The delusional stuff women say

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I was joking this woman on POF that she only wants model looking hot guys. She is 38, old, overweight, and has kids. She's just not hot at all and seems a tad bit bitter like they usually do. She said:

Don't get me wrong, I like to look at hot model men but my experience is there is nothing more to them than how they look. That's not enough to sustain any type of relationship . I find intelligence to be sexy and I am attracted to different types of men for different reasons.
She's saying her unattractive, boring self wants a model hot man but only if he is Mr. Personality and wants a relationship. When she says she finds intelligence sexy, you know that's false because nerds are perpetually single. What she's really saying is she's attracted to various men, not necessarily model perfect, who are good looking and outgoing, smooth talkers.
 
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What does she mean in her experience? If she has any experience at all with hot men, it's getting pumped and dumped. If she were hotter, they'd want to stick around. She's bitter that they don't.
 

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Findog said:
What does she mean in her experience? If she has any experience at all with hot men, it's getting pumped and dumped. If she were hotter, they'd want to stick around. She's bitter that they don't.
Exactly, that's what I was thinking. The hot guys would only pump and dump her, and wouldn't put any effort into it by being charming. But she wants an entertaining guy that wants a relationship with her, and I'd bet has a certain level of looks. The worst part is as pathetic as she is, she probably gets a good number of those guys too.
 

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this falls in line with a post i made a while ago.. don't be so quick to judge a woman on how she treated other men.. i'm not saying don't look at it but don't let it be the end all / be all. how a woman views another man/woman is going to go a long way into determining how they act towards them.

in all the hot guys cases for this girl, none of them saw her for more than anything other than a backup backup plan booty call

the girl now thinks all "hot men" are mean/not relationship worthy beucase of her past experiences with hem.. however if she were smaller and dind't have as much baggage, the guys experience with her would have been drastically different.
 

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Right but she is maybe a 5 or 4 (possibly lower)and wouldnt be interested in a male who is a 5 or 6. She wants a 7 or 8, and of course would want a 9 or 10 male but falsely assumes they don't display enough "intelligence".

I forgot to mention her headline states, "Not looking for a Sheldon Cooper!". I assume that is from the show Big Bang Theory. I don't watch that show but I assume she means she doesn't want a nerd? Didn't she say she wanted and was attracted to intelligence :rolleyes:?
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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this woman trying to say she dated some very hot models who looked like model
When she says she finds intelligence sexy,
women mean by this that they want successful man in life who can get his way and get what he want
if you have IQ 180 and cant get a good job nothing sexy about that
intelligence in women dictionary mean "successful rich man( or proposed to be rich ) " (ex business man )
 

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evan12 said:
this woman trying to say she dated some very hot models who looked like model

women mean by this that they want successful man in life who can get his way and get what he want
if you have IQ 180 and cant get a good job nothing sexy about that
intelligence in women dictionary mean "successful rich man( or proposed to be rich ) " (ex business man )
it's deeper than this. much deeper actually.

in fact, if you were making a "world's most dangerous women" kinda like an animal planet show where they count down the worlds most dangerous animals, this would be no worse than 2nd.

first, you have to understand what's going on. She is making her inability to close the deal with hot guys virtuous. in that sense, it's no different than guys where who brag about how they don't like to cheat on their girls or guys who don't like girls who go to clubs.. lol like they have options when they go and they turn them down. they make a virtue out of not being able to close the deal.

no, she really means, that she likes a smart guy. that it at it's face. she's not lying in that sense. After years (decades) of being rejected by "hot guys" she has in her mind turned off the hot switch and now associates what she likes, with what she can actually obtain. she likes smart guys not beucase they are sexy, she likes them beucase that's all that will fvck her and not leave.

it's like one of my wife's bigger friends who is always telling anyone who will listen about how she is sick and tired of "fake guys" (good looking basically) yet everytime she comes over and we have a get together and there are guys here she goes out to the store and finds something new to wear lol.


