The games has just began, she doesn't answer my texts, what to do?

[Pr0lab]

Hi guys,

So I met a girl, invited her over a coffee, took her number she took mine.
was very enthusiastic about all of these.
This morning I sent her a text message with a ****y funny comment (based on the interaction we had and something she said she had done).
and I asked what is she doing this coming week.
so far nor replay, and it might just be that she is busy.
but I just want to know how should I react.
or better, what ****y funny line should go next to "break the ice" so she will answer me?
is it better to have her answer to my txt first and then call her or just call her?

FYI she is a babysitter so I might play something off of it ?
anybody has a line for it ?

 

[Hughman]

Never text, because **** like this happens. Call instead (in future, looks like a lost cause now unless she is actually busy). She will know you've tried to get in touch, if she was really interested, then she wouldn't forget about ever getting back to you (I've had that enough times when I've tried to call them out on their game - I just don't give them the opportunity any more)

 

[Pr0lab]

so what next?
call her up?

 

[Allurre]

Dude. Don't ask her what she's doing next week.

TAKE CONTROL of your destiny and what you want to do with her.

PLAN the date. Don't ask what she's up to.

If she's interested, she'll make time for it, or suggest another day if that particular day you wanted isn't convenient for her.

 

[Pr0lab]

Dude. Don't ask her what she's doing next week.

TAKE CONTROL of your destiny and what you want to do with her.

PLAN the date. Don't ask what she's up to.

If she's interested, she'll make time for it, or suggest another day if that particular day you wanted isn't convenient for her.

I already talked to her at the first time about Wed, she said it should work.
Now I need to change the days to either Tue or Thr.
I can't say, "I am going for a coffee tomorrow, you should come" (it's something that sounds bad if you going by yourself). So can you give me an example of sentence that will work in this case ?
no the other problem is that she is not answering.

 

[Pr0lab]

And another question,
I am going to see her in school tomorrow.
What can I say ****y Funny !? that will not make me look like a wuse?

 

[coffin]

And another question,
I am going to see her in school tomorrow.
What can I say ****y Funny !? that will not make me look like a wuse?

dude dont plan something to say cuz when you do nothing will go the way you plan just roll with it use your sense of humor and tease her or something.

 

[f283000]

prolab, the first thing you need to do is to read the dj bible. You are asking some basic newbie questions that are already answered there. You'll be better off reading it so you raise your game to a level where you already know answers to these sort of questions.

 

[DonJuan11]

Hi guys,

So I met a girl, invited her over a coffee, took her number she took mine.
was very enthusiastic about all of these.
This morning I sent her a text message with a ****y funny comment (based on the interaction we had and something she said she had done).

Did you go for the coffee by the way? You skipped alot here.

and I asked what is she doing this coming week.
so far nor replay, and it might just be that she is busy.
but I just want to know how should I react.

Why are you asking her what she is doing in the coming week? What's it to you? Are you her father? Are you keeping tabs on her like a controlling boyfriend? Are you her probation officer? You should ask "Are you available for XXXX on XXX day?" You have something in mind and you give her the option of saying yes. If you contact her through text, HAVE A PLAN TO DO SOMETHING WITH HER.

What the heck to you mean "how should you react?" You should fire off another text insulting her that she isn't over at your house ripping her clothes off giving you the best most crazy sex ever. The way you should react is NO REACTION.

or better, what ****y funny line should go next to "break the ice" so she will answer me?

Love this mentality. There is no 1,2, or 3 lines that is going to make her fall in love with you and answer you.

is it better to have her answer to my txt first and then call her or just call her?

FYI she is a babysitter so I might play something off of it ?
anybody has a line for it ?

Again, there is no line that is going to make her answer you and fall in love with you. If you contact her, ask her to do something you have in common with her, or did you just want sex when you talked with her? Instead of "What are you doing this week?" that seems very stalkerish, how about "I know this great Italian place down the street and would love to take you if you are available Saturday for lunch."

Wow, this site has brainwashed alot of guys into thinking women are the most cunning, deceitful, tricky creatues ever who will do anything to screw with a guys brain. I love the title "Games have just began", it's like the girl is screwing with his head like Sharon Stone did in Basic Instinct.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Hi guys,

So I met a girl, invited her over a coffee, took her number she took mine.
was very enthusiastic about all of these.
This morning I sent her a text message with a ****y funny comment (based on the interaction we had and something she said she had done).
and I asked what is she doing this coming week.
so far nor replay, and it might just be that she is busy.
but I just want to know how should I react.
or better, what ****y funny line should go next to "break the ice" so she will answer me?
is it better to have her answer to my txt first and then call her or just call her?

FYI she is a babysitter so I might play something off of it ?
anybody has a line for it ?

