The Dark Side of Sexual Obsession

[AmsterdamAssassin]

I was testing you to see how you would react to that post.

Riiight. Maybe you should get yourself tested.

 

[corrector]

Riiight. Maybe you should get yourself tested.

You are making this thread about me again.

 

[corrector]

That's a lot of words for a "yes" or "no" kind of question bro

That was a loaded question, not a yes or no type of question. Gaslighting much?

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Since I've been on OnlyFans since 2021 I don't think I've spent more than $ 1000 as an aggregate.
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(lack of) Resources leads to at least being a beta-male to get a woman to settle with you. Having nothing leads to fapping at OnlyFans.

@corrector

You would seem to know how to resolve your problem given the above statements. Why not use that OF money and get back in the gym like you did 10 years ago? That would net you much more than fapping to OF models.

Serious question.

 

[corrector]

@corrector

You would seem to know how to resolve your problem given the above statements. Why not use that OF money and get back in the gym like you did 10 years ago? That would net you much more than fapping to OF models.

Serious question.

There is no "mutually exclusive" expense. That implies one choice is made at an expense of another choice. The GYM membership has been uninterrupted since I first joined in 2012, and I have been within GYM memberships since 2003-2004 bracket. This is currently the fourth iteration since I first started in 2003. There is no decision to cancel any GYM membership at this time or likely ever will be.

The GYM is a logistical issue (ie actually getting out of the home and going there, finding the time to do it, making sure my elderly mother is not left alone at home or at least one person is inside the home with her, if my dad is using the car for business, coffee or buying groceries, then I have no transportation to go there unless I use an expensive Uber, etc....). If you translate logistics to finances, then you need a great deal of finances (ie buying taxi-rides/uber rides to go to and from the GYM, buying another car, buying a home for my parents with a maid/caregiver to look after them, etc....) and that could run you into the thousands/tens of thousands/millions of dollars. So it's not a simple situation as you may think it is. To be clear, I don't or never have said I spent any substantial amount of money at OF.

Oh, and by the way, for the record, the GYM in the past did wrack up a debt, as well as a marriage with my ex-wife. When I went on a Consumer Proposal (aka Chapter 13 Bankruptcy) in October 2015, I had a wracked-up debt of $ 187,000 and it's a debt that grew between 2007 - 2015. That was before OnlyFans existed, and not a penny of that debt went on any prostitute(s).

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

. To be clear, I don't or never have said I spent any substantial amount of money at OF.

It’s subjective, to me spending $1000 on OF is opulent.

 

[corrector]

It’s subjective, to me spending $1000 on OF is opulent.

$ 1000 was never spent at any one time though. I did say it was between October, 2021 to now. That is a space of 2 - 2.5 years. You can spend that amount of money on streaming or something else like that within that time. If we divide it, it comes to roughly $ 33 / mo spread out. That figure also has to be fact-checked as it could also be lower than that.

As we are talking about vice, it's a relative low vice-related cost. What vices cost that little? If someone was into full-blown visiting prostitutes then they would be spending way more than $ 33 / mo. A half-our visit could be in the hundred(s). I'm sure people with drug/alcohol problems are spending more than $ 33/mo. For a vice it does not sound expensive at all, especially if it's a rip-off of the more expensive vice of actually visiting prostitutes. The guy the OP is talking about spend $ 260,000....again more than $ 1000. I would say that's a sexual obsession that went on an evil place. My limited engagement with OF sounds more like incel stress relief.

 

[Scaramouche]

Hi Corrector,
It would be interesting to know the situation from Brothers in Europe,but here in Australia your looking after your Old Mum would merit a Carers Pension....a living wage of about US$400/wk+Healthcare+free public transport+Public Housing at nominal rent. and a host of community funded services I believe it is similar in N.Z and the U.K.

 

[corrector]

Hi Corrector,
It would be interesting to know the situation from Brothers in Europe,but here in Australia your looking after your Old Mum would merit a Carers Pension....a living wage of about US$400/wk+Healthcare+free public transport+Public Housing at nominal rent. and a host of community funded services I believe it is similar in N.Z and the U.K.