That's not even the worse part. The really bad part is...

let me put it like this. say you are dating this cute nerdy girl... you have convinced yourself that you don't like bombshell women, you dont' like girls that go out to the club alot, you have found this little thing here and she treats you well and she will fvck you happily.

what are you going to do the FIRST second that you even get a wiff that a girl you deem a really hot girl, i.e the kind you can't get,m shows you any attention?

you will cast that girl off, and not think twice about it.

the problem with this gir. is not just that she is lying to you..she's lying to herself.

if you were to date her, and you determine to not be the type of guy she hates, and she will go along with it. and you will think it's beucase she likes that but in reality she's just happy someone is still around.. i mean **** she put on the front that she likes nerdy guys what can she do now not date you beucase you are what she told you she wanted to be? she's going to play the part, not beucase she actually likes u but beucase she's obligated to.

then, the first time.. rather it be at work or a new coworker, or some guy at the mall or a friend of a friend that she deems "hot" shows her the slightest bit of attention, she will not think twice about sucking the dude off. beucase that dude is the valuation she has been trying to get her entire life. she will happily jump in the bed with the guy even though the guy looks at her as nothing as a booty call, and will throw her relationship to the wind.

these women are very dangerous. they lie to themselves about what they want and why they want it.

I mean, a normal response from a woman is to say look, i'm 35, i'm a kid. do i like smoking hot guys looking me fvck yes. but my priorities at 35 have changed and they aren't where they were at 25. that's normal.

what's not normal is for a woman to flat out say they don't like hot guys. that's not normal at all. this is behavior of someone who has trying to convince themselves of something. steer very clear. this woman will fvck the first good looking guy that gives her any attention, marriage, engagement, kids, whatever be damnned.
 

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Stagger, how old are you? Post your age in your profile or this thread will get locked or your posts deleted. If you're under 45, why the hell are you even messing around with a woman that age?
 

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Compare this with some of the delusional things I've heard guys say:

"You know, I really think those strippers really liked us for who we are and weren't just trying to get our money."
 

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Hamster Tracks

Those are the deeply worn ruts in the ground that women's hamsters run in to come to grips with their lower sexual market value. This hamster track is very common. They want hot guys, but hot guys don't want them, so they come up with the idea that they want personality and neg on hot guys.

Solution: pretend like she doesn't exist.
 

Peace and Quiet

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Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Stagger Lee said:
She's saying her unattractive, boring self wants a model hot man but only if he is mr. personality and wants a relationship.

Models will only pump and dump her. If she were prettier, she'd have a better chance of keeping one.

When she says she finds intelligence sexy, you know that false because nerds are perpetual single.

I'm glad you realize this. Male Intelligence really has no social value and if intelligence were sexy, MIT students would have groupies. It's only sexy if the man is successful. Useless if not.

What she really saying is she's attracted to various men, not necessarily model perfect, who are good looking and outgoing, smooth talkers.

Being that women do have the choosing power, they'll make it easy for someone they like. Hard if not.
It's just that women tend to get jaded after experience with being unable to keep a man they desire.
 

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nismo-4 said:
It's just that women tend to get jaded after experience with being unable to keep a man they desire.
that is bound to happen when hb 4 fugly chicks desire dudes hb 8 and above....when women gulp the entitlement pill they will only gulp the spunk of dudes well out of their league...then they act like the world let them down when their fugly azz shouldn't have been talking to an inshape dude in the first place....of course when the fugly biyach sees robert pattinson being dumped by a plane jane looks wise, actress pothead then the fugly fattie thinks she is entitled to more.
 

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Absolutely, bradd80. Some of the shit I've heard from chicks bitching about their husbands when they are fat, ugly, and useless is utterly unbelievable. My second wife has literally nothing but looks going for her, but has gained 30 pounds between the time she met me and the time she got pissed and moved out. She was expecting me to wait on her hand and foot and put up with her childish temper tantrums and all her fucking bitter cunt friends and chode orbiters just enabled her. Now she's barely hanging on and thinks she might have made a mistake. Ha!
 

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Other than the usual uglies and fatties, I've seen similar stuff from mentally ill women. There's one on my FB who's in her early 30s. She's quite attractive, but constantly posts about her fvcked up mental state, in between rants on men who are not good enough but dare to ask her out, because she only has the hots for the top ranked men in her professional circles (arts & entertainment).
 

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There are two and only two facets to intelligence:

(1) sensitivity, and
(2) raw calculating speed.

