The Darkside Of Spinning Plates

[COD]

The dark-side of spinning more plates (casual dating multiple people) is that you increase your risk of contacting an STD. I won't scare you with stats.....do your own research.

Going bareback is the preferred method for mutual, optimum enjoyment. It is possible to contact a virus through oral. Regardless of what people look like, their lifestyle, hygiene level or claim that they are STD free, they may be a carrier and not even be aware. At present, there is no cure for such viral infections like (herpes simplex, aids, genital warts, etc). There are some prescriptions available to treat the symptoms but they are costly. Lets take a closer look plausible scenarios at having un-protected sex.

1) YOU CONTACT AN STD-skin to skin contact does not take very long for symptoms to manifest themselves. You could begin to see breakouts around/on your vital genital area’s. Sores that resemble large acne spots or worse begin to spread, irritation, itching and pain begins. Even if they go away temporarily they often reappear.

2) SEX STOPS-very few people will find your open sores attractive. Kiss oral sex goodbye, and even with a condom sex is not like it once was.

3) SPREAD THE STD-a common misconception is just because there is no signs of an external breakout it’s okay to engage in unprotected sex. If your partner contacts the virus you will be reluctant to give them oral. It’s not only the law to inform your partner but an ethical issue.

4) PSYCHOLOGICAL ASPECTS-if she finds out and got it from you……drama increases. If they do continue to date you, spontaneous sex has to be planned around breakouts. It could cause psychological impotency. If you part ways her life is changed forever. Withholding or hiding the truth from others may cause more stress.

5) REPUTATION-they may dump you instantly, they will wonder why you kept it a secret, are you sleeping with anyone else, they will inform everyone, they may even want to extract a little revenge onto you, etc.

So when can you have unprotected sex………….well until they find a cure it’s best to stick with the condom for now. Keep in mind, condoms are not full-proof, they do break, leak, slip off, etc. Recent new enhancements in the condom industry have increased the pleasure. One example is the vibrating condom others include a more natural look and feel.

If you are dating exclusively and choose to have mutual sex without a condom, ideal situation is for both of you to get a fully tested regularly.

REMEMBER NO GLOVE---NO LOVE. Keep em on hand and do use them!!

 

[hanson]

it feels so much better with out a condom, besides i'm allergic to latex

 

[Rhoto]

1) YOU CONTACT AN STD-skin to skin contact does not take very long for symptoms to manifest themselves. You could begin to see breakouts around/on your vital genital area’s. Sores that resemble large acne spots or worse begin to spread, irritation, itching and pain begins. Even if they go away temporarily they often reappear.

Then don't be a LOSER. Wear a rubber, EVERY SINGLE TIME. People who don't wear rubbers today are losers 100% bona fide.

2) SEX STOPS-very few people will find your open sores attractive. Kiss oral sex goodbye, and even with a condom sex is not like it once was.

Then wear a rubber.

3) SPREAD THE STD-a common misconception is just because there is no signs of an external breakout it’s okay to engage in unprotected sex. If your partner contacts the virus you will be reluctant to give them oral. It’s not only the law to inform your partner but an ethical issue.

Sounds like the OP didn't wear a rubber and now regrets it.

4) PSYCHOLOGICAL ASPECTS-if she finds out and got it from you……drama increases. If they do continue to date you, spontaneous sex has to be planned around breakouts. It could cause psychological impotency. If you part ways her life is changed forever. Withholding or hiding the truth from others may cause more stress.

Then don't keep them around! After you're done, LEAVE! Really that simple, unless of course you're a PVSSY.

5) REPUTATION-they may dump you instantly, they will wonder why you kept it a secret, are you sleeping with anyone else, they will inform everyone, they may even want to extract a little revenge onto you, etc.

Who cares what some dumb broad thinks of you? Who are they going to tell your mom? This isn't high school son.....a pump and dump usually gets em coming back for me.

So when can you have unprotected sex………….well until they find a cure it’s best to stick with the condom for now. Keep in mind, condoms are not full-proof, they do break, leak, slip off, etc. Recent new enhancements in the condom industry have increased the pleasure. One example is the vibrating condom others include a more natural look and feel.

Just wrap it up.


