The Defintion and Expansion of Life

the_gunslinger · Jun 1, 2004

Originally posted by Capi Crimini
5. A Don Juan knows a little about a lot and a lot about a few things.

So how exactly do you go about knowing a bit of everything?

Its all well and good to say "be well read", but read what exactly? Tolstoy, Dante, mein Kampf, The karma Sutra?

Capi Crimini · Jun 1, 2004

Good point. I can add in a short book list. You could put in I and Thou. Dante and all that. But I doubt many people would take the time to read them.

I think in knowing a little of everything I ment a little science,history,religion, ect. and excell in one or two. Most of the little of everything is taken care of in school and what people want to know more of they have to research on there own. If I was to tell you then you'd learn what I'm intrested in instead of learning your own opinions.

Thats what the links will be for. To explain how to do it and give examples of going about that. But as to actually doing it thats something you need to do on your own, as to the fact that I can not control you.

I can't give you a simple answer. If you follow this there will still be work ahead. But this will help set up a foundation and a guidline of your life.

I do recomend reading the books you mentioned. though, as they all prove intresting points.

Dantes Inferno and Paradisio are my favorites.
Though the best book I know is 'I and thou.'

JSH · Jun 1, 2004

Russian works are amazing: War and Peace is an epic. Crime and Punishment is compulsory. Dead Souls (Gogol) is bewtiching but unfortunately he burnt the middle section. Two other must reads are Cancer Ward and a Day in the Life of Denis Ivanivovich (somehting like that).

Books like aristotle's "politics" and his discourse on "ethics" are very interesting.

Then there is the necessary Tolkein, ie the Silmarillion.

So many more, so much knowledge you can absorb, its frustrating

JSH · Jun 1, 2004

Originally posted by rgeere
Unless it doesn't bother you that he was a homosexual, I'd be careful basing the definition of man on the opinions of Aristotle.

Don't believe me? He wrote a book called homosexuality in politics.

homosexuality in politics

Um you have no idea what you are on about, i just noticed this and the fallacies in what you just wrote are stupendous. he never wrote a book called homosexuality in politics. the article you posted to clearly states that it is referring to homosexuality in Aristotle's "politics". Do you even know what country he was born in?

Lets give a hint, the premier civilised country of his day, which wasnt really a country and is more of a conglomeration.

and BUMP

Capi Crimini · Jun 1, 2004

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..................................... Golden Rule.........................................
........~Alpha~ A Don Juan Does Not Obsess. ~Omega~ ..........
{link}

____1. A Don Juan is free from others opinions and choices{link}
Exp.......I. A DJ. Does listen and weigh other points of view
Exp......II. A DJ. can always explain and back up his position and is not pigheaded.
Exp.....III. A DJ. realizes he is not always right and is willing to admit and accept when he is wrong
____2. A Don Juan does not take an answer unless he himself wants or accpets that as an answer{link}
Exp.......I. A DJ. Does what he wants with no fear of the outcome
Exp......II. A DJ does not do something blindsighted. He first realizes and weighs the consequences
____3. A Don Juan does not munipulate to hurt nor fear being hurt himself.{link}
Exp.......I. A DJ. Does not avoid hurting others but does not do so as a main pupose of an action as shows obsession
____4. A Don Juans focus on life and lets the women follow.{link}
Exp.......I. A DJ does not obsess with life so much that women can not fit in
____5. A Don Juan knows a little about a lot and a lot about a few things.{link}

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Virtues.

Comletion{link}
A DJ. is complete without any pysical objects, including but not excluded to women, money, and property.

Celebacy{link}
A DJ is recomened to complete an act of celebacy. Though not necissarily life-long, the act is used to provide a DJ with the power to seperate pysical and primal lusts and need from more important ones.

Mirror a Child{link}
A DJ should mirror a child in there playful, spontaneous, creative, and equal love for everyone.

Choice{link}
A DJ must be free to express his own choice. He must be seperate from the main media and fasions. Though he may follow and act on them, he must not rely on them.