Sensitivity is lost on women, since, as several posters correctly and precisely indicate, women have no ability to empathize. This explains why women concern themselves solely with their own feelings. They are totally insensitive to anyone else's. They can't even sense when others are sick of hearing about how they feel.

The system of hedonic calculus is utterly false as referring to men, but only a few degrees off when explaining the behavior of women. They're faithless, duplicitous, and deceitful -- but they're very bad at making distinctions, which puts the wrecking ball to their schemes. Nagging until they get their way is the classic example of women not having subtlety and finesse.

Women cower before intelligent men because they're enigmas. If it weren't for feminism/hypergamy/whatever you want to call it, intelligence would always be the key trait that defines the ideal mate. A feminist utterly despises intellect, is horrified by intellect, is green with jealousy over intellect, because it gives its owner a mystery and innate power over women that cannot be subdued. Moreover, a feminist despises her own feminity, refuses to accept mating (no matter how many times she's mounted), and wants nothing to do with men who express ideal qualities of personality and character.

Men on this forum are, for the most part, fine examples of intellect, honor, respect, and concern for the well being of the community. The nerdy-acting faggot is a very bad counterfeit being pawned off as the real thing. It's not. We should stop honoring the nerdy-boy conceit as good currency. In doing so, we will stop putting ourselves down as somehow being the stupid, brutal beasts that lying, cheating wh0res endlessly try to beat us up with.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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backbreaker said:
She is making her inability to close the deal with hot guys virtuous. in that sense, it's no different than guys where who brag about how they don't like to cheat on their girls or guys who don't like girls who go to clubs.. lol like they have options when they go and they turn them down. they make a virtue out of not being able to close the deal.
This may not be what you meant, but I hope you're not inferring that if you don't believe in cheating that means you have no options.

Similarly, I don't like clubs (of course I'm 52) so why would I want a girl who goes to clubs? But I definitely have options.

I don't drink though. I know a lot of PUA types don't drink and like to hit the clubs. I'm sure being around drunk girls makes the pickup easier. As for me, I find being around drunk people annoying when I'm sober.
 

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Eh these broads are trying to beat you to the punch on disqualifying you before your inevitable disqualification of them...a childish ego protection mechanism. Anyone here who has some game and is fairly good looking has probably had this happen:

In a social setting and inadvertently find yourself talking to a fatty/uggo. You are remaining civil and offering no flirtatious behavior whatsoever. Next thing you know this silly blob is trying to tell you she'd never go for you, you're not her type, and all from atop some conjured up SMV high-horse (whose legs are quivering under the heavy load might I add ha).

This type of thing used to bewilder me as they were so far under my league that I couldn't understand how they thought they had a chance to begin with. Then I eventually realized these silly sub HB5 b!tches knew they'd never have a shot the second they laid eyes on you, and as some sort of ego protection + jealous vendetta, get a kick of trying (and failing) to knock you down a couple notches. Just sad and pathetic really. Here I was being civil with you all while straining my gag reflex suppression, and then you had to go and be a vindictive c*nt. Nothing worse than a fat ugly girl who's also a c*nt. Really just a waste of oxygen.
 

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zekko said:
This may not be what you meant, but I hope you're not inferring that if you don't believe in cheating that means you have no options.

Similarly, I don't like clubs (of course I'm 52) so why would I want a girl who goes to clubs? But I definitely have options.

I don't drink though. I know a lot of PUA types don't drink and like to hit the clubs. I'm sure being around drunk girls makes the pickup easier. As for me, I find being around drunk people annoying when I'm sober.
ur reading too much into it. just saying you know how guys will tell you how they don't like a certain type of girl when in reality they are justifying why they won't approach her beucse they know she's going to reject them.

i.e guys who go to the club, and come here or go anywhere else and talk about how girls at clubs are stupid/too hard to get and that night/day/mid afternoon/brunch/breakfast/snacktime/gym/4th meal/holiday game is dead. when in relaity they are just trying to rationalize away their inablity to close.

I mean, **** i don't like clubs. but not beucase i can't get women if i were to go, I'v ejust done the entire scene and it's old plus i'm marreid and have obligations that for the most part don't allow me to be up at 5am eating drunk waffle house food. could just as easily said girls at starbucks/girls at the bookstore, doesn' tmatter
 
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