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Senior Don Juan
The DJ Attitude
What separates a DJ from everyone else out there? It has been discussed time and time again, especially recently. Confidence, humor, charisma? All of this is part of one thing. Attitude. This post will break down most aspects of a DJ’s attitude towards women, but far more importantly, to life.
DJ’s are some of the strongest people in the world (mentally of course). We understand pain and suffering, but we can move past it without thinking twice. A rejection that would paralyze an AFC has no meaning to us whatsoever, except that the rejection has just made us smarter and more stronger.
How in the hell can we do that? We understand one logical fact that most people overlook. It is that our time on this Earth is far less than we imagine in our day to day lives. We understand that something as silly as one specific girl is not worth wasting a moment of our precious time for. Life is not long enough to screw around. Plain and simple. Every breath you take, every day you live, will bring you one step closer to your inevitable death.
DJ’s are happy. We go throughout our lives smiling with wonderful thoughts and feelings. Happiness is something I used to seriously overlook, thinking it wasn’t important, but without happiness is anything important? If you aren’t happy, your life slips from underneath you. Don’t lie to yourself and say you don’t want to be happy. Everyone wants to be happier, unfortunately it is easier said than done, so the natural human tendency is to come up with excuses as to why you are not happy. There are no excuses. I unfortunately cannot tell you how to be happy. That is a mountain you must climb yourself.
DJ’s do not care about what another person might think of his style, his choice of words, or really anything about him. As long as he is happy with what he is, then that is all that matters. He sets rules for others to follow, and most definitely does not let others dictate how me acts by their childish remarks and insecure attacks on him. He laughs while they attempt to bring him down. Life is to short to live by others stupid thoughts of you. Not everyone will like you, DJ’s understand this and do not care.
Confidence comes from this attitude towards life. DJ’s “just have it” as Sammo put it. We just do it, without knowing really why. I think it has to do with the fact that we don’t care about rejection and crap like that, but more importantly we have self worth. We see ourselves as “the man”. Our confidence and ability to be comfortable in any situation with a female is just a simple thing that comes when the attitude develops. There are PLENTY of posts on confidence, so ill move on to something new.
Humor. We can be funny. Our wit and intelligence reign the social world. People cannot believe some things we come up with, and at times we ourselves cannot believe our wit could spat words that ring so much and bring so many smiles out. It is something that can’t come out in a shy person, because they care too much and end up holding their tongue and killing their wit and cunning ability to make people laugh.
Honestly, I think women want security out of a guy more than anything. We are some of the most secure people alive. We can justify all of our actions with logical, well thought out, and rational explanations. We are happy about ourselves and therefore are secure about ourselves; where that confidence stuff comes from. We project our ability to “protect” girls from all that bad stuff out in the world, therefore making her feel secure.
We understand females. We know what they want, and how they want it because of our ability to read people. We can understand people’s thought, actions, and irrational thinking. This ability helps to make friends with almost anyone, and to carry out a conversation like no one else could dream of.
Our perception of this world is unbelievable. We can take the darkest of times and turn it into one big joke. Our radiating energy can light up an entire room of people. People look at us and wonder to themselves what it would be like to be that guy. They look in awe as we smile and laugh and touch girls and just go through life living it at an incredible pace and quality. You cannot fake this mentality.
Girls are just a side dish, and living life to it absolute fullest is the turkey. Without the turkey, your life is just another life, nothing special, nothing “DJ” about it. So really reflect for a moment on what you want, then when you have an idea, go charging head first at it with all the confidence in yourself that you will achieve your goal. This is just a glimpse from the other side, now come on in, and get yourself a DJ attitude, trust me when I say they never run out.
You probably want me to tell you step by step how to achieve this, huh? Well then you are in for a ride, the same ride most of us had to take. Eventually you will learn that it comes from within yourself, and you’ll laugh that you ever spent so much time reading post after post and putting so much worrying into this whole DJ thing. Also it really is funny. It is actually TOO simple for me to explain how to achieve this attitude towards life. The attitude will come, and with it you will transform into a DJ. A true DJ, that is…
Well, Oxide, I don’t have to hope anymore huh? I have it now…
What separates a DJ from everyone else out there? It has been discussed time and time again, especially recently. Confidence, humor, charisma? All of this is part of one thing. Attitude. This post will break down most aspects of a DJ’s attitude towards women, but far more importantly, to life.
