The High Maintenence First Date

[Pimp-sicle]

This thread has AFC written all over it.

There is no such thing as low or high maintenance women; it is simply little bratty girls who think they are entitled to speacial treatment.

Wouldn't be a regular day @Sosuave if we didn't have another post from Neil about how things with these low quality sewer dwelling w-hores is going E-X-A-C-T-L-Y to plan!







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[bigneil]

Zarky, if Robyn has "Ten times the game" that would mean he kissed 70 women (average HB8.5, age 24, including 60 new women) this past week alone.

There is no such thing as low or high maintenance women;

Gee, take it from the 22 year old who lives with her mom. How many high maintenance women would even GLANCE at a 22 year old? Zero. Robyn has never in her life had a date with a high maintenance woman.

 

[loveshogun]

I always root for everyone on this board to do as well as they can, but Neil, you should really wait to see how it turns out.

If I pinned you for one fatal habit, it's putting super high expectations on how something will go. You're like a kid at Christmas, imagining what's in the box before you even open it, and then you get all disappointed when it's not what you'd hoped for.

Or, in this case, angry at everyone trying to open your eyes to another side of the same coin.

I'd say if she slept with you already, then you paid to play. If she hasn't, you paid to get played, dude.

 

[loveshogun]

Russian women are the biggest gold-diggers on the planet.

False - Romanians have them beat by juuuuust a hair.

 

[bigneil]

I got played? For $100 when I had a date with a hot girl who is now calling me off the hook? Why, because other men would have spent only $75, saving $12.50 of the portion spent on her?

BTW - I ended up blowing this girl off. She ranked #7 out of the 7 women I made out with last week (the stripper being the last and ranking #1). I originally wrote to describe what I saw as shortcomings, leaning toward bailing. Of course, my haters had to jump in to imply that I should be taking her bad attitude personally (A successful seducer never takes anything a woman does personally (Louis/Copeland)).

As they say in the Air Force, "You know you're over the target when you start catching Flak".

 

[Mike32ct]

False - Romanians have them beat by juuuuust a hair.

^This. I knew a Romanian girl living in the US. She made $30k a year, but wouldn't date a guy making less than $300k.

 

[Masculinity]

Zarky, if Robyn has "Ten times the game" that would mean he kissed 70 women (average HB8.5, age 24, including 60 new women) this past week alone.


Gee, take it from the 22 year old who lives with her mom. How many high maintenance women would even GLANCE at a 22 year old? Zero. Robyn has never in her life had a date with a high maintenance woman.

If you had 70 new women per week like you claim to have, you wouldn't be writing about some stripper girl online. If you spend $100.00 on each date and you are seeing 70 new girls per week then that means you spend $7,000.00 on women per week; that would be sad. Yet, later in the tread you state you only have 7 plates. Which one is the truth?

Way to judge people, Neil. I live on my own independently of my parents and get women for free that you would have to pay to get involved with; I am also a male. We are not trying to make life difficult for you, man. We are simply trying to get you out of that hole in which you have fallen. Being good with women is about having leadership, thinking fast, and not fearing women because you have options. I have dated 8's and 9's and all of them pay their part of the check when we hangout. They go out with me for the joy of my company, not for the things I will buy them.

 

[cordoncordon]

I just had to post here. Neil, I have actually grown to kind of like you as I think you are a nice guy at heart, but deep down you suffer from some major insecurities. I am dealing with the same right now with a ceo of a company in LA that has actually become a good friend of mine. The guy is a multi hundred millionaire, has a 20,000 ft mansion in Beverly Hills, and he and his wife were just featured on Bravo 2 weeks ago on the show "Interior Therapy" with jeff lewis. They were the couple that was on the show titled "Charity begins at home". Look him up. In fact I just spend Easter Sunday over at his mansion. Quite a fun time.

