The entire game explained in 1 minute

[SmoothSmooth]

There are natural laws at play.

Women chase alpha males (dominant, successful men). They identify these men by their behaviour in real life - posture, voice, confidence, aura, indifference, social proof, even scent etc and then make it VERY easy for them to mate (ie by being submissive and vulnerable). This is when the girl is giggling at your bad jokes, asking for your help, placing herself in your orbit, putting more effort into the convo, self deprecating, proving herself to you etc Escalation is a quick process (unless there are life circumstances/logistics/social barriers preventing it).

Things like street approaching, online dating, DM sliding, even chivalry etc are all attempts by non dominant men to reverse the natural law and make men the selectors. That’s why they rarely ever work. Women have their guard up, act flakey, sh1t test hard, etc these tactics will mainly work (if ever) on women who lack the confidence to chase alpha males. Men also overcompensate by TRYING to dominate her (eg bragging, insulting, negging), however, dominance is not a result of your effort - it is invited by her (attraction can’t be negotiated).

The only game is to increase your social dominance and learning how to convey it behaviourally.

Then directly asking out the girls who behave submissively around you. Women are naturally POLITE/NICE around beta males, but NOT submissive (they are emotionally indifferent). Most men get confused between a woman being submissive and polite/nice, and are therefore find women confusing (and can be manipulated for attention).

When you can identify the difference between POLITENESS versus SUBMISSION (high interest) you will no longer need to play the numbers game or ask for advice on this forum.

The quickest litmus test? How dominant/in control do you feel around her. If she’s being submissive, you will consequently feel more elated and dominant around her. You will feel you can ‘get away’ with being a little more c0cky. She’ll bring that side out of you. You can be somewhat bossy or demanding (‘buy me something from the store’ or ‘wear red’). It will also feel like you don’t need to reciprocate to keep the interaction/relationship going. You can ignore questions, not return favours, be emotionally stoic (not smiling during the convo), refusing to qualify yourself, etc she will be walking on eggshells to avoid communicating disrespect. Girls are biologically wired to only be submissive to one man at a time. Even if she is entertaining multiple men, she will only ever be truly submissive to one. Sometimes it will only be one their whole life (‘alpha widow’)

If she’s just being nice/polite - things will feel more reciprocal. Anything that’s unreciprocated by you will upset the fine balance and lower her interest. You will avoid subcommunications of higher status. Both parties are pretty much walking on eggshells and things are Tit 4 Tat. She asks a question, you answer and ask a question in return; you make a joke, she laughs and make a joke in return, you laugh and say ‘good one’, she says thanks etc….and this keeps going until you make a move and she rejects you

Also there is a huge misconception that only alphas get laid. Betas can get laid more than alphas. This is because many girls are looking for providers, especially when she’s around the age of 26. They will therefore seek the second type of interaction (and be more open to online dating, street approachers etc) But in that scenario - you will be the guy she SETTLED for, and your sense of masculinity will be lowered, and the sex will be slower and less kinky. the difference is night and day.

Alpha vs beta is not correlated to the quantity of sex, but the quality/eagerness of sex and how hot the girls are

 

[darksprezzatura]

There are natural laws at play.

Women chase alpha males (dominant, successful men). They identify these men by their behaviour in real life - posture, voice, confidence, aura, indifference, social proof, even scent etc and then make it VERY easy for them to mate (ie by being submissive and vulnerable). This is when the girl is giggling at your bad jokes, asking for your help, placing herself in your orbit, putting more effort into the convo, self deprecating, proving herself to you etc Escalation is a quick process (unless there are life circumstances/logistics/social barriers preventing it).

Things like street approaching, online dating, DM sliding, even chivalry etc are all attempts by non dominant men to reverse the natural law and make men the selectors. That’s why they rarely ever work. Women have their guard up, act flakey, sh1t test hard, etc these tactics will mainly work (if ever) on women who lack the confidence to chase alpha males. Men also overcompensate by TRYING to dominate her (eg bragging, insulting, negging), however, dominance is not a result of your effort - it is invited by her (attraction can’t be negotiated).

The only game is to increase your social dominance and learning how to convey it behaviourally.

Then directly asking out the girls who behave submissively around you. Women are naturally POLITE/NICE around beta males, but NOT submissive (they are emotionally indifferent). Most men get confused between a woman being submissive and polite/nice, and are therefore find women confusing (and can be manipulated for attention).

When you can identify the difference between POLITENESS versus SUBMISSION (high interest) you will no longer need to play the numbers game or ask for advice on this forum.

