The guys that hook up with women like it's the easiest thing in the world.

[TKool]

They annoy me!

You know those guys. They're with a new girl every month. They break up with their GF and dating/banging another chick in a week. They talk about meeting a chick at the bar and having wild sex that night.

It's like girls to them are as easy as breathing.

 

[Ice882]

If you relax and don't stress about what you're saying to girls they respond much better.

 

[( . )( . )]

They annoy me!

Dont see the annoyance myself. On the other hand whiny and timid AFC's who lurk in the background I loathe with a passion, the sneaky phuck corruptors of society that they are.

 

[Isko]

I just looked at your past posts, and just from the first page, it seems obvious that you feel insecure about not having had as much sex as you think everyone else has had.

Well... The average number of girls that a guy sleeps with in a lifetime is 7. Don't feel bad, no matter what. If a guy died a virgin, he shouldn't feel bad. If a guy was at 200+, he shouldn't feel bad. It wasn't the right time for you. If it had been meant to happen, it would've. And when it is, it will. Over and over again. If you want it to happen, don't get bitter; just set up the conditions for it happening.

You're judging yourself--harshly--and it's not healthy. You aren't failing to get laid, because you aren't TRYING to get laid. There is no try. There is only do. You are just doing things. Sometimes you have sex. Sometimes you don't. Eventually you'll see that you had a lot more choice in the matter than you realized. You were CHOOSING not to have sex, strange as it may sound. You were subconsciously afraid that you'd get murdered by a boyfriend, or the girl would be psycho, or that you wouldn't enjoy it and then you wouldn't know what to do instead of chase girls, etc. You feel SAFE and SECURE as who you are now; you would be taking a RISK by becoming a ladies' man. (I don't know how universal that is, actually, but it was true for me. I thought I was insecure in myself, but actually I was afraid of the unknown; of the new people and circumstances I was inviting into my life.)

It's no big deal. It IS pretty ****ing easy to hook up with girls. You KNOW you aren't annoyed; you're JEALOUS/ENVIOUS. You realllllly want to be that guy.

FIND THAT GUY AND HANG OUT WITH HIM. It'll teach you a lot. Put your ego aside. Don't be embarrassed. YOU are the one who decides whether or not you're successful as a human. In my opinion, just being alive makes you successful. Girls are just fun. They have nothing to do with being a success, a failure, happy, or good.

 

[corrector]

FIND THAT GUY AND HANG OUT WITH HIM. It'll teach you a lot. Put your ego aside. Don't be embarrassed. YOU are the one who decides whether or not you're successful as a human. In my opinion, just being alive makes you successful. Girls are just fun. They have nothing to do with being a success, a failure, happy, or good.

Yeah, but if he does that then he's admitting defeat to the other guy and becomes an omega male around him. Do you think people are really going to help someone compete against his own harem? Even if he tried, it has to be inside the OP, or nothing will work.

It's easy to say girls are just fun if it's not an issue getting one.

 

[Iceberg]

They annoy me!

Totally. I hate successful people. I'm all like, "Yo bro. Why you gotta be so successful?!"

Yeah, but if he does that then he's admitting defeat to the other guy and becomes an omega male around him. Do you think people are really going to help someone compete against his own harem? Even if he tried, it has to be inside the OP, or nothing will work.

It's easy to say girls are just fun if it's not an issue getting one.

First of all, it's "alpha male"...unless you think this guy is getting so many chicks because he's the Antichrist.

Secondly, hanging around successful people isn't admitting defeat. There are plenty of girls to go around. The friends I had that were successful with girls had no problem introducing me to a set. There's no better way to walk up to a group of 2 or 3 girls than with a wingman. It's not "competition"...it's assistance.

 

[squirrels]

They annoy me!

You know those guys. They're with a new girl every month. They break up with their GF and dating/banging another chick in a week. They talk about meeting a chick at the bar and having wild sex that night.

It's like girls to them are as easy as breathing.

Why do you find that annoying?

 

[Kailex]

They annoy me!

You know those guys. They're with a new girl every month. They break up with their GF and dating/banging another chick in a week. They talk about meeting a chick at the bar and having wild sex that night.

