The delusions and attempts at hypergamy of middle aged women

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@jnMissouri

You mention the ladies career like it's something relevant. That's the same as putting you like nachos in your profile instead of height and income-related info. And if you're wealthy, that would be the least of your concerns.

Only a miserable gigolo would prefer a rich 3 woman instead of a poor 8.
Also, an 8 can go to 4 (below average) if she has kids.
No women can be above average having kids and being +30yo. -from the standpoint of a LTR.

I lose all respect I have for a man dating a single mom. Not only shows he has no better option, it shows he's willing to sacrifice too much for a small amount of action.
 

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You mention the ladies career like it's something relevant. That's the same as putting you like nachos in your profile instead of height and income-related info. And if you're wealthy, that would be the least of your concerns.

Only a miserable gigolo would prefer a rich 3 woman instead of a poor 8.
Also, an 8 can go to 4 (below average) if she has kids.
No women can be above average having kids and being +30yo. -from the standpoint of a LTR.

I lose all respect I have for a man dating a single mom. Not only shows he has no better option, it shows he's willing to sacrifice too much for a small amount of action.

You misunderstand the point of my note about a woman's career. She has failed at all aspects of life is the point. It's one thing if she is able to retire early but had a divorce and is a single mom, at least she has a respectable career, doesn't have to work for life and life is good still. But the ones who are 36, 43, etc. who live check to check and are broke AF, with kids from multiple men are dumb as rocks. As an example, I had this one chic who was 36 with 3 kids, living in a rental, tell me when I didn't want to go out with her anymore, "there's plenty of wealthy people in our city" as a come back. I was like, yeah? Why are you 36 and broke then, you've had 18 years to catch one. To further put it in perspective, as Develop Attraction mentions on YT, high value men are rare, beautiful women are plentiful. Mathematically this is true. I can't find the statistics for my exact net worth, but to hit just part of my net worth at the age I hit it the lower portion at, is something only .0003 % of people achieve by that age. And I'm not mega rich by any means. But I live in a lake house I can pay off my other properties anytime, I can buy a jet, a yacht. I can buy Lambo's and Patek Phillipe watches in cash.

So why would I date a single mom, especially given my net worth? First off, most women by the time they hit 25-30 are moms. To not date single moms drastically reduces the dating pool for a man. I disagree that one who dates a single mom is sacrificing too much. I don't sacrifice anything. I don't pay for their kids, I don't take care of them, I'm not even around them. I merely date the girl and ****. That's it. Most of them don't even introduce the kids to me, only some if we make it that far. But know I would NEVER have a SERIOUS relationship with a woman with kids. Frankly at this point I just pretend and milk them until I'm done. I sacrifice nothing because I'm not paying for their kids, raising their kids, nor am I missing out on women to start a family with because I don't WANT one. I view relationships as temporary and transitional. Why? Experience and statistics. None of my relationships have lasted for life, some were 3 years, one was 9 years, another 1.5, but most....less than a year, typically 1-6 months. Statistically 70% of relationships don't last a year, and 90% of relationships don't last at all, and 95% of relationships under the age of 30 don't last. I just ****. I do fall in love with some, but I don't truly commit by marrying them. When things sour, I go no contact. If they want to comply, I'll **** again.

To sum it up, the guy who played Malcom in the Middle, had a guy on Twitter or something attack him, telling him his acting sucks. He responded by saying, "you know what doesn't suck? Being 30 and having 40 million (MUCH more than I have). Good luck moving out of your moms basement before 30."

When you consider that a womans looks fade after 30, and they end up being broke because they screwed up their relationships and marriages with their masculine behavior and chasing loser Chad's and you see them working into their 80's at low end jobs just to survive, you realize...time is on OUR side. Focus on your wealth. Not having to work is HUGE, and you'll always be able to pull young hot women. And I'm a good looking guy, who women find to be very funny. I pulled hot women even before I had money, but with money it is even easier, though you do attract a lot of loser women who think you have no options and think you're going to raise 4 kids from another man....these women make bad decisions and are stupid, not just delusional.
 