DJ’s are some of the strongest people in the world (mentally of course). We understand pain and suffering, but we can move past it without thinking twice. A rejection that would paralyze an AFC has no meaning to us whatsoever, except that the rejection has just made us smarter and more stronger.
How in the hell can we do that? We understand one logical fact that most people overlook. It is that our time on this Earth is far less than we imagine in our day to day lives. We understand that something as silly as one specific girl is not worth wasting a moment of our precious time for. Life is not long enough to screw around. Plain and simple. Every breath you take, every day you live, will bring you one step closer to your inevitable death.
DJ’s are happy. We go throughout our lives smiling with wonderful thoughts and feelings. Happiness is something I used to seriously overlook, thinking it wasn’t important, but without happiness is anything important? If you aren’t happy, your life slips from underneath you. Don’t lie to yourself and say you don’t want to be happy. Everyone wants to be happier, unfortunately it is easier said than done, so the natural human tendency is to come up with excuses as to why you are not happy. There are no excuses. I unfortunately cannot tell you how to be happy. That is a mountain you must climb yourself.
DJ’s do not care about what another person might think of his style, his choice of words, or really anything about him. As long as he is happy with what he is, then that is all that matters. He sets rules for others to follow, and most definitely does not let others dictate how me acts by their childish remarks and insecure attacks on him. He laughs while they attempt to bring him down. Life is to short to live by others stupid thoughts of you. Not everyone will like you, DJ’s understand this and do not care.
Confidence comes from this attitude towards life. DJ’s “just have it” as Sammo put it. We just do it, without knowing really why. I think it has to do with the fact that we don’t care about rejection and crap like that, but more importantly we have self worth. We see ourselves as “the man”. Our confidence and ability to be comfortable in any situation with a female is just a simple thing that comes when the attitude develops. There are PLENTY of posts on confidence, so ill move on to something new.
Humor. We can be funny. Our wit and intelligence reign the social world. People cannot believe some things we come up with, and at times we ourselves cannot believe our wit could spat words that ring so much and bring so many smiles out. It is something that can’t come out in a shy person, because they care too much and end up holding their tongue and killing their wit and cunning ability to make people laugh.
Honestly, I think women want security out of a guy more than anything. We are some of the most secure people alive. We can justify all of our actions with logical, well thought out, and rational explanations. We are happy about ourselves and therefore are secure about ourselves; where that confidence stuff comes from. We project our ability to “protect” girls from all that bad stuff out in the world, therefore making her feel secure.
We understand females. We know what they want, and how they want it because of our ability to read people. We can understand people’s thought, actions, and irrational thinking. This ability helps to make friends with almost anyone, and to carry out a conversation like no one else could dream of.
Our perception of this world is unbelievable. We can take the darkest of times and turn it into one big joke. Our radiating energy can light up an entire room of people. People look at us and wonder to themselves what it would be like to be that guy. They look in awe as we smile and laugh and touch girls and just go through life living it at an incredible pace and quality. You cannot fake this mentality.
Girls are just a side dish, and living life to it absolute fullest is the turkey. Without the turkey, your life is just another life, nothing special, nothing “DJ” about it. So really reflect for a moment on what you want, then when you have an idea, go charging head first at it with all the confidence in yourself that you will achieve your goal. This is just a glimpse from the other side, now come on in, and get yourself a DJ attitude, trust me when I say they never run out.
You probably want me to tell you step by step how to achieve this, huh? Well then you are in for a ride, the same ride most of us had to take. Eventually you will learn that it comes from within yourself, and you’ll laugh that you ever spent so much time reading post after post and putting so much worrying into this whole DJ thing. Also it really is funny. It is actually TOO simple for me to explain how to achieve this attitude towards life. The attitude will come, and with it you will transform into a DJ. A true DJ, that is…
Well, Oxide, I don’t have to hope anymore huh? I have it now…
