The hottest sex I ever had is with my current gal. A couple of things she has done that left an impression on me.
1. The Hot/Cold Bl0wjob
Blindfold your man. Have 2 cups of water on hand. On hot and the other ice cold. Sip some of the hot water first and give his knob a nice polishing for a while. Then switch to the cold, then back to hot, etc. It will blow his mind! Obviously you can lose the blindfold after the first time
but this one never gets old!
2. The Champagne Bl0wjob
It's a tough call but I say this one may even beat the hot/cold number. Crack open a fresh bottle of champagne, take a swig and give your man head with the champagne still in your mouth. The bubbles stimulate every one of those nerve endings...I was harder than a steel pipe by the time she was done!
3. Be Verbal
Feel free to talk dirty. Tell him how much you love his c0ck and that sort of thing. Let him know when you are coming...communicate!
4. Grab a little ass.
I like when a chick uses my body as a personal plaything. Like when she grabs my ass and starts pushing me into her at a rhythm that makes her crazy.
5. Learn Kegels!
Get those puss muscles into shape and give him some good squeezes, it feels INCREDIBLE!
Some misc notes for you ladies:
Have open and frank discussions about your fantasies...its great mental foreplay!
Kiss the nipples, love the nipples, but don't spend hours there, thinking he will shoot his load. Keep it moving because we get bored of this one pretty quick.
Be comfortable enough with your own body to strip-tease, masturbate or suck your own titties in front of him.
While giving head, feel free to gently massage the area behind the scrotum. A little prostate stimulation and extra hardness never hurts!
Gently kiss and lick the balls while you hand job, then go back to giving great head. We love that!
You dont necessarily have to swallow, but DO let him bust in your mouth at the very least.
If you want him to be yours forever, then when you are done and lying in each others arms, caress and scratch his head, followed by a light back massage..and if you really want to hit a homer, make homeboy a nice sandwich or something. We always get hungry after a good bang!
My $.02 on hot sex