The quickest litmus test? How dominant/in control do you feel around her. If she’s being submissive, you will consequently feel more elated and dominant around her. You will feel you can ‘get away’ with being a little more c0cky. She’ll bring that side out of you. You can be somewhat bossy or demanding (‘buy me something from the store’ or ‘wear red’). It will also feel like you don’t need to reciprocate to keep the interaction/relationship going. You can ignore questions, not return favours, be emotionally stoic (not smiling during the convo), refusing to qualify yourself, etc she will be walking on eggshells to avoid communicating disrespect. Girls are biologically wired to only be submissive to one man at a time. Even if she is entertaining multiple men, she will only ever be truly submissive to one. Sometimes it will only be one their whole life (‘alpha widow’)

If she’s just being nice/polite - things will feel more reciprocal. Anything that’s unreciprocated by you will upset the fine balance and lower her interest. You will avoid subcommunications of higher status. Both parties are pretty much walking on eggshells and things are Tit 4 Tat. She asks a question, you answer and ask a question in return; you make a joke, she laughs and make a joke in return, you laugh and say ‘good one’, she says thanks etc….and this keeps going until you make a move and she rejects you

Also there is a huge misconception that only alphas get laid. Betas can get laid more than alphas. This is because many girls are looking for providers, especially when she’s around the age of 26. They will therefore seek the second type of interaction (and be more open to online dating, street approachers etc) But in that scenario - you will be the guy she SETTLED for, and your sense of masculinity will be lowered, and the sex will be slower and less kinky. the difference is night and day.

Alpha vs beta is not correlated to the quantity of sex, but the quality/eagerness of sex and how hot the girls are

Bump

 

[Plinco]

OP's post is a bit of a mouthful.

The quickest way to understand game is to grasp the concept of respect. Inner game in essence is self-respect and social game is about getting as much respect as you can. Seduction is about using psychological methods to gain a lot of respect to get that high interest level. Relationship game is about using operant conditioning to mold the person to your perspectives; that of course doesn't work if the person is their own authority and a master of his or her emotions. 'Beta' game is showing off resources because the dude is hoping that the girl will respect what he has and she will then transpose that respect onto him.

Respect is either fear of consequences, or admiration (expressing the values the other holds highly).

It works best on people who less rational, more emotional, less happy, less disciplined, etc. In other words, it's like eliciting the attention of, and training animals.

 

[Pandora]

There are natural laws at play.

Women chase alpha males (dominant, successful men). They identify these men by their behaviour in real life - posture, voice, confidence, aura, indifference, social proof, even scent etc and then make it VERY easy for them to mate (ie by being submissive and vulnerable). This is when the girl is giggling at your bad jokes, asking for your help, placing herself in your orbit, putting more effort into the convo, self deprecating, proving herself to you etc Escalation is a quick process (unless there are life circumstances/logistics/social barriers preventing it).

Things like street approaching, online dating, DM sliding, even chivalry etc are all attempts by non dominant men to reverse the natural law and make men the selectors. That’s why they rarely ever work. Women have their guard up, act flakey, sh1t test hard, etc these tactics will mainly work (if ever) on women who lack the confidence to chase alpha males. Men also overcompensate by TRYING to dominate her (eg bragging, insulting, negging), however, dominance is not a result of your effort - it is invited by her (attraction can’t be negotiated).

The only game is to increase your social dominance and learning how to convey it behaviourally.

Then directly asking out the girls who behave submissively around you. Women are naturally POLITE/NICE around beta males, but NOT submissive (they are emotionally indifferent). Most men get confused between a woman being submissive and polite/nice, and are therefore find women confusing (and can be manipulated for attention).

When you can identify the difference between POLITENESS versus SUBMISSION (high interest) you will no longer need to play the numbers game or ask for advice on this forum.