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You either mate or you don't. Delusional older women who don't have kids have already in a way darwined themselves. The younger women are offspring of women who actually had kids (i.e. are not hard-core feminist)

Most young women now are very non feminist (late teens and early twenties). The women in their 40's were sold the feminist lie and they cannot change their thought patterns. If you see an older unmarried woman, they are broken. It's probably a good idea to avoid them for any type of longterm relationships.
what age would be your cutoff to actually try to bond and LTR a women?
from my experience, single women in their early mid 30s are runnin buck wild
 
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That's not the point of the thread, I'm a multi millionaire who has zero issues getting dates, lays or girlfriends...read the title of the thread. Note it's about delusional women...
Reference to your last paragraph
Instead of bickering, you can do a better job filtering and/or avoid dating women in their mid thirties.
 

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That one's definitely not something worth trippin' over. Just tell her to show you the monkey. Bang the monkey and leave...that is the consolation prize I give them for the evening. I never allow emotions to steer any interactions with these cougs. Never have. They'll try to bait you in with political banter and talking psychobabble BS on an ex after a few drinks in them. I don't care. You're an afterthought, honey. All your cats and dead skeletons in the closet will care more than me... That's why they are all ancient ass, wannabe primadonnas and stuck in some highly-uninspiring ways.
 

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Not just inactive profiles, but I see them on there for years holding out.

there are women in their 40's (I'm early 40's) who just keep holding out for their perfect guy...despite their already declined looks.
You can see the same thing in the 33-44 population on free swipe apps too. Women who get off of the apps experience less abundance and will make a choice a faster. In 2023, it would be difficult to encounter a woman 35-40 who hasn't used a dating app or website at some point in her life. 35-40 year olds today were born from 1983-1988. These women born from 1983-1988 were 18-25 at the time when dating websites became de-stigmatized in the 2000s. If any 1983-1988 born woman has been single for some extended period since 2010, it is likely she's used an app or a website at some point, most likely an app. If a 1983-1988 born woman hasn't used an app or website in her life at this point, it is likely she's mostly been in LTRs for the last 15 years.

I dated a girl who was 38, Stanford MBA, super hot....she wants to get married and have kids. She's now 40 and still dating. The wall is already there and rapidly hitting her harder....yet won't settle down. Dates guys who ALWAYS end up cheating on her, super rich guys who she thinks will commit to her, she thinks she can tame them.
Delusional AF and a careerist.

Then there is another girl I went out with, 35, Chicago MBA (top 6), Ukranian. Never married, no kids, no one has proposed to her. After a couple months with her it was super obvious why. I had a series of other relationships after her, and each time I got back on the site, she was still on there. These women end up old and alone, posting pictures in skimpy dresses of their wrinkled skin trying to get guys.
True

Fellas, focus on your money. Time is on OUR side. These chics will come and go, even when you're in your 50's you'll be able to pull girls in their 20's. Don't get married, don't knock them up. They are bat **** crazy and not worth committing to. Attractive women get hit on all day and have endless options even when you think they are yours, they can passively shop for a better deal...but will ultimately end up alone in the end. The game is stacked against you if you commit to them.
The typical 40-55 year old man doesn't have enough money to attract a woman substantially younger (10+ years younger). This is even true for men in their 30s who are supposedly at Peak SMV (35-40 according to the infamous Rollo Tomassi chart). The typical man in his 30s/40s is a vagina beggar who settles for mediocre to subpar vagina. There are plenty of 37 year old men at so-called Peak SMV who are thirsty AF and even up committing to single moms.

Most mature men don't experience what you're promoting here.

 
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The girl I had a second date with later tonight just disclosed she actually has 4 kids, not one like she initially told me (red flags galore). From two different men. Somehow she thinks the fact that she was only divorced once makes it ok. Getting knocked up by some loser and having 3 kids with him is A OK apparently. She thought my rich ass would be interested in raising 4 kids that belong to two other men. She's 35 with a podunk job. She was honest with me (finally) that she was looking for a provider/husband/life partner, so I was honest with her and told her we can date but I won't be the provider. I'd rather spend the money from the date on myself than waste time with loser women...
OP no disrespect but if you're looking for an LTR and you're a multi-millionaire you should be vetting women from a high end (income) social circle. If you don't have one for the sake of your sanity please do, this type of chick you're describing above can be found on ANY OLD app. My advice if you don't have one is to do this