Girls don't play games with guys they're interested in. If you went to coffee with her and text her and she didn't reply that's a sign of LOW INTEREST. Looks like you've already made two separate posts about this chick in one day..... You've got one-itis bad!!!

Your over-thinking, over-analyzing and stressing over nothing.


1) Read the DJ Bible
2) Go meet more girls
3) Don't put all your eggs in one basket



PIMP

 

[SickAgain]

Before you next I'd call her once just to see what happens. Some girls don't have texting plans believe it or not. Don't get your hopes up though.

 

[mikel]

Dude..Just going off what you said. If your needing us to roll off one liners to tell this girl. Then I think it's over even if she does reply to you and pimp sicle is right, your over analyzing and overthinking. There have been girls I've been interested in that I haven't txted back immediately I would wait a couple of days sometimes, until I had something that we could do, then I would txt call and invite her.

Just relax, and be yourself. You dont need this much advice for something this simple. If she doesn't reply, then who cares. It's not that big of a deal.

 

[Daniel1099]

I Disagree with some of what you guys have said earlier...

Girls WILL play games with guys their interested in.

especially in highschool...i do it to girls im interested in...

I also did an experiment a while back with my Ex...

she is starting to "talk" to this one guy that is completely opposite of who she usually dates... i drink, smoke occasionaly, curse, i like *****, etc, im kind of a **** to people, and im arrogant, ****y, and i only go for Hb 9-10 lmfao..

anyways, this guy she is talking to is Christian, he has never kissed a girl, held a girls hand, he watches The Hills on a regular occasion...basically a total puss.

and im giving my ex advice on her situation like a FRIEND would.

then we go out to the movies with friends. and i sit next to her..

10 min later. i get her to cuddle with me, caress me, etc etc.

i was being a TOTAL friend with her the night before. giving her ADVICE on a guy she is trying to get with...

and i totally fuked with her head by getting close to her in the movies

 

[Pr0lab]

I think I f*** that up buy saying, "you owe me an apology".
so today in school I was nonchalant to her and wasn't giving her attention.
Buy I see her making eye contact and the fact she is seated behind me and not at the end of the class.
so my question is how do I put her on her place and sending her a msg again and saying something like:
"we should go out, I know you attracted, but for some reason you acting immaturely"
the problem with this, that it is not a strict msg, and It doesn't sounds like something that I wants to convey which is "stop with the bull****, you like me, I know that, lets go out"

can anybody help me with the phrasing of this one ?

this is the irritative part, I can feel she is interested, she is testing me. and I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO WITH IT !!!

 

[Daniel1099]

duuuuuude

just calm the fuk down....

play the game back. flirt with other girls...dont LOOK for her in the hallways or lunch time. just do your own thing...

if she does something stupid, embaressing, or funny. call her on it... then go from their.

you sound like your already developing oneitis

if you walk past her smile and say "hey"

just sh*t like this. and when you have time during class, bring up convos...be a fun guy at school,flirt with the teachers, just go all out.

she will notice

 

[Pr0lab]

lol ....

well she is definitely not a oneitis, I just feel that is something that I missing and probably I should be more aggressive and alpha and say I am the man her, not you, because she still keeping eye contact and etc. after she was a btch to me. so for me this is like a challenge to prove to myself that I will not take no in THIS SPECIFIC case, it's like looking at 100 bill on the ground, and not having the ability to grasp it.

how about txt in this manner, with in a week ?
“I will give you one more chance. I KNOW you attracted to me! So stop playing the testing games, because it won’t take you far. Now I am going to work on mng. Project at starbucks on Wed and I want you to come along to chit chat”

 

[Igetit!]

well she is definitely not a oneitis, I just feel that is something that I missing and probably I should be more aggressive and alpha and say I am the man her, not you,

LOL....You seriuosly plan on saying this to her? "I'm the man here,not you". Oh man,this makes my side hurt from laughing so hard. Look,don't say this to her. You shouldn't have to verbalize the actual words,"I'm the man here,not you". Those words should NEVER come out of your mouth to her. Just you saying that is like you're trying to covince her. "I'm the man here. No,I am. No really,I am the man". You being a man should be evident. It should come across in your walk,talk,your demeanor,the way you behave around and towards her.

It's like trying to convince someone you're rich. You can tell them about how you get your money,pull out a wad of cash from your pocket,say "here,look at my watch,it's gold with diamonds on the hands",etc. You can do all that,or you can simply pull up in a Benz,step out of the car in a three piece suit,check your Rolex to see what time it is,etc. It shouldn't have to be explained to someone that you're rich,they should be able to see it and tell it without you saying a single word.

This is how it should be with you letting this girl know you're a man.

how about txt in this manner, with in a week ?
“I will give you one more chance. I KNOW you attracted to me! So stop playing the testing games, because it won’t take you far.

