The idea that rejection is nothing personal

[GoodMan32]

The only special thing you have, is that you are a fvcking retard who doesn't understand how seduction works on a fundamental level, the basics.


That is your problem. How another creature can put on that spiral just because she didn't choose you as her mate. In the cave years you would have died a long time ago, weak men like you were not gonna be able to survive or be slave to the chief, be thankful you live in this day and age, and can change your trajectory.


I do and more. Not only in your natal country, but two more, I changed countries twice during my life so far, have you had to that kind of rejection and different languages?


AAAhhhh yessss this is it. It can be humiliating, until it is not anymore. Until you start to do whatever the fvck you want and women respond to you.

If you know before hand you are gonna get no, then why not try new things, be bold, do whatever you want, she will say no anyways right? Apart from gym and style, this another thing that you are missing, you are not Outcome Independent (OI).

No, I've never moved countries. I've lived in several states, however (some of which are a lot different than others)

As for your last paragraph, it's not that I know ahead of time I'm going to get a no; it's that I might/probably will get a no...no matter how strong of a vibe I'm getting from her.

a proctologist?

Very funny...but no, not a proctologist.

 

[BaronOfHair]

...I might/probably will get a no...no matter how strong of a vibe I'm getting from her.

We all might not get the results we desire when we pursue a goal. Such is life

 

[BaronOfHair]

The curtain was meant to shield the special ed kids from humiliation

Another instance of empathy(something very different from what's been dubbed Wise/Rational Compassion)going awry: Those Special Ed kids almost certainly received a rude awakening when they left school each day, and discovered that no one is going to hide them behind a curtain for the sake of "preventing their humiliation"



"My refusal to ask out a woman I seriously think is into me is akin to the curtain in the special ed gym class: A shield to prevent possible humiliation"

So you want to be a prize fighter, but are terrified of "losing" a match/having the crowd react in a less than flattering fashion, when you do something foolish in the ring

Good luck with that

 

[SW15]

I've lived in several states, however (some of which are a lot different than others)

There are some moves between US states that would be a big culture shock. The English language would be a commonality but not much else would be.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Plus, I am in sales, so I know this stuff is just BS to keep underperforming employees motivated or get newbies excited to target the terrible accounts the experienced salesmen do not want.

Many women are the equivalent of accessing The A-List in Hollywood: Extremely tough to achieve, and once you've done so, the trade-offs made in order to get there quickly seem questionable

Luckily, no one is pressing a loaded Sig to any of our skulls, threatening to pull the trigger, UNLESS we pursue "difficult" women or Tom Cruise-esque career paths. Just as plenty of actors forego major stardom in favor of quieter personal lives and artistic freedom, we can all pursue women who aren't likely to be Grade A pains in the ass

 

[BaronOfHair]

All you guys that worry about getting rejected better stay home.

No worries, not every one can grow thick skin. Better let the tough ones handle it. I am certain it doesnt hurt their feelers.

Entirely too many supposed Red Pill men ascribe to their own version of the worldview espoused by Miss Chastain here https://www.indiewire.com/features/...n-tarantino-uma-thurman-kill-bill-1201924880/

Pointing out that getting rejected/having sh-tty experiences with women more generally can actually make a fella stronger over the long haul/Be our Phoenix moment is now interpreted by many as "ignoring/minimizing men's pain"