the girl cried for me

[the pain]

well from the end i am so in love with this 10girl and she is the best i just thought she will never do this because she will never do it ever what she did she cried when i told her i want us to stop being together


i alredy before i turned to this site told her i loved her

well u can guess what the hell hapened i was ovvvvvvvvvvvver

but i finnely ten minutes ago got the balls to say it in the most romantic way and she realy cried then we agread its better that way and the hell im so happy im not so sure she will come back but first of all i did what i have to do i am the man


the pain makes us do the impposible..........love yyyyyyyyyaaaaaa

 

[Ice Cold]

Don't they teach you to capitalize and write in sentences in Lebanon?

It hurts to read it man.

 

[the pain]

thats all u can say say something a dj would say man........!

 

[iqqi]

isn't that a ja rule song? "you cryyyy, i cryyyyy...."

oh, yeah, and next her. fukk 10 hot babes.

 

[the pain]

Bump

 

[the pain]

ok im begining to feel that i need to call her..........what should i do?
How about some professional help over here ok

 

[Monkey]

Lets get this straight.

You had a girlfriend and told her you loved her.
Then you told her you don't want to see her anymore.
She cried.
You then said 'I love you' again but this time you both agreed that its best not to get back together.
She really cried this time.
Now you are very happy but not sure if she'll come back.
You are the man.
Now you want to call her.

 

[Aztec]

Don't take what you said now. If you say goodbye, don't say, "Oh I'm just playing, sugarplum. I'm nothing without you."

 

[drake]

You know man I told this girl that I needed to break up with her. And now all I can think about is her. The next time I start seeing another LTR girl, Im going to stop coming to this site. Its not that we werent compatible, its that I was to nieve to believe that I possibly had a girl that was everything I was looking for. This site preaches how you should NEVER go back to an ex. I can understand that to a certain degree. But 2 married couples that I know and one friend with an LTR of over 5 years all broke up and then went back. With good success now!!

Break-ups open your eyes to things that are hard to see when you are in a relationship. Like what you REALLY care about. I only fought with my girl a couple of times........oddly enough since we broke up I have never thought about those fights once. But I do remember going on trips with her, skydiving with her and how she was around my family. My point is, if this girl was just a short term 2-3 months then you might want to consider moving on. But if she was 6 months plus it might be a different story. Obviously since you guys decided it was for the better to be apart and it was mutual....then there is your answer.

 

[the pain]

Guys first she only cried one time when i told her im out

And i did send her a msg today on her phone i said

listen take care of urself...........

Oh by the way i think ill see her tommorow and i will ask her about her job application im helping her with............so what should i do

plz give me some fast answers my connection is not that well
10x for ur help

 

[iqqi]

you are retarded. i hope she is smart enough to next your ass.

oh, and you are delusional as well.

 

[Ice Cold]

^^ That's a bitter little girl, ignore her.

 

[the pain]

What r u saying i should not even look at her i mean she is with me in the university ssssssssssssoooooooooo????????????

and im not retarted im in love u stupid im tryng to make her realise what she missed me...

i want some real deal words not crap now give it to me........ok

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

Nononooonononoooo.

You gotta treat her like she's just some platonic girl ! You gotta be like "hey darlin, so hows it going and all" and all that crap, but don't give her anything extra, just act like you never knew her any better. Oh ye and date alot of other girls and make sure she knows =)

 

[Monkey]

Originally posted by the pain
im in love u stupid im tryng to make her realise what she missed me...

So you split up with this girl to make her realise what she had, errr isn't that taking challenge a bit too far

You either love her and have her as a girlfriend or you don't love her and get rid.

Stupid games like these will backfire, so don't be suprised the next time you see her shes already made up her mind to stay friends only.

 

[MickoZ]

Some comments are useless, but if it entertain good for you. Ok enough of ranting!

You still love her. And you left her.

That is why I find the concept bf/gf stupid. You should not handle those kind of relationship like a contract... unless it is really a game for you to play with the society vision of a couple.

It looks like you go on with a paper:

Ok hi, you want to go out with me? [] yes [] no
Then later
Ok you are out. Bye.

No matter if you say you are "together" or "not" (translation: you deny it) it means nothing. What really mean something is:

how you feel you and her together.

No matter how you are bf or gf together, those kind of thing won't change. But you both can deny it, or say you are together or not.

BTW that go in two sense. People that are married, engaged, whetever and stay together like kind of yes-no game... are not "really together" IMHO.

I am maybe babbling a lot but I am trying to make you understand something and I hope you do now.

 

[the_gunslinger]

I have to say thats the most surreal thing i've read in ages.

why on earth did you dump her if you "love her". What did you possably hope to achieve by dumping her ass?

One thing i learnt from here:

Women, AFCs and children play games, REAL MEN DONT

IF this is some sort of twisted game, and i hope it isnt, then it will blow up in your face, theres no 2 ways about it.

How long have you been going out with this girl? Im curious to know how long a relationship is where you claim your in love then dump her lasts.

 

[the pain]

ok this is the real story

FIRST: the girl and i met from about a year now we were having a business law class together and it all happened..........

2) the girl was in love with another guy that shreded her heart by being a dj she was with him from about 3 years she did everything for him and he never told her he loved her ....until recently..........but i helped her out i mean


we spent so many nights on the phone i always called her and i did everything for her so i got in love with her about 10% love 90% percent sex cause she said she will never have sex with me or love if there was no love between us........so i said the word


3) i must say we r from different religions so in lebenon and for our famalies and culture its the hell if we stayed together we talcked about that alot..........and we agread the best is for us to stay friends but we did made love i did not deflower her nor did i ever used my penis it was the kissing,kino ,and rubbing our bodies although the first time i gave her her first orgasem...

what im tryng to say no futur can be built

4) the word that she refused to say was I LOVE U
AND i am a very .........oh my god she just got in to the internet in the university

5) we always had problems but we always came back together the same way i love her and she say she respect me


6) why i broke up with her its because the last time we made love i didnt even feal she was with me i mean i wanted her to share that moment with me...........ah i got to go.........any way now whatshould i do

the pain is in hell..............of a pain

 

[Sammo]

She didn't cry because YOU dumped her (she doesnt seem that into you anyway), she cried because she got DUMPED and by society, it's the RIGHT THING TO DO.

 

[source]

The Pain, jesus fcking christ, learn how to type. Your name is rather appropriate... *rubs eyes*

I'm straining to even comprehend like 40% of what you just wrote.

So far, what I have understood is that you said you love some chick so you could have sex, but she never said it back, and then she got the internet, and you suddenly screamed "OMG" because your girl actually walked into the internet, inside of 'the' university.

Is the entire internet really inside of 'the' university? And she walked in it too? Jesus man. That's fcked. What a crazy bitc...