A subtle trend was recently observed in my dating life that I wondered if anyone else experienced. The easiest time to pick up a girl is when she's with another man! It must be one who she is not currently dating. Some real world examples:
1) Girl with her Son. Don't think her son isn't another man. He is THE man. Picking her up in front of him requires you be presentable to him and her. Ideally you'll play ball or something with him first, at his request (and with her permission).
2) Girl with Platonic Male Friend. You'll find yourself next to a girl at the bar with a guy on the other side. It's not a coincidence she chose to sit next to you. Now you'll see her "friend" in the background with steam coming out his ears. She'll often say "this is my friend". If she uses that word you're golden. There may not be time but you need to get the digits or something - wait until she says "Ok, well... we have to go..." because he's dragging her away. Then say "What's your last name so I can find you on FB?", or ask her to text you.
3) Girl with Ex Husband. If their relationship is over, regardless of who ended it, the woman loves to pick up a guy in front of her ex hubby. Wait until he walks away to get the number out of respect for him. You don't want to set off a psycho, and she'll tell him everything in the way that makes her seem the most desirable (and then some).
4) Girl with her Dad. This is the holy grail. As a general rule, always start by shaking the other man's hand and asking his name, but especially if it's her dad. If she is interested she will eagerly introduce herself after, with her hand extended. The key is to talk to him and then learn from her interjections about her life. Find some way to help her. In my example she needed natural health advice (great topic to talk about with women) and I have experience as a writer.
I'm thinking many of you will have similar stories.
1) Girl with her Son. Don't think her son isn't another man. He is THE man. Picking her up in front of him requires you be presentable to him and her. Ideally you'll play ball or something with him first, at his request (and with her permission).
2) Girl with Platonic Male Friend. You'll find yourself next to a girl at the bar with a guy on the other side. It's not a coincidence she chose to sit next to you. Now you'll see her "friend" in the background with steam coming out his ears. She'll often say "this is my friend". If she uses that word you're golden. There may not be time but you need to get the digits or something - wait until she says "Ok, well... we have to go..." because he's dragging her away. Then say "What's your last name so I can find you on FB?", or ask her to text you.
3) Girl with Ex Husband. If their relationship is over, regardless of who ended it, the woman loves to pick up a guy in front of her ex hubby. Wait until he walks away to get the number out of respect for him. You don't want to set off a psycho, and she'll tell him everything in the way that makes her seem the most desirable (and then some).
4) Girl with her Dad. This is the holy grail. As a general rule, always start by shaking the other man's hand and asking his name, but especially if it's her dad. If she is interested she will eagerly introduce herself after, with her hand extended. The key is to talk to him and then learn from her interjections about her life. Find some way to help her. In my example she needed natural health advice (great topic to talk about with women) and I have experience as a writer.
I'm thinking many of you will have similar stories.