Travel to exotic places-I got a buddy who has friends all over the globe from Dubai to Malta. Traveling to exotic places and staying at expensive resorts/hotels allows you to meet people. I myself also love to travel and have plans to go to Europe and Africa soon. Having money OP allows you "Access" to other women that most men can only dream of. Travel with the intention to have fun, hit high-end venues and restaurants. Heck you can even source girls through doing OLD in international spots and depending on the country the quality is far superior to in the states i.e. Colombia, Africa, Eastern Europe etc

Fashion events/shows-I've met tons of women there myself I recommend going for the makeup artist (they tend to be just as hot in some cases as the models) The ratio is 3:1(sometimes even 6:1) usually and very cheap to go to $25-$50. You don't have to go to LA or Paris fashion week

Exclusive parties/gala events-places where the average person won't get in because you have to spend money

Yact/Boat parties-This have been a trend for the last decade if you don't know anyone with a boat or a yacht take a cruise

House parties for the rich-the average normie don't get in those unless they know someone. I'm assuming if you're Multi-millionaire you have some rich friends or live in a rich area? If you don't you're not utilizing your wealth in the aspect of networking

Once again OP having money gives you access that most average guys could only dream of, with your wealth, you should be fighting off women with a stick
 

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OP no disrespect but if you're looking for an LTR and you're a multi-millionaire you should be vetting women from a high end (income) social circle. If you don't have one for the sake of your sanity please do, this type of chick you're describing above can be found on ANY OLD app. My advice if you don't have one is to do this

Travel to exotic places-I got a buddy who has friends all over the globe from Dubai to Malta. Traveling to exotic places and staying at expensive resorts/hotels allows you to meet people. I myself also love to travel and have plans to go to Europe and Africa soon. Having money OP allows you "Access" to other women that most men can only dream of. Travel with the intention to have fun, hit high-end venues and restaurants. Heck you can even source girls through doing OLD in international spots and depending on the country the quality is far superior to in the states i.e. Colombia, Africa, Eastern Europe etc

Fashion events/shows-I've met tons of women there myself I recommend going for the makeup artist (they tend to be just as hot in some cases as the models) The ratio is 3:1(sometimes even 6:1) usually and very cheap to go to $25-$50. You don't have to go to LA or Paris fashion week

Exclusive parties/gala events-places where the average person won't get in because you have to spend money

Yact/Boat parties-This have been a trend for the last decade if you don't know anyone with a boat or a yacht take a cruise

House parties for the rich-the average normie don't get in those unless they know someone. I'm assuming if you're Multi-millionaire you have some rich friends or live in a rich area? If you don't you're not utilizing your wealth in the aspect of networking

Once again OP having money gives you access that most average guys could only dream of, with your wealth, you should be fighting off women with a stick

I've dated girls who are deca millionaires (verified on the site) and 10 years younger than me before. Serial daters, they are perpetually on the site every time I am single and get back on for a bit. These girls would NOT talk to any guy unless he was also certified net worth. Once I got that done, they were happy to date. Trouble is, I can tell you from the site, VERY few men are verified HNW members and even fewer women. Most of the men and women that are, are older. Big difference in being a millionaire at 70 off a 401K that grew for 50 years, vs a young multi millionaire. Not a lot of young attractive women are. I did date a few on the site, but it's not as easy as you make it out to be. They are by definition, 1% of the population. And most of THOSE are old.

At this point my 26 year old gf (I'm in my 40's) may reconcile, but I don't expect it to last long unless she gives up ALL of the power struggles.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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I've dated girls who are deca millionaires (verified on the site) and 10 years younger than me before. Serial daters, they are perpetually on the site every time I am single and get back on for a bit. These girls would NOT talk to any guy unless he was also certified net worth. Once I got that done, they were happy to date. Trouble is, I can tell you from the site, VERY few men are verified HNW members and even fewer women. Most of the men and women that are, are older. Big difference in being a millionaire at 70 off a 401K that grew for 50 years, vs a young multi millionaire. Not a lot of young attractive women are. I did date a few on the site, but it's not as easy as you make it out to be. They are by definition, 1% of the population. And most of THOSE are old.