Anyway, my point in all this is you would think this ceo, who has hundreds of millions, a mansion in bev hills, a ex soft porn wife, he seemingly has it all, would be so self confident and sure of himself. But he isn't. He is such a nice guy, and so full of insecurities and wanting to prove himself TO EVERYONE, and so WANTING to be liked by everyone, that it really affects how he deals with people and situations that arise. He is so overly sensitive to criticism and any negativity towards him that it really dominates his life, and hence he is not always happy all the time. It really boggles all belief. He is such a great guy, so caring and giving, that it really bothers me to see him so sensitive and so NOT confident at times. Here are a few videos you can watch from the show he was on. http://www.bravotv.com/interior-the...ode-2-charity-begins-at-home?cid=schedblockep

But anyway Neil, this is how I see you a lot of the time. You seem to have a good career, you are smart, but wow are you a narcassist. Big time. You simply cannot take any negative feedback without going nuts. And this need you have to surround yourself with young strippers? I don't get it. They are with you because you are giving them something.....money. Every girl you have talked about recently, from who you have gone out with to who you sexed, did so because of money. Not because they are into YOU as a person.

Remember you sent me pics of you and the stripper you were dating. The stripper was at best a 7, at best. And in 5 years she will be a 5. And while you certainly are not ugly by any means, being honest I give you a 6 or so. That does not mean you can't get hot chicks. With guys there is way more to it than looks. But why not go after girls that you know want to be with you, for you. And not this image you are portraying or your money? I think you would be much happier.

 

[sstype]

I just had to post here. Neil, I have actually grown to kind of like you as I think you are a nice guy at heart, but deep down you suffer from some major insecurities. I am dealing with the same right now with a ceo of a company in LA that has actually become a good friend of mine. The guy is a multi hundred millionaire, has a 20,000 ft mansion in Beverly Hills, and he and his wife were just featured on Bravo 2 weeks ago on the show "Interior Therapy" with jeff lewis. They were the couple that was on the show titled "Charity begins at home". Look him up. In fact I just spend Easter Sunday over at his mansion. Quite a fun time.

Anyway, my point in all this is you would think this ceo, who has hundreds of millions, a mansion in bev hills, a ex soft porn wife, he seemingly has it all, would be so self confident and sure of himself. But he isn't. He is such a nice guy, and so full of insecurities and wanting to prove himself TO EVERYONE, and so WANTING to be liked by everyone, that it really affects how he deals with people and situations that arise. He is so overly sensitive to criticism and any negativity towards him that it really dominates his life, and hence he is not always happy all the time. It really boggles all belief. He is such a great guy, so caring and giving, that it really bothers me to see him so sensitive and so NOT confident at times. Here are a few videos you can watch from the show he was on. http://www.bravotv.com/interior-the...ode-2-charity-begins-at-home?cid=schedblockep

But anyway Neil, this is how I see you a lot of the time. You seem to have a good career, you are smart, but wow are you a narcassist. Big time. You simply cannot take any negative feedback without going nuts. And this need you have to surround yourself with young strippers? I don't get it. They are with you because you are giving them something.....money. Every girl you have talked about recently, from who you have gone out with to who you sexed, did so because of money. Not because they are into YOU as a person.

Remember you sent me pics of you and the stripper you were dating. The stripper was at best a 7, at best. And in 5 years she will be a 5. And while you certainly are not ugly by any means, being honest I give you a 6 or so. That does not mean you can't get hot chicks. With guys there is way more to it than looks. But why not go after girls that you know want to be with you, for you. And not this image you are portraying or your money? I think you would be much happier.

If he's searching for love or a genuine connection then yes I would agree he's definitely going about it the wrong way. No amount of money can buy a loving relationship and any guy who deludes thinking otherwise deserves to get his wallet cleaned out.

I don't know neil's intentions or background but it appears he just wants to play the field and enjoy the company of young beautiful women. If he has to shell out a little cash to do that, and doesn't mind it, then so what?? Do you propose he go to a mid 20s bar and be "that old creepy" guy hitting on young college aged women? You even acknowledge the guy's a 6 in looks so how does he compete with the younger better looking guys.
A little perspective here please.

No disrespect cordon, but weren't you willing to bang the ADD Asian chick even though you didn't really like her? Don't you think this whole narrative of "any average guy can casually bang a hot woman of his choosing, but if she wants to be taken out to dinner she's a superficial gold-digger who doesn't like you for you" somewhat hypocritical?

