill. You can't be dominant with nobody to be dominant over. The first step towards becoming dominant is accepting yourself as an authority. When you believe that you alone know what is best for you, you will rely less on outside sources to make your decisions. When this happens, people will notice your authority over yourself and trust you to have authority over them too - because instead of relying on a source for wisdom, you have become the source. Dominance starts with yourself, but it only becomes dominance when other people accept it as such.

Boldness is both a general trait and a social skill. One who is bold overall will also be bold socially, and while taking appropriate risks broadly improves your chances of success, in this context they mean social boldness. This means you are willing to say things that carry some risk. You can address a woman sexually in spite of not knowing that she will react positively, you can speak out against something that you believe needs opposed risking that people will ostracize you for it, and you can step outside of any social norm at will. Being bold in this regard of course helps with women.

Think of the exact opposite of this man describe aboce, what we so affectionately call the 'AFC'. He is not mature, he's dependent and surrenders to his circumstance. Which is related to the fact that he's not dominant, over himself or others - he does not accept himself as the main authority, and as such does not believe that he is in control of his own life. He therefore can not lead others, because he has not learned to lead himself. Finally, he is not bold. He actively works to be bland so as not to be noticed because he is risk adverse. To be noticed is to take a risk, so he does not get noticed. He does not dress in a way that garners attention, he does not say things if he doesn't already know they'll be accepted positively, nor does he do things that he fears. He does not appear to be mature, he is neither dominant nor bold. As a result of this, he is unlikely to be affluent either, and may even look unhealthy.

Yes the things that get girls are fairly simple and have always been so, but they are not necessarily easy. Becoming an authority over yourself, achieving maturity, dominance, boldness, and affluence are LIFE PURSUITS that are the subject of some of the greatest ponderances of human history. This is not stuff to be taken lightly. This is what makes are breaks you as a person and as a man.

This is powerful knowledge. Use it wisely.

 

[DonJuanForever]

Mature, Dominant, bold, successful, and not afraid of his sexuality, this is the guy that every woman wants.

You guys are on point. Maturity is character, where I hang out and what I do to make money have too entirely different dress styles. I wear baggy jeans, a white t, and a baseball cap to the club, but a suit and dress shoes to work. However, maturity is in the non-verbal communication you send to others about yourself. Its in your body language, the way you walk, and the way you talk. Its in how you respond and deal with other people. In other words, the mature man is the man who has a sense of self, a sense of style, a great sense of how to present himself, and a sense of how to deal and respond to others.

Dominance is respect. Dominance does not mean you go around kicking folks azz, but folks should not go around kicking your azz either. Dominance is power, if you have social power, career power( nice position), any type of power will give you dominance. In other words, dominance is just being somebody important, basically, just "being somebody!" and using your "maturity" to present your dominance correctly. This goes back into the non-verbal cues you send in how you walk and talk.

Boldness is being not afraid to say what you believe needs to be said. Let's face it, we all don't know everything, there is always somebody who can bring something to the table. If I am a C.E.O. and you are on my executive board, if you are afraid to speak your mind and rely on me to say everything, I might be missing something of value that you could clearly see, but because you are afraid to say it, we all fail. Boldness is important because it brings a different point of view. Plus, there are times when things need to be said for other reasons, being afraid to say it just messes up the whole process.

Having success is important, because usually if you are poor your joy and attitude will be the same. Who wants to be around someone very negative and down all the time? They say money can't bring happiness, but people who say that don't know shyt about money. No matter how much JOY I have in myself, if I don't have shyt to eat or a place to sleep, or if I am working in a career that I didn't like, that joy will leave quicker than the Bucks are about to in the Playoffs.

And YOU MUST BE IN SEXUAL STATE. No it's not creepy, its called being subtle. You don't run up and throw your sexualness all over the place, but you control it within your self. That is not creepy, it goes back to the MATURE thing we said earlier. And the wild crazy guy does not set himself up to be laid, he approaches and approaches harder, this does not mean anything though. The guy who is cool and suave, will get more women and more respect any day than the guy swinging from the trees acting like a goof ball. I'm not saying don't let lose, I'm saying let lose and be free without lowering yourself to the level of 2nd grade.

 

[Belairesfinest]

Game is not part-time it's a full-time lifestyle.. Let the kids worry about what to say to a real lady.. Well I just say what I feel like and take it from there.. Business is business and more important then anything over ***** and friends.. If you can't eat you won't be there tomorrow.. People all up in here worrying about who they trying to be and not being them selves.. And it's like that~~

Belair

 

[DonJuanForever]

Belair? I don't understand, what are you trying to say?
-Don Juan Forever

 

[Belairesfinest]

Summarizing the reality of it all, game is not for kids cause it's not a trick.. Tricks are the fools who want game but don't know how to come accross it.. I don't need to elaborate because game to me is business and it's not making money you get the point.. You guys here have a lot of fresh faces wanting to easy street.. Hmm well pimphop has new philosophy game is sold not to be told and I'm sure a lot of people know who said that...

Belair

 

[DonJuanForever]

Belair, what the hell are you talking about?:kick:

 

[Gubby]

Mature, Dominant, bold, successful, and not afraid of his sexuality, this is the guy that every woman wants.

Hey, don't forget FUN!