My mother is receiving a Pension that is higher than that amount here as she had worked as a teacher. However, despite this, because of the spending that takes place, especially at high-end organic food stores, and money that is up into savings, it's just basically smoked up really quick. I earn about just the same (a bit less net but I should have some refund come tax time), and my income is also smoked up with various obligations. For example, owning my car and making loan and insurance payments, including life insurance payments, utilities, plus other monthly bills, mean whatever I make is basically spent out before I even get paid. It's a very frustrating situation overall. Two people bringing in $ 6000, and a third bringing in $ 1000, or $ 7000 income NET per month DOES NOT MAKE THE CUT.

Believe me when I say the cost of living here is ridicolous. When, as a family you can bring in $ 7000 net income and still feel like a pauper, then something is wrong. Between the Mortgage, Car payments, Insurance payments, groceries, etc... there is nothing much left. It's like we just need an extra $ 2000-$3000/mo to make ends meet and come out ahead. It's like, if you don't bring in $ 10000 per month, as a family, then you can't live comfortably in Toronto, Canada. Check any news station here and EVERYBODY is complaining and pointing fingers at TRUDEAU for this mess (whether he is actually to blame or is a convenient scapegoat by an ambitious and determined opposition is another story). Its so bad that you have people who have full-time jobs visiting food banks. That would have been unthinkable in previous decades.

Also, I hear the cost-of-living in Australia is terrible too. In the UK you hear of people struggling with heating costs. Lots of UK people resent the opulence of the Royals while common folks are struggling terribly there.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

More worried about you than the psycho above.

If you had invested $1,000 in Bitcoin in January 2021, by April 2023, your investment would have grown to approximately $1,562.33. This means you would have made a profit of about $562.33.

Just an idea.

$ 1000 was never spent at any one time though. I did say it was between October, 2021 to now. That is a space of 2 - 2.5 years. You can spend that amount of money on streaming or something else like that within that time. If we divide it, it comes to roughly $ 33 / mo spread out. That figure also has to be fact-checked as it could also be lower than that.

As we are talking about vice, it's a relative low vice-related cost. What vices cost that little? If someone was into full-blown visiting prostitutes then they would be spending way more than $ 33 / mo. A half-our visit could be in the hundred(s). I'm sure people with drug/alcohol problems are spending more than $ 33/mo. For a vice it does not sound expensive at all, especially if it's a rip-off of the more expensive vice of actually visiting prostitutes. The guy the OP is talking about spend $ 260,000....again more than $ 1000. I would say that's a sexual obsession that went on an evil place. My limited engagement with OF sounds more like incel stress relief.

 

[corrector]

More worried about you than the psycho above.

If you had invested $1,000 in Bitcoin in January 2021, by April 2023, your investment would have grown to approximately $1,562.33. This means you would have made a profit of about $562.33.

Just an idea.

I'll rephrase again. I have never made any one-time payment to OnlyFans of $ 1000 in 2021. Except for professional fees associated with my business license, there is no such thing as a $ 1000 splurge on anything as we are too poor (ie too many issues and obligations, not income/money poor) to splurge or invest that sum of money. Even so, telling me about an investment opportunity in 2021 is a bit dated.

I can tell you one thing that would be worst. If I listened to that fake Asian girl scam you helped me with (ie again which portrays investments as a scam, at least in my life), then I would be in a mess today. I never had a good experience in the past with investment and have always lost money. In fact, one of my worst regrets in the past when I invested money was that I wish I had used hookers when I was younger and in my 20s rather than lost the money in the stock market. At least my youthful virility would have been put to good use and maybe I would have got more confidence out of that and actually have met someone in the past. What else can I say about investments?

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

It would be interesting to know the situation from Brothers in Europe,but here in Australia your looking after your Old Mum would merit a Carers Pension....a living wage of about US$400/wk+Healthcare+free public transport+Public Housing at nominal rent. and a host of community funded services I believe it is similar in N.Z and the U.K.

In NL you can get financial support (and tax benefits) as a 'mantelzorger' if you take care of elderly family members.