It's like girls to them are as easy as breathing.

Translation:

I hate that I'm an AFC while all the DJ's get the girls. I hate that I signed up for a forum and have not bothered to read the source material that could possibly help me become not only a better person, but a better dater, and a man with some hint of testicular fortitude.

How dare these MEN talk about having wild sex with women?!

Preposterous.

But while they are having the wild sex with them, I'll be the guy who consoles them and orbits, for months, and even years, because I'm an AFC, I'm a nice guy. I'm gonna slit my wrists though if I can't get a date for Valentine's Day, because that is THE most special day of the year.




Kailex's response:

Time to take the dress off and grow a pair.

 

[Forty0ztoFreedom]

You were CHOOSING not to have sex, strange as it may sound.

Excellent point. Its so true. I've actually been thinking back on past experiences recently where sex/hooking up was clearly on the table, and I created mental blocks for myself or just didn't push hard enough. This girl flat out told me in a text this week that she wanted to fvck me the last time we were partying. Yet I had a hundred excuses why it just "wouldn't work" in my head.

The 'naturals' annoy me too, but not in a vindictive way . . its more annoyance at myself, because I KNOW that is in me too, I just create these mental barriers.

 

[Kal0051]

Why do these guys annoy you? Are they rubbing your face in the fact that they can get girls and you can't? I'd find that annoying, but otherwise your just being jealous. Don't get me wrong, I'm **** with women too, probably one of the few virgins my age (25). But I don't find successful guys annoying, the only thing I find annoying is when I got lectured by a friend of mine when he'd tell me how easy it is to get lots of women (basically he'd tell me to do things I was already doing). Dude, the truth is that some guys can get women easily (it's like breathing for them), and for other guys (like us) it's a struggle. Ranting about it won't help.

 

[HolyG]

Translation:

I hate that I'm an AFC while all the DJ's get the girls. I hate that I signed up for a forum and have not bothered to read the source material that could possibly help me become not only a better person, but a better dater, and a man with some hint of testicular fortitude.

How dare these MEN talk about having wild sex with women?!

Preposterous.

But while they are having the wild sex with them, I'll be the guy who consoles them and orbits, for months, and even years, because I'm an AFC, I'm a nice guy. I'm gonna slit my wrists though if I can't get a date for Valentine's Day, because that is THE most special day of the year.




Kailex's response:

Time to take the dress off and grow a pair.

Lock production up, this thread's a wrap.

 

[f283000]

I can totally understand being a nice guy and being jealous of seeing some guy that treats women like pieces of meat bang a different hb every week. But the thing to understand is that being a good person or having good intentions doesn't get you women.

1. never be jealous of another man's success
2. never ****-block another man. That job is for the target's nosy girlfriends

 

[zekko]

Dont see the annoyance myself. On the other hand whiny and timid AFC's who lurk in the background I loathe with a passion, the sneaky phuck corruptors of society that they are.

I get your point.
But if you're so solid with women, why come on this forum? Why would someone who gets girls easily even come here? Just to give everyone the benefit of your wisdom? Most people on this forum have at least some AFC tendencies in their past.

I agree you shouldn't be jealous of other people's success, but I can understand being frustrated by it, especially if it's something you've been struggling with.

 

[( . )( . )]

I get your point.
But if you're so solid with women, why come on this forum? Why would someone who gets girls easily even come here? Just to give everyone the benefit of your wisdom? Most people on this forum have at least some AFC tendencies in their past.

I dunno man, some weirdass attachment to the place that helped me remove the veil maybe, and just to piss you off I guess?

I agree you shouldn't be jealous of other people's success, but I can understand being frustrated by it, especially if it's something you've been struggling with.

Being frustrated is one thing, whining like a non productive b!tch when you have the entire toolkit layed out in front of you is a whole different kettle of fish.

 

[zekko]

Being frustrated is one thing, whining like a non productive b!tch when you have the entire toolkit layed out in front of you is a whole different kettle of fish.

Good point. It's better to light a candle than to curse the darkness.