The quickest litmus test? How dominant/in control do you feel around her. If she’s being submissive, you will consequently feel more elated and dominant around her. You will feel you can ‘get away’ with being a little more c0cky. She’ll bring that side out of you. You can be somewhat bossy or demanding (‘buy me something from the store’ or ‘wear red’). It will also feel like you don’t need to reciprocate to keep the interaction/relationship going. You can ignore questions, not return favours, be emotionally stoic (not smiling during the convo), refusing to qualify yourself, etc she will be walking on eggshells to avoid communicating disrespect. Girls are biologically wired to only be submissive to one man at a time. Even if she is entertaining multiple men, she will only ever be truly submissive to one. Sometimes it will only be one their whole life (‘alpha widow’)

If she’s just being nice/polite - things will feel more reciprocal. Anything that’s unreciprocated by you will upset the fine balance and lower her interest. You will avoid subcommunications of higher status. Both parties are pretty much walking on eggshells and things are Tit 4 Tat. She asks a question, you answer and ask a question in return; you make a joke, she laughs and make a joke in return, you laugh and say ‘good one’, she says thanks etc….and this keeps going until you make a move and she rejects you

Also there is a huge misconception that only alphas get laid. Betas can get laid more than alphas. This is because many girls are looking for providers, especially when she’s around the age of 26. They will therefore seek the second type of interaction (and be more open to online dating, street approachers etc) But in that scenario - you will be the guy she SETTLED for, and your sense of masculinity will be lowered, and the sex will be slower and less kinky. the difference is night and day.

Alpha vs beta is not correlated to the quantity of sex, but the quality/eagerness of sex and how hot the girls are

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[Plinco]

There are natural laws at play.

Women chase alpha males (dominant, successful men). They identify these men by their behaviour in real life - posture, voice, confidence, aura, indifference, social proof, even scent etc and then make it VERY easy for them to mate (ie by being submissive and vulnerable). This is when the girl is giggling at your bad jokes, asking for your help, placing herself in your orbit, putting more effort into the convo, self deprecating, proving herself to you etc Escalation is a quick process (unless there are life circumstances/logistics/social barriers preventing it).

Things like street approaching, online dating, DM sliding, even chivalry etc are all attempts by non dominant men to reverse the natural law and make men the selectors. That’s why they rarely ever work. Women have their guard up, act flakey, sh1t test hard, etc these tactics will mainly work (if ever) on women who lack the confidence to chase alpha males. Men also overcompensate by TRYING to dominate her (eg bragging, insulting, negging), however, dominance is not a result of your effort - it is invited by her (attraction can’t be negotiated).

The only game is to increase your social dominance and learning how to convey it behaviourally.

Then directly asking out the girls who behave submissively around you. Women are naturally POLITE/NICE around beta males, but NOT submissive (they are emotionally indifferent). Most men get confused between a woman being submissive and polite/nice, and are therefore find women confusing (and can be manipulated for attention).

When you can identify the difference between POLITENESS versus SUBMISSION (high interest) you will no longer need to play the numbers game or ask for advice on this forum.

The quickest litmus test? How dominant/in control do you feel around her. If she’s being submissive, you will consequently feel more elated and dominant around her. You will feel you can ‘get away’ with being a little more c0cky. She’ll bring that side out of you. You can be somewhat bossy or demanding (‘buy me something from the store’ or ‘wear red’). It will also feel like you don’t need to reciprocate to keep the interaction/relationship going. You can ignore questions, not return favours, be emotionally stoic (not smiling during the convo), refusing to qualify yourself, etc she will be walking on eggshells to avoid communicating disrespect. Girls are biologically wired to only be submissive to one man at a time. Even if she is entertaining multiple men, she will only ever be truly submissive to one. Sometimes it will only be one their whole life (‘alpha widow’)

If she’s just being nice/polite - things will feel more reciprocal. Anything that’s unreciprocated by you will upset the fine balance and lower her interest. You will avoid subcommunications of higher status. Both parties are pretty much walking on eggshells and things are Tit 4 Tat. She asks a question, you answer and ask a question in return; you make a joke, she laughs and make a joke in return, you laugh and say ‘good one’, she says thanks etc….and this keeps going until you make a move and she rejects you

Also there is a huge misconception that only alphas get laid. Betas can get laid more than alphas. This is because many girls are looking for providers, especially when she’s around the age of 26. They will therefore seek the second type of interaction (and be more open to online dating, street approachers etc) But in that scenario - you will be the guy she SETTLED for, and your sense of masculinity will be lowered, and the sex will be slower and less kinky. the difference is night and day.

Alpha vs beta is not correlated to the quantity of sex, but the quality/eagerness of sex and how hot the girls are

I put a little more effort into this because this topic is interesting.


Respect is the essence of game and everything else. The application of respect is social game, and the implications of respect (self-respect) is inner game.

Respect yourself to the point where you don’t need sex from any particular woman. Be unapologetically selfish. Control yourself so that you are capable of fulfilling your purpose. Expect to be judged by your actions and not your words. Have standards for yourself. Act in a way that will cause you to have self-acceptance. You want to be as independent as possible; you do not want anything to have any power over you. You want to be hard working toward your goals, but also enjoying your life. You want to play politics, in way that people will respect you.

