The elusive "FAITHFUL GIRLFRIEND"

[BrotherAP]

Many of us can say we've hookd up with a girl who had a boyfriend, or had a girl cheat on us. These girls may have been in love, married, had kids with the guy... whatever. For some reason, it didn't matter at the time.

Not every woman cheats. So maybe a guy can be really good at identifying those who will - no man can claim that he can get ANY girl to sleep with him, let alone any girl in a relationship.

So yes, some girls will cheat, and if you are a skilled PUA then you will likely end up sleeping with a few of them. But you'll never end up with a girl who would never cheat. Just like there are women who believe in waiting for marriage to have sex and actually do it, it's not an amazing concept that girls have the capacity not to cheat.

If anything, girls are becoming less faithful as society starts to accept cheating as 'normal' and something that 'everyone' does, and girls (guys too) do not think it is as serious as people once did.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by MindOverMatter
You are also of a different generation Wyldfire. You weren't raised the same way the girls today are raised, you didn't grow up in the same environment, with the same media influences.

Or lack of parental influence.

 

[frivolousz21]

You are also of a different generation Wyldfire. You weren't raised the same way the girls today are raised, you didn't grow up in the same environment, with the same media influences.

cant generalize..

ive never ever met a women i know who has cheated in love...
unless it was after yrs of a terrible relationship

 

[MindOverMatter]

ive never ever met a women i know who has cheated in love...

Just because you haven't met one doesn't mean she doesn't exist bro.

 

[MindOverMatter]

p.s. friv, chiefs down 10-0 by broncos, time to model your behaviour after a real coach muahaha.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Or lack of parental influence.

I think it all comes down to a person's values and how important self-respect is to them. For me...I consider cheating to be a self-contemptuous act. If you make a commitment to someone and break it you aren't just betraying them...you are also betraying yourself. You are proving yourself to be weak. I'm of the philosophy that if you find someone else you want to be intimate with more than you want to continue your current relationship then you need to end the relationship first. Cheating is a big no-no. I won't do it and I won't tolerate having it done to me. I don't care how great a guy thinks he is at seducing women...my self control is inpenetrable. I can't picture my daughter ever cheating either. Her values are much the same as mine in most ways.

 

[MindOverMatter]

No offense, but most parents think their kids have the same morals/principles they do, and most of them think they are right about it too. How many dads think they're daughter is incapable of giving some guy roadhead? and how many are right?

 

[penkitten]

Originally posted by MindOverMatter
No offense, but most parents think their kids have the same morals/principles they do, and most of them think they are right about it too. How many dads think they're daughter is incapable of giving some guy roadhead? and how many are right?

i agree with you mind that parents are feeling like the teenagers have the same rights that adults have.
i actually am afriad of teenagers. they do the scariest , stupidiest most dangerous things !

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by MindOverMatter
No offense, but most parents think their kids have the same morals/principles they do, and most of them think they are right about it too. How many dads think they're daughter is incapable of giving some guy roadhead? and how many are right?

My sons only have a few of the same values I have...but my daughter actually does share most all the values I have. I base that only on observations of how she behaves and her views and opinions on things...not just wishful thinking.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by MindOverMatter
No offense, but most parents think their kids have the same morals/principles they do, and most of them think they are right about it too. How many dads think they're daughter is incapable of giving some guy roadhead? and how many are right?

Aren't they the parent who don't really teach their kids about sex but insteat tell them (when they turn 16) to come and talk to them if they have any questions?

 

[RaWBLooD]

Originally posted by Wyldfire
My sons only have a few of the same values I have...but my daughter actually does share most all the values I have. I base that only on observations of how she behaves and her views and opinions on things...not just wishful thinking.

like how she threw a guy over a balcony ?

 

[frivolousz21]

im just saying...its pretty easy to see if the girl your with is a cheater or liar.
unless she is the worlds best manipulator u will figure it out.

