iqqi
Master Don Juan
i always find myself with this same argument whenever i get the urge to do something i know i shouldn't. i get to thinking, well why shouldn't i? because someone might think something undesireable about me?
think about it.
we try so hard to manipulate what other people think of us. we don't want them to know that we care, or that we are angry, or hurt, or happy, you name it. we try so hard to come across as emotionless and hard all of the time. we don't care! but the joke is on us because we are doing this because we care so much!
think of all of the repressed anger that we hold inside from not just letting it out. just look at all of the bitter angry people here on this board! i bet they used all of their energy to come across as NOT angry towards the true object of their rage. and the result?
that person may not realize how much that you care (but they probaly do anyways), and you have to deal with all of your feelings by yourself, never really getting true closure.
and why do we strive so hard to come across a certain way? this would make us not be ourselves. we would be trying to be an image of what we think would affect the other person the way we want. we weave a web of illusions that isn't even memorable.
why not go out with a bang? why not scream and say what is really on your mind?
and why not reach out when you want to? why do we care so much what someone thinks, moreso than what we want to do?
the most memorable people tend to be the ones who let themselves be human and REACT naturally, than the ones who try to be godly and manipulate reactions.
is this making sense? and tell me where i am wrong in my thinking here.
think about it.
we try so hard to manipulate what other people think of us. we don't want them to know that we care, or that we are angry, or hurt, or happy, you name it. we try so hard to come across as emotionless and hard all of the time. we don't care! but the joke is on us because we are doing this because we care so much!
think of all of the repressed anger that we hold inside from not just letting it out. just look at all of the bitter angry people here on this board! i bet they used all of their energy to come across as NOT angry towards the true object of their rage. and the result?
that person may not realize how much that you care (but they probaly do anyways), and you have to deal with all of your feelings by yourself, never really getting true closure.
and why do we strive so hard to come across a certain way? this would make us not be ourselves. we would be trying to be an image of what we think would affect the other person the way we want. we weave a web of illusions that isn't even memorable.
why not go out with a bang? why not scream and say what is really on your mind?
and why not reach out when you want to? why do we care so much what someone thinks, moreso than what we want to do?
the most memorable people tend to be the ones who let themselves be human and REACT naturally, than the ones who try to be godly and manipulate reactions.
is this making sense? and tell me where i am wrong in my thinking here.