The Game is Rigged

[JustLurk]

The game is rigged, that's all. The more I live the more I see it.
Can you guys name some instances where you noticed how rigged the game was? I don't want to come up as hating or anything but it is pretty damn rigged towards people who got lucky with genetics...

 

[CuriousGirl]

Erm whether you're 'gaming' or not.....good looking people are always going to get luckier, get approached more, it's just the long term and serious relationships that rely on other things.

 

[Cry For Love]

Yeah, the whole universe is rigged. Macroscopic determinism and all. Your life is predetermined, free will is only your imagination, your ego is only the implication of the neurochemistry that forms it. Tough luck

 

[zekko]

I don't want to come up as hating or anything but it is pretty damn rigged towards people who got lucky with genetics...

If you're a woman the game is definitely rigged by genetics. If you're a man there are things you can do to compensate. But almost everyone gets lucky with genetics, if you haven't been born with Down's Syndrome or other defects.

I was thinking about how badly women have it today. I was talking to two girls this morning, one was ugly, the other was attractive. The ugly girl was trying to be a part of the conversation and get my attention, but I couldn't help but focus on the attractive one. I felt kind of sorry for the poor girl afterwards.

 

[JustLurk]

You're right guys... There's a lot of people out there who have it worse than me, so I should just man up, stay positive, and go out and have fun. :yes:

 

[Uberguy]

If you're a woman the game is definitely rigged by genetics. If you're a man there are things you can do to compensate. But almost everyone gets lucky with genetics, if you haven't been born with Down's Syndrome or other defects.

I was thinking about how badly women have it today. I was talking to two girls this morning, one was ugly, the other was attractive. The ugly girl was trying to be a part of the conversation and get my attention, but I couldn't help but focus on the attractive one. I felt kind of sorry for the poor girl afterwards.

^This. As men, our sexual worth is defined by who we are. Even if we're born ugly and poor, if we have enough tenacity, talent and force of will, we can make ourselves into the types of men that women dream about.

But women have it worse. A woman's sexual worth is defined by what she looks like. So her luck is pretty much determined from the moment she is born.

Life isn't fair, but it's easier on us guys than it is on women.

 

[ArcBound]

Yes you're right. But you can either bvtch about it and stay at the bottom. Or learn how to improve yourself so you can one day land a hot bvtch be happy with her and have a kid. Then THAT kid will have "better genetics" since you married a hot girl. Think of it as a promise to your future kid: you'll stop complaining, do better and give him/her an advantage that you never had.

 

[OldbutSTRONG]

I was thinking about how badly women have it today. I was talking to two girls this morning, one was ugly, the other was attractive. The ugly girl was trying to be a part of the conversation and get my attention, but I couldn't help but focus on the attractive one. I felt kind of sorry for the poor girl afterwards.

When you're an ugly man you have other ways to attract women besides looks. When you're an ugly female the best choice you have is to be someone's booty call. Truely it's a shame to be an ugly female.

 

[Poonani Maker]

When you're an ugly man you have other ways to attract women besides looks. When you're an ugly female the best choice you have is to be someone's booty call. Truely it's a shame to be an ugly female.

I disagree. She can be ugly all she wants, but if she doesn't stay thin and fit, I won't have nothing to do with her. Just this past week I met at woman in a summer dress, and at first, I was meeting her from her backside, and she has the nicest legs and then she turned around revealing the smoothest silky puffy breasts and chest, shoulders, but when I looked up at her face, she was quite ugly, but she knew she had a great body, and I would most definitely do that and even enter into a LTR with her, because think how that would Keep most guys away from your woman. That's the perfect combo.

 

[Scion]

I disagree. She can be ugly all she wants, but if she doesn't stay thin and fit, I won't have nothing to do with her. Just this past week I met at woman in a summer dress, and at first, I was meeting her from her backside, and she has the nicest legs and then she turned around revealing the smoothest silky puffy breasts and chest, shoulders, but when I looked up at her face, she was quite ugly, but she knew she had a great body, and I would most definitely do that and even enter into a LTR with her, because think how that would Keep most guys away from your woman. That's the perfect combo.

Err, how ugly we talking here? Is it a 2 bag situation? You know, 1 for her head and 1 for yours in case her's falls off. Lol.

But seriously, even fat and ugly girls can get a ok looking guy. However, an ok looking guy is limited (unless he has money, fame, or perfect game).

 

[bukowski_merit]

Blah, people just like to make excuses for their limited success.

Yes, good looking guys (or guys with status/money) have it much easier. But that doesn't make your job any harder!

I am average looking at best, have mild acne, round face, a scar on my neck, and appear to be quite skinny (although i workout and am ripped - no one can know this from seeing me without my shirt off); i also work a low income job, and am for the most part - a loner.....

And i FVCK the women of good looking men, wealthy men, and guys of high status................ very hot women, with lovely bodies.... and it's not hard.... it's not hard to be more interesting and challenging than most men, because most men are boring to women (because they don't know how to communicate to them)..... Learn how to speak to their emotions - and flip switches, and build tension - - - and you'll become brad pitt in their eyes....

so, find something else to blame your failures on...

 

[search1ng]

The point raised here about how women have it worse. Never actually considered the implication of genetics on women. Damn. Thank God I'm a male.

