The Great Text Debate

[bukowski_merit]

This alone is reason enough for why every man should be texting. There is immense power in arousing a woman through text, then later on her arousing herself over and over again by rereading your text.

As far as emoticons and lol's are concerned...fvck all of you who hate on these :cuss:. I use a fair amount of lololol's, bwahaha's, hehe's and and my texting turns out fine. Think of it as seasoning to an already delicious meal.

What about if they're trying to bang a cheerleader?

And a woman's imagination can be dirtier than a guys. They may just need you to "open it up" for them. Also, if you're known as a "texter", or to have a way with words, they'll initiate it. Then if you can get them off over texting, then when you guys meet, and you will, she'll make sure of that....your work will already be done. It's just another form of foreplay, a way to show your sexual side.

Example:

Her: It's cold out

You: Maybe you should find something to keep you warm

Easy. Gauge off her response, she can take this one in many directions. Go from there.

Couldn't have said it better myself gentlemen.

I can easily tell who really gets women around here and who doesn't....

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As many know - I don't go on dates. I have women come to my house. The above example, and heavy sexual texts are necessary to get to that point.

1. Meet a girl
2. Ask her to come over my house
Result = 90 out of 100 a fail.

1. Meet a girl
2. Establish a good flirting rapport through text
3. Turn it sexual (get into her head; make her wet)
4. Invite her over
Result = 90 out of 100 success.

Could I get the same result on the talking phone? No, I don't think I could. Women are a lot more open sexually through text (in my experience). Talking on the phone is only necessary for me to get through any resistance she's having about coming over (because they have time to think when responding through text; if I talk to them on the phone - persuasion is 10Xs easier.)


So what does this mean?

Well, texting is an effective form of communication when done right. It can do everything from gauge interest, to establish rapport, to get her dripping for you......... If you've never experienced this - it's not our fault or the women's.



Caring about if it makes you look like a man without options or any of that nonsense is dumb. Live your life how you want to live it. Women will respect you a lot more if they can tell you're authentic. I can't even count the # of women who've told me that they admire that about me.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Texting is a just one of many forms of communication. It emphasizes short, frequent, focused messages (as opposed to emails or letters, which are less frequent but more extensive and often deal with several topics at a time). As with any other form of communication, one can be good, mediocre or bad at texting. And I have a feeling that the anti-texting guys are simply bad at this particular form of communication (and perhaps at written communication in general).

Texting is a tool. Nothing more, nothing less. Learn to use it effectively and you will succeed.

 

[GS750]

I also wanted to mention, the last two girls I met (20 and 24), when I asked for the number said "xxx-xxx-xxxx" text me. Not call me. TEXT ME. So you must learn how to do it if you want success. It's here to stay.