Respect is either fear of consequences, or admiration (expressing the values the other holds highly). To be any man of any significance, you must at bare minimum be capable of inducing fear in people. As far as admiration goes, a person’s convictions will determine emotional reactions, and thus what he or she admires; that is why status is contextual.

The animal brain’s values are innate to that biology, the rational brain’s values are contextual to one’s existence. One of these you can manipulate, the other you cannot. So the less rational someone is, the more predictable that person is; women are far more likely to be slaves to their emotions and their biology and so much of the marketing is targeted at women’s disposable income.

Here’s a graph to illustrate my point:

 

[eli77]

I always say you only live once live it well.

 

[SmoothSmooth]

I forgot to mention - Compliments are also another big ‘submission’ tell…IF you can read them right.

Note: there’s a difference between a submissive compliment and a polite one.
If her compliment makes you feel bigger/more important than her then it’s a sign of submission. Basically she boosts your EGO or is ADMIRING you. She will often exaggerate things too - if you’re a Bench player on the basketball team she might be convinced that you’re the star. If you’re musician with 400 fans, she’ll act like youre a superstar with a big following. One of the biggest ones - if she calls you out for being a player but in a positive/light hearted way, that’s another huge sign of submissive. Normally girls would show disdain towards players, but in this case she sees you as a TOTAL alpha and is honoured to be sharing you. If she says something like ‘Ok Sir’ or ‘yes Mr’ are other subtle ones.

Guys get confused and think that a girl complimenting your shirt, thanking you for doing her a favour, or saying you have nice eyes or commenting a ‘heart eyes’ emoji under your picture is a compliment signalling sexual attraction. No, it’s politeness, and how women interact with each other. She is just strengthening a social bond. If you’ve been complimenting her, she will do the same to you.

A compliment where she directly signals out something relating to your masculinity is a sign she is sexually interested. It’s also noticeable in HOW she says it - is there an emotion behind it for example - ‘wow you’re so smart’ versus ‘you’re really smart, Jack’.

When she talks about a Provider, she will often say ‘I’m so grateful for you Jack, you’re the most kind, loving, funny and thoughtful man I could ask for’. Or she might signal out his ‘drive’ and ‘hard work’ Notice how all these things benefit her. Her attraction/loyalty to him is conditional on what he does for her. She doesn’t want to boost his ego too much because she sees her status equal to his.

When a woman talks about her Alpha - she will say things like ‘I’m so grateful, you’re so smart, handsome, you’re my rock, im proud of you’ etc. She WANTS to boost his ego because it gets her wet. Her attraction/loyalty to him is based on his ability to make her feel like he is THE coolest man around.

Also, an unrelated point. Her accepting your dinner date is politeness. Her cooking for you is submission.

 

[Plinco]

I forgot to mention - Compliments are also another big ‘submission’ tell…IF you can read them right.

I agree, but that takes some experience, and not online and text experience haha

Note: there’s a difference between a submissive compliment and a polite one.
If her compliment makes you feel bigger/more important than her then it’s a sign of submission. Basically she boosts your EGO. She will often exaggerate things too - if you’re a Bench player on the basketball team she might be convinced that you’re the star. If you’re musician with 400 fans, she’ll act like youre a superstar with a big following.

A compliment where she directly signals out something relating to your masculinity is a sign she is sexually interested. It’s also noticeable in HOW she says it - is there an emotion behind it for example - ‘wow you’re so smart’ versus ‘you’re really smart, Jack’.

You have to watch out for these kind of compliments. This can easily be manipulative. The key to telling the difference is experience.

When a woman talks about her Alpha - she will say things like ‘I’m so grateful, you’re so smart, handsome, you’re my rock, im proud of you’ etc. She WANTS to boost his ego because it gets her wet. Her attraction/loyalty to him is based on his ability to make her feel like he is THE coolest man around.

She can also do this to 'betas' to make them feel more like 'alphas.'

 

[Genetic Error]

painful. girls just select for tall height, good face, good physique, good career. none of this alpha beta fantasy world weirdo sh1t

 

[SmoothSmooth]

painful. girls just select for tall height, good face, good physique, good career. none of this alpha beta fantasy world weirdo sh1t

Good physique and good career are in your control, if you’re alpha start with that and you won’t be on here

Ever hear of scott storch? He piped kim kardasian and Paris Hilton…Back when they were best friends