 

[Plinco]

Women that are very much into care giving and are feminine and not fat, can still probably do okay.

It is rare to see an ugly woman that is ugly outside of her control.

 

[Nygard]

The game is rigged because you're not supposed to win it. You're not supposed to get the best women out of the pack, they're supposed to be dating those guys that belong on the 10% that has sex with 80% of the women out there.You're screwing around with the rules of preselection and dating that have been on since the humans were not homo sapiens. Very few people actually get to crack the game and get the women they're not supposed to get, are you gonna be one of them?

 

[Trader]

The game is rigged, that's all. The more I live the more I see it.
Can you guys name some instances where you noticed how rigged the game was? I don't want to come up as hating or anything but it is pretty damn rigged towards people who got lucky with genetics...

Rigged towards people who got lucky with genetics? What you feel right now, is what ugly girls feel 10x in every social encounter.

Count yourself lucky and now make up for it in other areas

 

[CaptainJ]

As long as you are not ridiculously short, and don't look like your face has been battered by a cricket bat, then it's piss easy to become goodlooking. Heavy weightlifting, low bodyfat, good haircut and stylish well fitting clothes can turn any man into a stud. Genes don't hold you back, you hold yourself back because you are too lazy to try and fulfill your potential, blaming bad genes for being skinny or not being as funny as seinfeld. Stop whining and man up. Come back and talk when you can squat 1.5xbodyweight, deadlift 2xbw and bench press 1xbw, with bodyfat % around 10%. If you don't even try to change yourself then you don't deserve to have success with women.

 

[zekko]

Very few people actually get to crack the game and get the women they're not supposed to get, are you gonna be one of them?

That's an interesting definition of success with women, getting the women you're not supposed to get. The problem with this line of thinking is that it puts the women on a pedestal. As a man, you should feel that there is no woman that has more value than you. Therefore, there are no women that you are "not supposed to get".

Rigged towards people who got lucky with genetics? What you feel right now, is what ugly girls feel 10x in every social encounter.

I was thinking something similar to this after my conversation with the ugly girl and the attractive girl. I thought how many times in her life has this exact same scenario played out for her? When she was next to a beautiful girl who got all the male attention? I bet it was countless times. How hard must that be on her?

 

[Megaman XIV]

I disagree. She can be ugly all she wants, but if she doesn't stay thin and fit, I won't have nothing to do with her. Just this past week I met at woman in a summer dress, and at first, I was meeting her from her backside, and she has the nicest legs and then she turned around revealing the smoothest silky puffy breasts and chest, shoulders, but when I looked up at her face, she was quite ugly, but she knew she had a great body, and I would most definitely do that and even enter into a LTR with her, because think how that would Keep most guys away from your woman. That's the perfect combo.

You're referring to a butterhead/ butterface, Poonani.

@ Nygard, it's more like 10% of the men do 90% of the f**king. Guys who were born with bad genetics better hope they weren't born with bad money. The guys who crack the game are those who are otherwise average. They hit the lotto (get rich), they become famous, they get plastic surgery, they pimp their rides, etc.

Yes, good looking guys (or guys with status/money) have it much easier. But that doesn't make your job any harder!
I disagree. Since women are the ones doing the choosing (Which gets overridden by a good looking guy or rich guy or high status guy) you have to be allowed a chance to impress. Sometimes, just being trendy won't work. Why do you thing that some guys have some random girl in the club with them? Why do you think some guys rent high end cars for one night? Easy, appear more valuable!

because most men are boring to women (because they don't know how to communicate to them)..... Learn how to speak to their emotions - and flip switches, and build tension - - - and you'll become brad pitt in their eyes....

Once again, if the woman allows you to do so. You may get the girl with a lot of game, but you'll lose 99/100 if a guy who's rich and good looking talks to her. He has more to offer than just love and sex.

Read the blue lines!

Don't you guys realize that pu$$y has a high market value and that women have a high market value? Way more than the average man! Women decide which men to sex up! All this sh*t about "it's the inside that counts" is true when you got the girl. If your personality is wonderful, you'll have no problems keeping the girl.

 

[SexyMofo]

Are you short? The game is rigged against you.

Are you a racial minority? The game is rigged against you.

Facial looks isn't that important for men as long you don't look like a freak and are clean.

It's a tough pill to swallow, you're not going to get the hottest women unless you have a lot of money.

You can improve the quality of women you can get by building your body, improving your confidence, and having a nice style. You just won't get the hottest women.

Use that motivation to make a lot of money. It's out there, how bad do you want it?

 

[Megaman XIV]

Are you short? The game is rigged against you.

Are you a racial minority? The game is rigged against you.

Facial looks isn't that important for men as long you don't look like a freak and are clean.

It's a tough pill to swallow, you're not going to get the hottest women unless you have a lot of money.

You can improve the quality of women you can get by building your body, improving your confidence, and having a nice style. You just won't get the hottest women.

Use that motivation to make a lot of money. It's out there, how bad do you want it?

I know an ugly Asian neighbor who won 3 million dollars off a lottery ticket in Arkansas. I guess buying 100 tickets was a help. Girls at the gas station all gravitated toward this dude and they were telling him how cute he was. I even saw one of these girls tell him flat out, that she wanted to have his baby! One girl even wanted to dump her boyfriend for this guy!

Like I said, Pu$$y has a high market value!