 

[Hellboy]

Originally posted by RockstarPUA
There are some girls that avoid getting themselves into the presence of a real alpha DJ guy so they won't cheat. But if they are ever in the presence of a real man thats funny, un needy and can get them emotional, the boyfriend or husband won't matter.

Who is to say that the BF/Husband isn't that very alpha who is always on her mind and always making her wet?

Above all he should make sure he has a girl with some morals and self respect. Then, if the boyfriend works hard to:
1) always anchor her attraction so that she is obsessed with him
2) make sure she totally trusts him not to cheat on her
...then she will have a solid mental block against cheating. She won't want to ruin things and lose a guy who she loves, and who also loves her. If she feels that she in IN love with him she would feel like betraying herself by cheating.

It's not rocket science. Obsession (hers) is the key. Or call it love if you like. And obsession is triggered by taking care of her emotional needs. As far as I know, I have never been cheated on by any girl.

 

[frivolousz21]

Who is to say that the BF/Husband isn't that very alpha who is always on her mind and always making her wet?

Above all he should make sure he has a girl with some morals and self respect. Then, if the boyfriend works hard to:
1) always anchor her attraction so that she is obsessed with him
2) make sure she totally trusts him not to cheat on her
...then she will have a solid mental block against cheating. She won't want to ruin things and lose a guy who she loves, and who also loves her. If she feels that she in IN love with him she would feel like betraying herself by cheating.

It's not rocket science. Obsession (hers) is the key. Or call it love if you like. And obsession is triggered by taking care of her emotional needs. As far as I know, I have never been cheated on by any girl.






I agree with you 100 percent.

and for those who dont know..when he says obsessed he means obsessed for you as only 1 guy.

not as in she has no life other than you and blows her life away for you.

he means love

 

[SAYNO]

Originally posted by RaWBLooD
like how she threw a guy over a balcony ?

Exactly!


The apple doesn't fall far from the tree!



Sayno'

 

[Wyldfire]

Stop flamebaiting and get back on topic...

 

[RockstarPUA]

You guys that think a woman 'in love' won't cheat are goign to get burned!

 

[NINJA PIMP]

If you want a faithful lady, you will have a helluva time finding her in America. I always end up dating european or asian chicks cuz USA girls is only good for screwin! Sad but true in most cases.

 

[Triple X]

Oh you think European women are that great??

Well let me tell you this certainly ain't the case in the UK (or at least the part of it I'm from). As usual.. we (our society) seems to be slightly lagging behind America but slowly but surely catching up.

By this I mean girls are generally just h0s these days... worth f***ing and f***ing only.. just by observing some of the women at work makes me sick.

For instance one girl on my team is always going on about her boyfriend 'Lou' (of over 2 years). 'Oh Lou, blah, oh Lou did this, blah, Lou did that, blah'. Annoying sometimes.. but sounds like she's in love at least, right?!

But lately there's been a new guy in accounts who she has been emailing back and forth. Emailing went on to texting, then to meetings (in and out of work). And her excuse? 'Oh but I love the attention! We're just friends! rah rah rah'. Yeah? How many 'friends' can you think of who you like around just for their attention?! F*ckin wh0re.

Then there's another women (married with kids) who always pulls a random guy at office parties. Also she flirts like crazy, and has at least one or two guys she regularly emails. Just fun, right?! OK.... but would you like YOUR MOTHER to be doing that? I doubt it.

To tell the truth I've never met a girl I could truly trust.. plus I've never really been in love properly, even though I would love to... because frankly I'm too f***ing scared these days.

 

[frivolousz21]

I cant believe some of the NEGATIVITY around here!

stop the Bull SHYT and LIES!

so wht some women are bad!

WOOPIE FREAKING DO!

do you realize

men cheat more, men lie more, men do wrong things more, men steal more.....


MEN BEAT WOMEN...LOTS OF MEN BEAT AND MENTALLY ABUSE WOMEN.

you morons act like it the other way around...its NOT even close.

wow you get dumped by some hot 18 yr old with no maturity and you act like your some burn victim..

HOW SAD.