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I hate to say this, but 90% of the time when you see people's mugshots/photos that are responsible for committing various crimes they almost always look like a person you'd expect to do something like that if you just saw them out walking around.

If someone told me a story like this and there were no pictures, I would picture the guy to look almost exactly like he does.
 

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I hate to say this, but 90% of the time when you see people's mugshots/photos that are responsible for committing various crimes they almost always look like a person you'd expect to do something like that if you just saw them out walking around.
Yes, he looks like a simpleton, but I also remember a case some time ago where a newspaper accidentally mixed up the captions between a cop and a criminal in a news article and nobody noticed until a friend of the cop called him to tell him to check the newspaper.

And most people who see me think I'm gentle and kind-hearted...
 

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His family has money. Mine is broke and I'm like drained out working. Truly a life of priviledge.

But there is more to life than money. We can see that in stories like this. There are values, principles, rules. It is part of what separates us from the animals. This guy just gave in to his baser instincts and took advantage of his family and ultimatley killed them.

If his family was as poor as mine is, then they would still be alive today. Therefore, their money ended up killing them indirectly.
That teaches us a lesson not to hold too much importance on money.
 

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Hi BackInTheGame,
Physiognamy and the criminal,you should Google up Professor Cesare Lombrosos research on this.I am convinced but the question I ask myself is whether their unfortunate appearence actually creates this predisposition?
 
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His family has money. Mine is broke and I'm like drained out working. Truly a life of priviledge.
So, if your family had money, you would've borrowed all of it to spend on prostitutes and then murdered them to not have to pay them back?

If his family was as poor as mine is, then they would still be alive today. Therefore, their money ended up killing them indirectly.
They had savings. His father saved 200,000 for retirement, that is not extraordinary wealth. He tricked his brother out of 60K, but you don't know how his brother got that money, maybe re-mortgaged his house to pay for his poor brother's treatment.

Degenerates like this ought to be buried under the prison.
 

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So, if your family had money, you would've borrowed all of it to spend on prostitutes and then murdered them to not have to pay them back?
You are talking about OnlyFans? I don't spend that much on there. You can't compare $ 100 to $ 260,000.
Since I've been on OnlyFans since 2021 I don't think I've spent more than $ 1000 as an aggregate.

If my family had money, honestly, I'd probably be married to a wife and have a family with children. The divorce in 2014 was primarly caused because of a lack of money where I could not afford a place to rent to move in together with my wife at the time, our home/neighbourhood was too terrible for her to move into, and I'd be freeloading at her place and her parents didn't want me to move in to live with her without PAYING a rent to them. I also had to give my wife $ 100 / week (ie which she spent on pedicures/manicures, or things I would consider to be wasteful). We were also unable to purchase a home so we could all move in together and live as a family. Therefore, a marriage blew apart on money issues.

Before I met my wife, there are probably more opportunities with women when I was in University. However, as I didn't have my own place and didn't have my own car, that severely crippled me. If you don't have money, you don't have women period.

If I've maintained I've only dealt with OnlyFans because I can't deal with normal woman because of poverty, then the lack of money is contributing to issues finding "civvies"/normal woman which in turn leads to outlets like OnlyFans, etc....

This guy had money and priviledge so he should have got a normal girlfriend. He has no excuse with me.

Also, I've spent ALLOT of money in the past in Gym membership and Personal Trainers and Diet Programs and had a decent body back in 2012 with about 24% bf. When I ran out of money, and could not afford the Gym like that, then I gained weight and lose muscle and motivation. The guy could have used the money and have self-improved himself to the max.

Do you think I would want to continue getting too drained out at work every day so I can't have a normal life apart from work if I had money? In all liklihood I'd just be focusing on the GYM and getting in shape knowing that there is nothing to worry about bills and keeping things in financial order.

All are showing here are people who have squandered their money and priviledge not people who have had hard knocks and pulled through.

AmsterdamAssassin said:
They had savings. His father saved 200,000 for retirement, that is not extraordinary wealth. He tricked his brother out of 60K, but you don't know how his brother got that money, maybe re-mortgaged his house to pay for his poor brother's treatment.

Degenerates like this ought to be buried under the prison.
My parents are broke. We have some equity in the home but can't do anything with it as there is not enough income to even get a loan from the bank on it. Not even enough to pay the bills. My dad's family could have helped us by using me as a Real-Estate agent on many occasions but they chose White Realtors instead. Like I said, I do not have a life of priviledge and lack of having a "civvie" / regular/normal woman is one of the outcomes of that. Resources leads to at least being a beta-male to get a woman to settle with you. Having nothing leads to fapping at OnlyFans.
 