Goddamn you chumps need Leykis.

 

[MascaraSnake]

I never understood why people knock condoms so much...they've had some technological advancements to reduce the thickness of the latex. Maybe it's not bareback, but it's better than getting the damn clap.

 

[Rhoto]

but it's better than getting the damn clap.

Or 216 monthly payments.

 

[armadon]

Or 216 monthly payments.

LOL I like how you put that.

 

[SharinganUser]

Why is the title the dark side of spinning plates, and then almost all of it talks about STI's and bareback??? I think you can have multiple partners AND wear a rubber. They're not mutually exclusive. Also, you can get an STI even if you are only dating one girl.

The only safe sex is no sex.

 

[COD]

LATEX IS NOT 100% FULL PROOF FOR AN STD.......and the more chics u have sex with the more you are likely to get an STD. Simple-supply and demand, exposure.

THATS WHY theres a downside to spinning more plates.........WEARING A RUBBER LIKE THAT OTHER MORON WROTE WITH LARGE LETTERS.........is not completly safe, its ineffective with oral and even ineffective with certain types of HPV's.

Too many of you think I can just screw a bunch of women just as long as I wear a condom..........and sorry to inform you it just aint true.

Instead of spewing a bunch of non sense DO SOME RESEARCH OF YOUR OWN.......you are on a computer, you know how to use google...........go get some knowledge. Sheesh youth..........wasted on the youth.

 

[The Bat]

I'm not the kind of guy to brag my sexual conquests but me and several others on here (I know for a fact Rollo and maybe Kontroller) who have had our fair share of women have never contracted a single STD.

I'm sure Rollo will tell you all about how the fear of STDs is a social convention once he finds this thread. But I'm here to say that you CAN have sex with MANY women and continue to remain safe. I know more people who've had sex with many women THAN people who've had few women and have gotten STDs in real life.

In the end though, yeah STDs are a downside to having sex with many women. But your chances of dying from an STD are much less than you dying in a car crash or infectious diseases that you can pick up from other people on a regular basis (such as handshakes).

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

If you're having unprotected sex you're not Spinning Plates correctly. Always use a condom. You can ruin your life with a pregnancy and an STD. What seems like a trifling inconvenience in a hot quick moment can have life long consequences either by "accident" or by design. It's called birth control because either you or she controls the birth. My rule is this should always be you, never her.

 

[DonGorgon]

Then don't be a LOSER. Wear a rubber, EVERY SINGLE TIME. People who don't wear rubbers today are losers 100% bona fide.

LOL... then around 80% or people are loosers cause cDC says only around 17% of people use condoms all the time... Most married folks dont use condoms and infidelity rates are very very high these days... So your best bet is to abstain...

Things people lie about most -

Cheating
Lying
Using rubbers

 

[Colossus]

I'm sure Rollo will tell you all about how the fear of STDs is a social convention once he finds this thread. But I'm here to say that you CAN have sex with MANY women and continue to remain safe. I know more people who've had sex with many women THAN people who've had few women and have gotten STDs in real life.

Utter rubbish. You know who purports crap like this? Those who have never been caught.

"Safe" sex is actually a bit of a misnomer. You should ALWAYS use protection, but that does not make you exempt from contracting an STD. There is a plethora of STDs that are transmitted by skin-to-skin contact. Condoms only cover your d!ck.

The best form of protection is your own judgment. Like Rollo said, YOU are responsible for this, not her. Don't EVER assume she is on BC, or that she is clean. This is the primary reason why ONS and same-night hook-ups are not in your best interest.

Here is the truth, boys: If you have sex with a lot of women, it is only a matter of time before you get caught. It's like owning a motorcycle--It isn't a matter of IF you will lay it down, it's WHEN. So wear a helmet.

The reason why I'm such an stickler about this is that I have been caught (thank God it was only temporary) and I know others who have had their LIVES RUINED. Most of the time it isn't anything worse then the clap or a treatable infection, but the statistics have to come from somewhere, and it isn't always drug-addicts.

Just don't be cavalier about getting an STD. It is much more common than you would think. Most of the time when people get herpes, chlamydia, gonorrhea, or the warts it's because their partner was a carrier with NO SYMPTOMS.

/lecture.