sexual_intellectual
Don Juan
This is a general & abstract topic - feel free not to reply if you have better things to do. (I sure do most of the time - not used this forum for AGES!)
Something I've read about a lot here is regarding the feminisation of society - with the gushy, effeminate "hollywood man" approach to romance portrayed as the ideal, the concept of love reduced to some parody of itself where a man lives on his knees to ingratiate himself with his one-and-only-shot-at-happiness who is worthy of his adoration by virtue of her being female.
Right now, we are able to choose a different path, re-educate ourselves and improve our success with women. Generally, the reason given for this is that masculine behaviour is natural for men, and that feminine behaviour is natural for women, and that men and women who act according to their nature are powerfully attracted to one another.
The idea that scares me is that which created our problem in the first way.
If men can (and in many sad cases have been) be conditioned by society to deny their natural impulses and become effeminate, can women not also be conditioned to deny their natural impulses and respond to cheerleeding, tight-wearing AFCs :cheer: :cheer: :cheer: with attraction?
If for arguments sake, this happened on a large enough scale - behaving in masculine ways might well empower us and grant us success in many other spheres, but wouldn't it mean that we were disadvantaged where attracting women were concerned?
If that ever happened I've got a feeling many "DJs" here would be falling over themselves to demonstrate AFC behaviour. Which leads me to another separate question - if acting like an AFC got you more women - would you do it?
Is there or can there in the future exist a female matrix that creates women who adore (get wet for) AFCs? Penny for your thoughts...
Something I've read about a lot here is regarding the feminisation of society - with the gushy, effeminate "hollywood man" approach to romance portrayed as the ideal, the concept of love reduced to some parody of itself where a man lives on his knees to ingratiate himself with his one-and-only-shot-at-happiness who is worthy of his adoration by virtue of her being female.
Right now, we are able to choose a different path, re-educate ourselves and improve our success with women. Generally, the reason given for this is that masculine behaviour is natural for men, and that feminine behaviour is natural for women, and that men and women who act according to their nature are powerfully attracted to one another.
The idea that scares me is that which created our problem in the first way.
If men can (and in many sad cases have been) be conditioned by society to deny their natural impulses and become effeminate, can women not also be conditioned to deny their natural impulses and respond to cheerleeding, tight-wearing AFCs :cheer: :cheer: :cheer: with attraction?
If for arguments sake, this happened on a large enough scale - behaving in masculine ways might well empower us and grant us success in many other spheres, but wouldn't it mean that we were disadvantaged where attracting women were concerned?
If that ever happened I've got a feeling many "DJs" here would be falling over themselves to demonstrate AFC behaviour. Which leads me to another separate question - if acting like an AFC got you more women - would you do it?
Is there or can there in the future exist a female matrix that creates women who adore (get wet for) AFCs? Penny for your thoughts...