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the question I ask myself is whether their unfortunate appearence actually creates this predisposition?
Could be. There is strong evidence that the name your parents give you at birth seals your fate in a similar way, I don't see why appearance would be any different.
 

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I hate to say this, but 90% of the time when you see people's mugshots/photos that are responsible for committing various crimes they almost always look like a person you'd expect to do something like that if you just saw them out walking around.
The same can be said of photographs you see on driver's licenses and other forms of government-issued ID. 90% of men look like serial killers in their DL photos.
 

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You are talking about OnlyFans? I don't spend that much on there. You can't compare $ 100 to $ 260,000.
Since I've been on OnlyFans since 2021 I don't think I've spent more than $ 1000 as an aggregate.

If my family had money, honestly, I'd probably be married to a wife and have a family with children. The divorce in 2014 was primarly caused because of a lack of money where I could not afford a place to rent to move in together with my wife at the time, our home/neighbourhood was too terrible for her to move into, and I'd be freeloading at her place and her parents didn't want me to move in to live with her without PAYING a rent to them. I also had to give my wife $ 100 / week (ie which she spent on pedicures/manicures, or things I would consider to be wasteful). We were also unable to purchase a home so we could all move in together and live as a family. Therefore, a marriage blew apart on money issues.

Before I met my wife, there are probably more opportunities with women when I was in University. However, as I didn't have my own place and didn't have my own car, that severely crippled me. If you don't have money, you don't have women period.

If I've maintained I've only dealt with OnlyFans because I can't deal with normal woman because of poverty, then the lack of money is contributing to issues finding "civvies"/normal woman which in turn leads to outlets like OnlyFans, etc....

This guy had money and priviledge so he should have got a normal girlfriend. He has no excuse with me.

Also, I've spent ALLOT of money in the past in Gym membership and Personal Trainers and Diet Programs and had a decent body back in 2012 with about 24% bf. When I ran out of money, and could not afford the Gym like that, then I gained weight and lose muscle and motivation. The guy could have used the money and have self-improved himself to the max.

Do you think I would want to continue getting too drained out at work every day so I can't have a normal life apart from work if I had money? In all liklihood I'd just be focusing on the GYM and getting in shape knowing that there is nothing to worry about bills and keeping things in financial order.

All are showing here are people who have squandered their money and priviledge not people who have had hard knocks and pulled through.



My parents are broke. We have some equity in the home but can't do anything with it as there is not enough income to even get a loan from the bank on it. Not even enough to pay the bills. My dad's family could have helped us by using me as a Real-Estate agent on many occasions but they chose White Realtors instead. Like I said, I do not have a life of priviledge and lack of having a "civvie" / regular/normal woman is one of the outcomes of that. Resources leads to at least being a beta-male to get a woman to settle with you. Having nothing leads to fapping at OnlyFans.
This is the most pathetic rant I've read in a long time. Stop making excuses and get your sh!t together. Don't have money for a gym membership or a personal trainer? Neither do inmates at your local correctional facility and many of them are quite fit (they have to be in order to survive). Being lazy, fat and unemployed is a privilege reserved for people living in first world countries. In a poor country, you'd be long dead if you tried to lead that kind of lifestyle.
 
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You are talking about OnlyFans? I don't spend that much on there. You can't compare $ 100 to $ 260,000.
Since I've been on OnlyFans since 2021 I don't think I've spent more than $ 1000 as an aggregate.

If my family had money, honestly, I'd probably be married to a wife and have a family with children. The divorce in 2014 was primarly caused because of a lack of money where I could not afford a place to rent to move in together with my wife at the time, our home/neighbourhood was too terrible for her to move into, and I'd be freeloading at her place and her parents didn't want me to move in to live with her without PAYING a rent to them. I also had to give my wife $ 100 / week (ie which she spent on pedicures/manicures, or things I would consider to be wasteful). We were also unable to purchase a home so we could all move in together and live as a family. Therefore, a marriage blew apart on money issues.

Before I met my wife, there are probably more opportunities with women when I was in University. However, as I didn't have my own place and didn't have my own car, that severely crippled me. If you don't have money, you don't have women period.

If I've maintained I've only dealt with OnlyFans because I can't deal with normal woman because of poverty, then the lack of money is contributing to issues finding "civvies"/normal woman which in turn leads to outlets like OnlyFans, etc....

This guy had money and priviledge so he should have got a normal girlfriend. He has no excuse with me.