Good Being{link}
A DJ must not only posess but want a good being and to be healthy mentally with confidence and psyically with strength

Steps TO DJism

Motivation for Change.{link}
Overcoming shyness and instilling confidence, And Eliminating AFCness{link}
Overcoming Pysical Disablities,(Acme, Race ,Obesity, Ect) {link}
Advanced and Intermediate DJ Skills(different technques, C&F,ect){link}
Becoming an Alpha Male{link}
Advancing in Inteligence and Spirit. (Religous debate, Book List, Ect.){link}
Misc. {link}

Anything else I think of will be added.

All the {link} will be linked in the end and this will be a new post.Most of the links will be from this site. Some of the Misc and spirit and intel. might come from other places.

All the top ones(rules and virts) I'm going to try and type up detailed explanations to avoid communication and use quotes from otheres to porve my point.

I'll try and type posts of my own for the bottom ones if time premits. I will eventually but I want ot get this up in a few weeks. I hope it wil help someone.

dcfball · Jun 2, 2004

keep it up. this could be a good one

Capi Crimini · Jun 2, 2004

Don't mind below there notes. (sadly I restart my computer more often this place is better then word...

)

http://sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=27609
(Memories of good things)

http://sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=27609
Pook Classic

http://sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=52791
Hand kiss. A Classic

http://www.rogerlove.com/
(Book for voice?) check it out

http://sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=52803
Overcoming Anxiety

*Note to self. Why do the member names remind me off chess pieces???*

http://sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=41738
Fluency and the point that DJ means confidence and Artistic love of hobbies not jerk

http://www.mnsu.edu/dept/comdis/kuster/Infostuttering/Harrison/hexagonarticle.html
Stuttering(SOURCE:Mercenary)

http://sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=52605
Fresh Perspective On fear of ackwardness. Your doing her a favor.(though stretching it it might help a DJ minset in AFC's)

http://sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=52672
Hmmm. Good for explanation. Nothing new

http://sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=52243
Keeping a relationship. Arguments

http://sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=24951
Hesitation and faliure on it

http://sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16972
Motivation

http://sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=52161
Basic Keno starting

http://sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=29686
Curing Oneities

*NOte to self make that a topic. Oneitis*

This is all for DJ tips. i doubt to find too much in HS/ maybe a dash same with Dj fourm. Archives will be refreashing and some nice searchs tommorow.

Mabye a little in DJ mature.

Look Search for habits and cleanliness.

*Instead of linking to colonge fourm coloba them */// Seperate into older musk/ Younger fresh/ Populars/ Unknowns
'Lucky You' sucks. Smells like diswashing soap.though the bottle is a memorabilia.

Capi Crimini · Jun 2, 2004

Capi Crimini · Jun 2, 2004

i've posted enugh here. I really don't think anyone is going to read this. I'm going to work on it a little but at the moment I have better things to do then hang at this fourm. Most of my advice is blown off. So instead of posting more info. I'm signing off for a while. You guys really do get boring and the onset of newbs posting new **** gets old. I think I'll take a leave for maybe a month or two again. If I get time to post anything about this I will but I asume to be busy.

My Aim and E-mail are availible to any member for contact. I'll check them weekly.

I hope when I get back all the pointless flaming and onset of newbs will be calmed down.

PCE.

DaVinci · Jun 3, 2004

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MrBond007 · Jun 3, 2004

Stop it!

DaVinci · Jun 4, 2004

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Motovation

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http://sosuave.com/vBulletin/showth...light=Obsession

http://sosuave.com/vBulletin/showth...light=Obsession

http://sosuave.com/vBulletin/showth...light=Obsession

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http://sosuave.com/vBulletin/showth...&threadid=16972

http://sosuave.com/vBulletin/showth...&threadid=27609

http://sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16677&highlight=Motivation

http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16903

http://sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=47873&highlight=Motivation

_______________________

Hesitation
Red-XL
1 "I have run out of ways to fail; now I can only succeed!!!"

2 "Life is a checkerboard, and the player opposite you is time. If you hesitate before moving, or neglect to move promptly,your men will be wiped off the board by time. You are playing against a partner who will not tolerate indecision!"

http://members.aol.com/nonverbal2/diction1.htm#The

"You can't change the past; work with what you've got and make the best of it."