I mean this whole thread reminds me of that picture of the ugly feminist protesting outside the Hooters restaurant. You guys seem really bitter that some men have the means to bypass all the b.s. and get the women they want, when they want. I wouldn't totally rely on money to win a woman over, but if you've got good game and decent looks, then a little coin can give you the edge to close the deal.

 

[cordoncordon]

If I believed for one second that all he wanted was a quick bang with some hotties, than yeah I would agree with you. If that is all you are looking for, nothing wrong with an older guy spending a few bucks to get some action.

But.....that isn't what Neil wants, no matter what he says. Read his prior posts on the stripper he "dated" for a few months. The guy was head over heels, in love, infatuated, practically obsessed with her. He was truly upset when she was ignoring him, hence all his different threads on her and what was wrong. IMO he does want a relationship, a LTR, but he seems to only want to have one with 20 year old strippers he throws money at, and quite frankly, the odds of anything meaningful happening with that are next to nill.

As far as the ADD Asian, yeah I said if I was single I would bang her. But thats it. And meeting her was in the course of normal everyday happenings and conversation. Not a strip club. And I wouldn't spend money on her lol. She has plenty of that. Not to mention she is high quality. PhD, attorney, puts together business deals. Anddddd not to mention it would have been in Vegas lol. Home of the pump and dump. You dont have to date them in Vegas. You dont have to spend a dime on them there. Totally different situation than Neil going to a strip club and spending who knows what to get these girls to talk to him.

 

[AlexDP]

Gee, take it from the 22 year old who lives with her mom. How many high maintenance women would even GLANCE at a 22 year old? Zero. Robyn has never in her life had a date with a high maintenance woman.

You're one of the saddest people I've ever seen. You're so deluded. I really feel for you. All the best, neil, you're going to need it.

 

[bigneil]

If you had 70 new women per week like you claim to have, you wouldn't be writing about some stripper girl online.

I had 7 new women, but it was claimed that you had ten times my game.

7*10 = 70. I guess you don't have ten times the math skills though.

 

[cordoncordon]

I had 7 new women, but it was claimed that you had ten times my game.

7*10 = 70. I guess you don't have ten times the math skills though, which explains why you can't afford to pay for your dates. Not sure where you got the $100 per kiss thing. I kiss girls before I go on a date with them, in order for them to prove that I should call them. It's called a kiss close and when you become a master seducer it is natural. I only paid $100 total, plus a few table dances.

Cordon, there is not ONE MEMBER who would choose your 36 year old Asian chick over a 20 year old Hungarian stripper. Except you. Don't make me put those photos on Hot or Not and prove it. I hope everyone thinks the stripper is a 5. If she's only a 7 (as if a 7 could work as a stripper), and I'm only a 6 (as if a 6 could seduce strippers half his age), then she's not too far out of my league. Plus, if I'm only a 6 and can date such hot women, it should be good news for everyone. I never claimed to be a pretty boy. Girls don't base their attraction to me based on a random photo.

Regarding our "dating" those were her words, not mine. She's not my steady girlfriend, but if putting it in quotes implies I pay for sex that's obviously not true. I don't consider paying for sex to be dating. Though I don't consider paying for dinner to be paying for sex either. Those who can't afford it obviously do.


This was the happiest week of my life, so it would make sense that the Anti-Truth AlexDP would fart something out like this. PS - you've never "seen" me.

Well.....lets ask the audience. Btw my gf is 32.

So here you have a very sane, laid back, never done a drug in her life, no drama, super fun down for anything, loves me to death for me, who makes a great living as an accountant.

Then here we have your 20 year old stripper who does drugs and who may or may not even like you, but for sure loves your money.

More later.....maybe
Vote? I dont even think its close. I was being nice before. Your girl is a 5...at best. You are lucky you deleted that pic I had of you. Im sure everyone would have loved to have seen it.

 

[bigneil]

First, cordon is publishing photos that I sent in private and is showing how desperate he is to promote his mail-order bride.

Second, I rest my case that the stripper is hotter (exact photo rated 8.7 on Hot or Not).

The reason I never published pictures of her is because it could put her at serious risk. This is a public forum and she works in a public establishment. If anyone had any doubt what a slimy mother-fvcker cordon is, now it is official.

 

[cordoncordon]

First, cordon is publishing photos that I sent in private and is showing how desperate he is to promote his mail-order bride.