At this point my 26 year old gf (I'm in my 40's) may reconcile, but I don't expect it to last long unless she gives up ALL of the power struggles.
OP I'm not saying you gotta date a millionaire I'm saying you have access to date higher tier chicks in terms of looks, lifestyle, upbringing, status etc

If you wanna bang hot 22 year old's that work at Starbucks nothing wrong with that
I salute that

But i'm saying you have access to all types of women espeically upperclass women or hot women
 

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It’s interesting, the idea of being a millionaire. I own three properties in California their total market value estimate at this time is just under 10 mil US. One is leveraged at about 40% the others are free and clear. My cash assets are less than 7 figures. I could liquidate some financial vehicles in a few weeks to accrue liquidity around 2m.

Does that make me a “millionaire”? Sure don’t feel like one. Do I want to be on a site where women pick me solely on my financial status? Absolutely not.
 

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Do I want to be on a site where women pick me solely on my financial status? Absolutely not.
Do you want to go on a site where guys pick women solely (or mostly) based on their looks? In other words, a site full of mostly attractive women or a site mostly based on personality?
 

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Do you want to go on a site where guys pick women solely (or mostly) based on their looks? In other words, a place full of the most attractive women or a site mostly based on personality?
I don't give a rat's hindquarters what other men want. I know what I want, and that's all that matters. I do pretty well on my own physical and personality-based merits and do not require a crutch to attract women who are only into a man for his net worth.

If you're parlaying your finances to attract women, you will have nothing but grief with them.

You will ALWAYS BE LOOKING OVER YOUR SHOULDER.


I suspect that men who use their wealth to attract women out of their league are already the type of men used to a life devoid of any trust for their fellow humans, much less so females, so maybe it's par for the course.

A man's success should be the icing on the cake, not the main course. And trust me, once they pass the litmus test, they will be pleasantly surprised if you bring them into the inner sanctum.
 
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I don't give a rat's hindquarters what other men want. I know what I want, and that's all that matters. I do pretty well on my own physical and personality-based merits and do not require a crutch to attract women who are only into a man for his net worth.

If you're parlaying your finances to attract women, you will have nothing but grief with them.

You will ALWAYS BE LOOKING OVER YOUR SHOULDER.


I suspect that men who use their wealth to attract women out of their league are already the type of men used to a life devoid of any trust for their fellow humans, much less so females, so maybe it's par for the course.

A man's success should be the icing on the cake, not the main course. And trust me, once they pass the litmus test, they will be pleasantly surprised if you bring them into the inner sanctum.
Delusional women believe they should be judged by their personally and not looks - most are fat and ugly.

Delusional men believe they should be judged by their personality and not because of their wealth or status - most of these men are poor.

If you want women based solely on their personality, have at it. There are tons of women with "great personality". I like my women to be attractive also. I notice most of these women are with successful guys.


But you be you... land whales have great personality. At least that is what I've been told.
 

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Not sure why you’re replying to me? I said nothing in my post about selecting fat women try again.

Seems like a reading comprehension issue.

Delusional women believe they should be judged by their personally and not looks - most are fat and ugly.

Delusional men believe they should be judged by their personality and not because of their wealth or status - most of these men are poor.

If you want women based solely on their personality, have at it. There are tons of women with "great personality". I like my women to be attractive also. I notice most of these women are with successful guys.


But you be you... land whales have great personality. At least that is what I've been told.
 
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Found this nugget:


Quoting @Bluepillluke: "whatever dire straits we think we are in, women have it 100x harder."
I would rather be an older man than a older women.

Women have 10 to 15 years to find the best guy possible, then they become "invisible". I'm older and I am not invisible to the opposite sex... but I have female friends who are my age and yeah, they are "invisible". When they were younger, men would give their left nut sack to hang with them. Not anymore :(

Call me bluepill, but I'm not the one crying about getting dates with attractive women. Heck, I'm not even that wealthy.. but I still don't cry about it like a little bbatch. Hahahhaha.
 

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Did you run out of meds again?

Seriously it’s hard to follow your…logic (might be the wrong word in this case).

Much of what you post is directed at the wrong people, speaks of either a reading comprehension issue, or a troubled mind.

Call me bluepill, but I'm not the one crying about getting dates with attractive women. Heck, I'm not even that wealthy.. but I still don't cry about it like a little bbatch. Hahahhaha.
 
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