Sometimes the approach gets overthought. Here's a reminder of the basic, direct approach:
For girls who already know or recognize you:
"Do you want to get together sometime?" Very simple, very direct.
Often girls do like you, and want to go out with you. All you need to do is ask them out.
For random girls, or girls you aren't sure if she would recognize you or not:
"Hi, I just wanted to meet you. What's your name?"
and after she answers,
"What's your phone number?"
This tip is far from original, but I think it's worth posting again and again. There are so many things right with the direct approach, and really nothing wrong with it.
I tend to find that:
Girls appreciate a direct approach. To elaborate: You come across as "being yourself". You get to the point quickly, no b.s., no 10 minute patterns. No confusion (is he trying to pick me up?).
Girls respect a direct approach. My roommate's girlfriend told me the other day that girls get together and compare and laugh at the various lines guys use to pick them up. I told her that I use a direct approach, and she agreed that that is the best. If anything, you will probably score some points with her friends even if she rejects you. They'll start thinking. "hmm, I never really thought much of him, but he obviously has the balls to approach girls he's interested in and ask them out in a genuine way. I respect that, maybe I should get to know him better..."
And really, we shouldn't care what the girls think anyway.
The direct approach is good because it helps sift through the b.s. You don't waste your time wondering about or trying to seduce girls who are not willing to go out with you, for whatever reason (already has a relationship, too busy with work/school, etc.).
In my view, things like Challenge, Seduction (speed sedection or slow seduction), and ****y + Funny come into play only after you have directly approached her and asked her out.
For girls who already know or recognize you:
"Do you want to get together sometime?" Very simple, very direct.
Often girls do like you, and want to go out with you. All you need to do is ask them out.
For random girls, or girls you aren't sure if she would recognize you or not:
"Hi, I just wanted to meet you. What's your name?"
and after she answers,
"What's your phone number?"
This tip is far from original, but I think it's worth posting again and again. There are so many things right with the direct approach, and really nothing wrong with it.
I tend to find that:
Girls appreciate a direct approach. To elaborate: You come across as "being yourself". You get to the point quickly, no b.s., no 10 minute patterns. No confusion (is he trying to pick me up?).
Girls respect a direct approach. My roommate's girlfriend told me the other day that girls get together and compare and laugh at the various lines guys use to pick them up. I told her that I use a direct approach, and she agreed that that is the best. If anything, you will probably score some points with her friends even if she rejects you. They'll start thinking. "hmm, I never really thought much of him, but he obviously has the balls to approach girls he's interested in and ask them out in a genuine way. I respect that, maybe I should get to know him better..."
And really, we shouldn't care what the girls think anyway.
The direct approach is good because it helps sift through the b.s. You don't waste your time wondering about or trying to seduce girls who are not willing to go out with you, for whatever reason (already has a relationship, too busy with work/school, etc.).
In my view, things like Challenge, Seduction (speed sedection or slow seduction), and ****y + Funny come into play only after you have directly approached her and asked her out.