1. Exercise and give yourself goals to meet every week.
2. Approach girls more often (even try Crash & Burn).

3. Write down 3 impressive things you do every day to remind yourself that you're the sh!t and any girl should be so fortunate to even have her presence known around you.

4. Make changes in your appearance that will attract (positive) attention. New haircut or new clothes works.

5. Smile more often.

6. Go on a diet.

7. Classical conditioning.

8. Limit masturbating.

9. Limit fantasizing about girls.

10. Stop watching pornography.

11. Never, ever boast about your sexual conquests.

12. Take dancing/martial arts lessons.

13. Never, ever allow envy to corrupt your perception of things.

14. Stop thinking about women all the time.

15. Stop reading what others brag about with women or learn to genuinely praise them without feelings of self-pity.

16. Eat more fruits.

17. Eat more vegetables.

18. Stop being selfish.

19. Become optimistic.

20. Stop touching your face (ACNE!).

21. Sing to music instead of listening to it.

22. Take a shower and sing.

23. Dance to music.

24. Learn to laugh at yourself.

25. Take insults with a grain of salt.

26. Instead of thinking "What If" all the time, DO IT instead sometmes.

27. Surround yourself with allies (friends, family) more often.

You'll be surprised to find all of these things will make you feel better. I didn't elaborate on any of these points because I felt it was unnecessary. If you don't understand the scientific background behind it, just do it anyways. All of the points are known ways to improve your confidence on a spiritual, emotional, physical and mental level. Do most of these and try to deny the power of improvement...

If anyone has any points to add to the list, please do so.

Rx

Here are a few tips you can use to make your life easier when it comes to confronting girls:

1. When you first meet a girl, try to make eye contact with her. When she looks at you, give her a nice, casual smile. Her reaction to this is what can determine whether she is approachable or not.

GOOD

smiles back

looks down then away

subtely opens up (brushes hair from face, unbuttons jacket, uncrosses arms, leans forward, etc.)

tilts head

increases blinking rate

BAD

immediately looks away

turns her head at all

subtely closes up (usually happens with girls who already have boyfriends)

NEUTRAL/TRY AGAIN

keeps staring

looks away (but not down first or immediately)

If you can weed out some girls that will shut you down, you can avoid the blow to self-esteem and time wasted when threy give you the shaft.

2. Now that you know which girls to approach, what do you say to them? What kind of opening line can you use without looking silly or stupid?

Answer: "Hi" with a nice, casual smile.

In a research project, 71% of women acknowledged and responded to men who opened up with that line. Needless to say, 100% of men did the same for women who approached and said, "Hi."

Conclusion? The odds are totally in your favor, especially after you've separated some of the 29% from the playing field.

3. OK, now I've really got her attention, but now what do I talk about?

This is usually where most men have the biggest problem: flirting. Here are some basic tips:

Keep the focus of the conversation about her. People love to talk about themselves, especially about their ambitions and dreams.

Try to make cute jokes, but never about her or yourself (example: I'm gay...just kidding!). This is a sign of weakness, especially during a first impression.

Always keep good eye contact, but never stare.

Never talk about guy stuff (cars, sports, sex, etc.) unless she brings it up.

If you need to initiate the conversation, find something unique on her body and ask her about it. My favorite is the design on the T-shirts, especially the part covering the t'its. This is an advertisement, so act like a client.

Only ask open-ended questions.

Avoid topics about politics or relationships.

Always keep the conversation upbeat.

We all know what a good conversation goes like, but we often make the mistake of letting it carry on for too long until the conversation gets boring. Learn to cut it off by telling her you have to take care of something. Ask for her number. If everything went fluidly, you've got yourself a winner.

4. Confidence, confidence, confidence, and, alas, confidence....I can never stress this point enough. You're preceived as you act.

5. Extra tidbits:

Once you feel that vibe between you and a girl, chances are she's feeling the exact same way. Take advantage of this opportunity to touch her arm or hand every now and then when you mention her.

If she initiates the conversation, you're in great luck.

If she's with friends, talk to the group and slowly narrow the conversation down to her, exclusively. It'll make her feel really special to be exclusive.

Never complain about anything unless you mean to joke (don't even try talking about the difference between sexes).

Stand still when you talk to her, and try not to make too many movements with your hands.