Also, I've spent ALLOT of money in the past in Gym membership and Personal Trainers and Diet Programs and had a decent body back in 2012 with about 24% bf. When I ran out of money, and could not afford the Gym like that, then I gained weight and lose muscle and motivation. The guy could have used the money and have self-improved himself to the max.

Do you think I would want to continue getting too drained out at work every day so I can't have a normal life apart from work if I had money? In all liklihood I'd just be focusing on the GYM and getting in shape knowing that there is nothing to worry about bills and keeping things in financial order.

All are showing here are people who have squandered their money and priviledge not people who have had hard knocks and pulled through.



My parents are broke. We have some equity in the home but can't do anything with it as there is not enough income to even get a loan from the bank on it. Not even enough to pay the bills. My dad's family could have helped us by using me as a Real-Estate agent on many occasions but they chose White Realtors instead. Like I said, I do not have a life of priviledge and lack of having a "civvie" / regular/normal woman is one of the outcomes of that. Resources leads to at least being a beta-male to get a woman to settle with you. Having nothing leads to fapping at OnlyFans.
You could have spent $0 dollars on all that gym related stuff and gotten far better results.

That's all desire, it has nothing to do with money.
 

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His family has money. Mine is broke and I'm like drained out working. Truly a life of priviledge.
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If his family was as poor as mine is, then they would still be alive today. Therefore, their money ended up killing them indirectly.
That teaches us a lesson not to hold too much importance on money.
You are talking about OnlyFans? I don't spend that much on there. You can't compare $ 100 to $ 260,000.
You don't seem to get the point. You are comparing yourself to a lunatic. Are you a lunatic? The kind of loonie who steals money from his family and murders them to avoid paying them back?
I hope the fcuk you're not like that, so stop inserting yourself into the narrative.
This is not about you.
 

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You don't seem to get the point. You are comparing yourself to a lunatic. Are you a lunatic? The kind of loonie who steals money from his family and murders them to avoid paying them back?
I hope the fcuk you're not like that, so stop inserting yourself into the narrative.
This is not about you.
You should have said that in your first reply to your post when I was replying about the article. Instead you made a post attacking me and claiming that if my family had money, then I'd use the money to go after prostitutes. You made it about me. Stop gaslighting!
 

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Is this really the lesson to be learned here?
I don't know what the intent is for the OP to bring up this thread.

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Wait, aren't you on some form of welfare?
I earn 3.5 times the welfare-rate at my full-time job. Welfare itself, unless it's propped up by someone else paying for something else, doesn't really pay for anything much as the money is too small. My pay from my full-time job is small too and is not realistic to the cost of living in a city like Toronto. But, again, the full-time job is propped up (ie easy commuting arrangement, other people are paying some of the living expensve bills, etc....) Saying it's 3.5 times the welfare rate means the welfare rate is at a criminally low level to begin with.
 

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You should have said that in your first reply to your post when I was replying about the article. Instead you made a post attacking me and claiming that if my family had money, then I'd use the money to go after prostitutes. You made it about me. Stop gaslighting!
Maybe, just maybe, you should simmer down and not see everything I post as a personal slight or attack. Again, this is not about you, this about a lunatic who murders his family because he cannot pay back the money he stole from them to pay a sex worker he was obsessed with.

Your reaction - if his parents hadn't had money, they wouldn't have been murdered - is totally ridiculous, and you don't even understand why?
 

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This is the most pathetic rant I've read in a long time. Stop making excuses and get your sh!t together. Don't have money for a gym membership or a personal trainer? Neither do inmates at your local correctional facility and many of them are quite fit (they have to be in order to survive). Being lazy, fat and unemployed is a privilege reserved for people living in first world counties. In a poor country, you'd be long dead if you tried to lead that kind of lifestyle.
Except for who said I was unemployed? Everyone has some pigenholed idea of how someone is. So you are saying you have to be an inmate at a correctional facility to have what qualifies for a hard life? You could be very busy, working at a full-time job, taking care of elderly parents, keeping house finances in order, and really find it's a luxury to afford the time to even visit a Gym. There are always different shades and nuances of what constitutes a hard life. To imply that I'm somehow some happy camper that's relaxing, eating Doritoes and watching TV/playing video games is an insult and just shows you are ignorant, and if you have read my other posts on here, then maybe someone that should be put on ignore.
 

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Maybe, just maybe, you should simmer down and not see everything I post as a personal slight or attack. Again, this is not about you, this about a lunatic who murders his family because he cannot pay back the money he stole from them to pay a sex worker he was obsessed with.

Your reaction - if his parents hadn't had money, they wouldn't have been murdered - is totally ridiculous, and you don't even understand why?
Of course it's ridiculous. I was testing you to see how you would react to that post.
 
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