Second, I rest my case that the stripper is hotter.

Haha funny. Truly funny. No way no shot no way in any fantasy land is that girl better looking than my gf. And I am not even being prejiduced here. I will fully admit if a girl is better looking. But here? No way man. And that girl is 12 years younger. I mean cmon. I am not going to get into a flame war with you because as I said earlier, I actually see you making some progess and I think deep down you are an ok guy, you are just insecure. At least you came to the right place for help.

And secondly? Mail order? Haha. She has lived in the USA since she was 4, fully Americanized and not a hint of an accent. Hell she acts more American than I do.

 

[Masculinity]

I had 7 new women, but it was claimed that you had ten times my game.

7*10 = 70. I guess you don't have ten times the math skills though.

I don't mean to attack or bash you; I wrote in the first place to try to get you to see this pvssy trance into which you have fallen. But seriously Neil, out of all people, should you be talking about math when you practically pay these women for their company?

It's basically prostitution (assuming you are getting sex from these strippers). I am genuinely concerned about you because you are in a vulnerable position in which a woman is very likely to take advantage of you and your resources. I understand that you may not like to hear advice from a man who is half your age; heck, I probably wouldn't like to hear advice from a 10-year-old either, but two heads think better than one. You don't have to admit anything in public or thank me--just take sometime for yourself and be honest about what you're doing. I think you can do much better, man.

 

[bigneil]

Robyn923b, kissing a bartender is prostitution? Getting a date with a barmaid is prostitution? Having sex for free with a stripper outside the club is prostitution? Getting a lap dance and phone number and hooking up outside the club is prostitution? No, prostitution is when they have a pimp and they have no choice who they sleep with. Strippers are just like regular college party girls who have fun and do whatever they want, teasing 99% of guys and satisfying 1%. They don't french-kiss customers. The manager doesn't tell you to keep the dating outside the club when you are a customer. And one way or another you compensate them, whether directly tipping them at first or buying them dinner or paying for a hotel in a far off city. And when you have lots of money, you don't care about splurging. Robyn923b I hope you eventually earn enough money to be generous with your women.

 

[cordoncordon]

Ive come to

What a man does is he risks his safety to protect the honor and safety of a woman. What a coward like cordon does is he risks the safety of a woman (by publishing a photo of her) to stroke his own ego. cordoncoward is the lamest MF on this forum, and no woman of his own nationality would ever date him.

Robyn923b, kissing a bartender is prostitution? Getting a date with a barmaid is prostitution? Having sex for free with a stripper outside the club is prostitution? Getting a lap dance and phone number and hooking up outside the club is prostitution? No, prostitution is when they have a pimp and they have no choice who they sleep with. Strippers are just like regular college party girls who have fun and do whatever they want, teasing 99% of guys and satisfying 1%. And one way or another you compensate them, whether directly tipping them at first or buying them dinner or paying for a hotel. Again, now we are assuming I paid all 7 different women that I met because we can't accept that any man could score.

I have come to realize that you are basically just nuts. I mean a narsacisstic freakaziod who has such a misguided and overblown impression of who you are that its literally mind blowing, and who for whatever reason thinks that strippers who you pay money to "want you". Remember, Ive seen your picture. I have it saved. Do you really want me to show it? I can. I won't out of courtesy, but lets say you look a lot like this.
http://imageshack.us/photo/my-images/31/neil11.jpg/

And that is not an exaggeration.

 

[Masculinity]

Ive come to
I have come to realize that you are basically just nuts. I mean a narsacisstic freakaziod who has such a misguided and overblown impression of who you are that its literally mind blowing, and who for whatever reason thinks that strippers who you pay money to "want you". Remember, Ive seen your picture. I have it saved. Do you really want me to show it? I can. I won't out of courtesy, but lets say you look a lot like this.
http://imageshack.us/photo/my-images/31/neil11.jpg/

And that is not an exaggeration.

Yup, he has some loose screws. The pic of the stripper isn't showing up.

By the way Cordon, I never head back from you about hanging out. What's up?

 

[EvilAgenda]

She is Russian. Russian women are brought up expecting to be treated like little princesses.

Treat her like one, it is important to her, while remaining dominant.