Maybe girls should have a stamp on their forehead, or some sort of name tag.
You can then look and go... NEXT!
I get myself in this rut all of the time. I think they are older than they are. What's worse, is when I think they may be 20 or 21 and then I am attracted to them, THEN I find out. Then it sucks cause you've built some comfort zone and then they go and say... Yeah, I turn like 18 in a few months. Oh well, Guess it's a waiting game
This happens on both ends too. I worked with a kid who was 18 who looked 30 or something. He got so pissed off that I looked younger than him, and was so mad that the girls always flirted with me and not him.
This girl that flirts with me has this boyfriend who is a basketball player in high school and really tall, and he looks like he is like early to mid 20's, but prob only 18. Now i've never talked to the guy or heard him carry on a convo, but this is based off of his looks.
But it seems as if it is SO HARD to get it right. Then there are times i'm like... Bet she's like 16 and the girl ends up being 21 or something.
You never can win it seems like, and when you look young, it only makes things worse. Or better depending on who you talk too.
I work with a guy who is 26 I think and his girlfriend is 17. She works with him too. Now at first this was all secretive and he never talked about it, and I think just felt weird. For me, I never keep crap a secret. People know when I like a girl, and I dont give a rats ass if she is 17 or 18. I'm not out to marry the girl.
But anyway, the guy I work with... He is just perfect for this girl, and vice versa. Like peas and carrots like they say in Forest Gump. And his goal is not to have sex with her and that's it. They actually have a REAL relationship. And for them, it works, cause I cant see a better couple than those two. They were meant to be together. So after a bit, the age thing for him kind of slowly goes away. While people talk, they realize... Who gives an fvck ultimately, cause they each found their match.
But it all depends on the woman again. I know a 17yr old who I would never take out in public cause she say so many stupid things i'd have to kill myself. Other's, I would have no problem taking out in public because I wouldn't be afraid of what they would say if I had them meet someone worthwhile.
This also goes with some older girls. I met one who was 25, that I probably would be scared to take out in public.
So this "Evil" can also be the "Evils" of an all ages WORK PLACE too. You think a concert is bad, try dealing with it 3 days or more a week, and not only that, the fact that hotties are always hired so often.