frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
origionally written by organizedconfusion
the 'Game' ends one day...
THE ENDING OF THE 'GAME'
Okay , one of these days the 'Game' has to end- i hope
everyone knows that. Because when you meet that
one girl you fall on LOVE with, things like compromise,
understanding, patience and sacrifice comes into play.
Don't be fooled or brainwashed into believing that
everything still goes when it comes to serious relationships.
Sure, you still have to be 'Da Man' and hold your ground-
but don't be suprised if you have to compromise your
choices, actions , etc. in order to keep the relationship healthy
and balanced.
Please do NOT be fooled that all it takes is to use
'power plays' or tactics (high value/status)and thats all it
takes to maintain a healthy relationship.
I have been in two serious relationships, both lasting about
3 years ea. I for one , was the 'my way of no way type'.
And it was very very similar to the menatlity they teach in
the DYD programs and also similar to DJ teachings.
Not only til i realized that mentality creates resentment
and alot of anger in the relationship.
Is this a girl that you love and respect?
or is this just 'another girl'.
This dosen't mean dropping your nutts and permanently
gluing you lips to a girls a$$, what it means is that
there must be compromise...
sometimes ALOT of it.
Understanding, emotional/mental support ,patience,
being mature and being a MAN about things.
I have a nagging suspicion that alot of guys that have never
had serious relationships or girlfriends may make alot
of mistakes-fearing that they will be 'AFC' or whatever
non-sense,and that the girl will leave or cheat.
Use your head bro! AFC basicly means anything that translates
into being insecure-That's all. So if you stay clear of doing things
that project insecurity and naturally repell people-it's all good!
By holding back and not fully letting yourself go, it
will totally limit your satisfation and enjoyment of the
entire relationship.
I can't help but laugh in my mind that there are guys
'pulling back' when they really want to talk about things
with their girlfriend or wanting to buy flowers to suprise her
but feel like a chump for doing it-
give me a break!
anyways, for all the guys that has never been in a serious
relationship before..you're in for a really really really
big suprise.Because even if you CAN get the beautyfull
girl , will you know what to do when it comes to
keeping a quality woman and maintaining the
romance and attraction of a long term relationship?
how many more tricks are you gonna have to pull out of the bag?
What are you gonna do when you are faced with a dilema
and you HAVE to be a man and no book no teachings
no routines to help you?
will YOU know what to do?
Are you gonna trust yourself to make the right descision?
Are you gonna be yourself or are you gonna be the 'persona'
or 'pseudo-self'?
And if so , don't you think it's kinda SAD that you have to
put on such an act with someone you love soo dearly?
when she is genuine and real and you are..
ACTING.
Dating and picking up girls is fun and but that's nothing
compared to having a really intense relationship-
were there is actually a connection and bond between the
two of you.Don't be fooled that you have to be some
arrogant jerk off in order to attract, meet and keep
a spectacular girl- if thats who you naturally are-
fantastic.
But if it's just a 'persona'-and it's not how you really are...
what's gonna happen when that persona goes down..will she
still be around?
After all, you did attract her with the little tricks and gimmicks
and 'acting' like an 'alpha' , right?
What's her reaction gonna be when and if you reveil the
real you?
Whatever it may be? however dorky, nerdy, whatever
quirks about you it may be? whatever that makes you unique
and makes you different from every tom,steve and harry out there?
If you guys think that a few magic tricks and
acting 'alpha' is all it takes to be a man and hold
an exceptional woman..you are in for a BIG surpise...
the 'Game' ends one day...
THE ENDING OF THE 'GAME'
Okay , one of these days the 'Game' has to end- i hope
everyone knows that. Because when you meet that
one girl you fall on LOVE with, things like compromise,
understanding, patience and sacrifice comes into play.
Don't be fooled or brainwashed into believing that
everything still goes when it comes to serious relationships.
Sure, you still have to be 'Da Man' and hold your ground-
but don't be suprised if you have to compromise your
choices, actions , etc. in order to keep the relationship healthy
and balanced.
Please do NOT be fooled that all it takes is to use
'power plays' or tactics (high value/status)and thats all it
takes to maintain a healthy relationship.
I have been in two serious relationships, both lasting about
3 years ea. I for one , was the 'my way of no way type'.
And it was very very similar to the menatlity they teach in
the DYD programs and also similar to DJ teachings.
Not only til i realized that mentality creates resentment
and alot of anger in the relationship.
Is this a girl that you love and respect?
or is this just 'another girl'.
This dosen't mean dropping your nutts and permanently
gluing you lips to a girls a$$, what it means is that
there must be compromise...
sometimes ALOT of it.
Understanding, emotional/mental support ,patience,
being mature and being a MAN about things.
I have a nagging suspicion that alot of guys that have never
had serious relationships or girlfriends may make alot
of mistakes-fearing that they will be 'AFC' or whatever
non-sense,and that the girl will leave or cheat.
Use your head bro! AFC basicly means anything that translates
into being insecure-That's all. So if you stay clear of doing things
that project insecurity and naturally repell people-it's all good!
By holding back and not fully letting yourself go, it
will totally limit your satisfation and enjoyment of the
entire relationship.
I can't help but laugh in my mind that there are guys
'pulling back' when they really want to talk about things
with their girlfriend or wanting to buy flowers to suprise her
but feel like a chump for doing it-
give me a break!
anyways, for all the guys that has never been in a serious
relationship before..you're in for a really really really
big suprise.Because even if you CAN get the beautyfull
girl , will you know what to do when it comes to
keeping a quality woman and maintaining the
romance and attraction of a long term relationship?
how many more tricks are you gonna have to pull out of the bag?
What are you gonna do when you are faced with a dilema
and you HAVE to be a man and no book no teachings
no routines to help you?
will YOU know what to do?
Are you gonna trust yourself to make the right descision?
Are you gonna be yourself or are you gonna be the 'persona'
or 'pseudo-self'?
And if so , don't you think it's kinda SAD that you have to
put on such an act with someone you love soo dearly?
when she is genuine and real and you are..
ACTING.
Dating and picking up girls is fun and but that's nothing
compared to having a really intense relationship-
were there is actually a connection and bond between the
two of you.Don't be fooled that you have to be some
arrogant jerk off in order to attract, meet and keep
a spectacular girl- if thats who you naturally are-
fantastic.
But if it's just a 'persona'-and it's not how you really are...
what's gonna happen when that persona goes down..will she
still be around?
After all, you did attract her with the little tricks and gimmicks
and 'acting' like an 'alpha' , right?
What's her reaction gonna be when and if you reveil the
real you?
Whatever it may be? however dorky, nerdy, whatever
quirks about you it may be? whatever that makes you unique
and makes you different from every tom,steve and harry out there?
If you guys think that a few magic tricks and
acting 'alpha' is all it takes to be a man and hold
an exceptional woman..you are in for a BIG surpise...