As we all should know by now, wait at least 3-4 days before calling her back.

Anytime you feel your insecurities holding you back, tell yourself, "I only live life once!" under your breath. Put your head down, full-steam ahead, and don't even look back!

If you've read this far, you have the ambition to succeed with girls. Go get 'em, Tiger!

I'm sure most of you are saying "duh, moron" at the moment, but let me finish here. I just figured out what "advice" is used for. The mere point here is that confidence comes with experience. BOMBSHELL WARNING: Any techniques you learn or read about are nothing more than a placebo. A placebo is like a sugar pill. It psychologically makes you believe you are doing better, hence the increase in confidence. Confidence is comfort. Comfort comes with experience. Using techniques to approach girls (experience) will make you more comfortable. You follow?
It's that annoying thing in your head that deters you from doing what you want. You must get rid of it! Throw your inhibitions to the floor! Do something that you would normally believe takes a lot of guts to do. Keep telling yourself you're going to do it. F*ck the pessimism going through your head! DO IT! Feel the adrenaline rush through your body as you begin to experience a euphoric high. Realize doing things like this will always make you feel this good! Become addicted to the high. It's good for you! Do it to the point where you channel out your shame.
Now it's time to approach girls with NO REGRETS!
Also, realize that each stage of the courtship requires experience and comfort before success can be attained.
Go get 'em, Tiger!

This is a tip that few people know about, but works very effectively:
When you smile, you physiologically raise the number of endorphines in your body, making you happier. Surprisingly, forcing yourself to smile has the same effect. The same goes for frowning and serotonin. Try it if you don't believe me.

Now go look in the mirror and give yourself the c0ckiest, most confident, bad-boyish kind of sneer. Use your eyes and other features to accentuate that c0cky look. When you feel like getting in the mood, put this face on anytime and start approaching girls. Surprisingly, you'll find your confidence at a high level, a combination of your body's natural reaction to the sneer and sometime's that "jerk" look girls respond to better than the "nice guy." Use few, small words, and lots of slang (like 'K instead of OK).

You don't necessarily need to use the bad boy image at the end, but remember that the sneer does physiologically raise your confidence.

DaVinci · Jun 4, 2004

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The average Guy theroy.?mmmm... Yes...mahahahahah*cough*haha muah. ha.... ha..

DaVinci · Jun 4, 2004

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DaVinci · Jun 4, 2004

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Male beauty tips

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Colonge

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Ultimate Colonge poll

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Colonge Use

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A thread on axe

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Bulk Up

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Cut up

DaVinci · Jun 4, 2004

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TitaniumFireBEAR · Jun 4, 2004

Surprised.

One can generate in their mind whatever definition or meaning it is they want to attach to something, but when you look it up in a Dictionary, THAT is the only meaning that matters.

I would state Mr. Bond that you can take whatever you please out of your own selfish interests, and you can reserect any barrier you deem necessary to protect your ideals. BUT...

Does that make you any better a man by taking, while leaving someone empty?

What value have you created?

Having all the "things" life offers, and being able to use your powers on those less fortunate is merely the definition of a weakling, not someone who aspires to be a DJ. This is not routed in religion, or my beliefs, but in 'principles.'

Someone who takes without replacing, someone who provides no value but leeches from others is not a man, not in the definition nor of the values or respect deserving of one.

Galaxy, Universe be Damned, What I speak about is being a man of higher order. I care not for the common good, but my own. Yet, I do live in society, and owe to any common person the same respect I would expect to be owed myself. Should you decide to live as a man unto an island, then wisk yourself off to an island. But, as long as you, a man, generate profits, gain favor, and enjoy the fruits of life from other entities within your realm of living, you have an order by virtue of being a man to respect that and only take when you have given in return.

You can choose to accept such a belief, or not. But there is no inverse to this, there's no alternative belief. A is A. One can't warp definitions and create double meanings. Without black and white lines and absolutes, the world would subsist on nothing.

B.E.A.R.

MrBond007 · Jun 4, 2004

Why do you even presume what you say is right? I take wathever I want and thats it.

DaVinci · Jun 4, 2004

http://sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=21674
Basic Intro to Seduction

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