Don't say this to her. You're not going to bully or ultimate her into a date. And that "I KNOW you're attraced to me" line,I wouldn't go there man.

Stop trying to convince her you're a man,and just BE a man.

 

[Pr0lab]

LOL....You seriuosly plan on saying this to her? "I'm the man here,not you". Oh man,this makes my side hurt from laughing so hard. Look,don't say this to her. You shouldn't have to verbalize the actual words,"I'm the man here,not you". Those words should NEVER come out of your mouth to her. Just you saying that is like you're trying to covince her. "I'm the man here. No,I am. No really,I am the man". You being a man should be evident. It should come across in your walk,talk,your demeanor,the way you behave around and towards her.

It's like trying to convince someone you're rich. You can tell them about how you get your money,pull out a wad of cash from your pocket,say "here,look at my watch,it's gold with diamonds on the hands",etc. You can do all that,or you can simply pull up in a Benz,step out of the car in a three piece suit,check your Rolex to see what time it is,etc. It shouldn't have to be explained to someone that you're rich,they should be able to see it and tell it without you saying a single word.

This is how it should be with you letting this girl know you're a man.


Don't say this to her. You're not going to bully or ultimate her into a date. And that "I KNOW you're attraced to me" line,I wouldn't go there man.

Stop trying to convince her you're a man,and just BE a man.

lol !!!
I just send the draft, I didn't really meant to send her "I am the man, not you"

Stop trying to convince her you're a man,and just BE a man.

By doing what ? saying what ?
now I have to be assertive in away that I can't put up with her b.s and by been the same nice people is not gonna work...

 

[Igetit!]

By doing what ? saying what ?

Not by doing or saying anything,you just ARE. There's no "action' you can do that'll make you a man. There's no "phrase",or specific set of words you say that'll make you a man. As long as you're looking for some words to say or some action to perform,you'll continue to have unecessary problems with women.
The way she'll see you're a man is by how you carry yourself. You said that this girl was testing you,right? You have any idea why? It's to see if you're a man or not. Look,she's a woman,which means she's weaker than you. Well,if she,being a woman can shake you,that is,shake your confidence,if she being a weak woman can not show up on a date,or not return a text/phonecall,and have you fall all to pieces,you think she'll feel safe with you? You're the man. You're supposed to be bigger,stronger,more powerful than her. You're supposed to be her safe haven,her rock,her protector. Well,if little o' her can shake your foundation simply by not returning a text,you think she's going to look up to you? Respect you? Of course not. No respect=no sexual attraction.

If she doesn't return a phonecall or text,you don't respond by saying to her,"Hey,I'm the man here". So she didn't return your text. Uh...yeah,and? Don't put your life on pause for this girl.. Oh,what...is she hot? What,you don't want to "screw this up"? If you're willing to put up with crap/disrespect froma girl simply because she's "hot",then you're not there yet. You're NOT a man,at least not to her. If you're willing to put your pride,self-respect,and self-worth to the side for a "hot chick",then you might as well get used to this kind of behavoir from women,because if they sense weakness,then they're out for blood. And she'll act worse and worse until....

1:You grow a backbone and stand up for yourself.

or

2:She gets bored of toying with you,and moves on to another guy.


If she hasn't returned your text,then you can wait a day or two and contact her again. Then,if she doesn't return that text,then move on.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

lol ....

well she is definitely not a oneitis,

She's not a one-itis, but you've made multiple posts about her in one day; your planning out lines to say to her, and you can't stop thinking about her..... that's one-itis to the worst level.

I just feel that is something that I missing and probably I should be more aggressive and alpha and say I am the man her, not you, because she still keeping eye contact and etc. after she was a btch to me. so for me this is like a challenge to prove to myself that I will not take no in THIS SPECIFIC case, it's like looking at 100 bill on the ground, and not having the ability to grasp it.

This is where you don't get it.. She has low interest in you, your not a priority, she has other dudes she's interested in. You should be pursuing other chicks too. You've fuvked up by trying to be something your not. You can only keep up the "fake confidence" game for so long before a girl will see through it. Instead, you should work on actually becoming confident so you don't have to fake it...



how about txt in this manner, with in a week ?
“I will give you one more chance. I KNOW you attracted to me! So stop

More like "PLEEEASE GIVE ME A CHANCE." I CAN'T TELL IF YOUR ATTRACTED TO ME....

playing the testing games, because it won’t take you far. Now I am going to work on mng. Project at starbucks on Wed and I want you to come along to chit chat”

"SO STOP SHOWING SIGNS OF LOW LOW LOW INTEREST, AND COME HANG OUT WITH ME."

You have a better chance of becoming the President of the United States than getting this girl.....

Go read the Bible and find out where you are steering off-course.




PIMP