the cute diner chick..nuthin... YET

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ok so I go to a diner for breakfast. the waitress seats me, smiles, takes my order & brings me my eggs & green tea. I make a remark about her scarf. Told her how nice it is & asked her where she got it. Well, not only does she smile & give me an answer but she practically sits down. thats because I'm prob the first guy with some balls to show some interest & say something other than "thanks sweetie the service was great"
then i notice a quick change in her behavior. she grabs her waitress gf & skips around to the other side of the diner, giggling, looking into a mirror while taking her long blond hair out of her hat and waving her head side to side..right in front me....man if this was the neanderthal days I wouldve dragged her back to my cave right there!! lol
ok back to it...
im finished with me meal as I'm walking out I stand face to face with her & say
"I bet I cld guess your name. If I get it right you get no tip. If I get it wrong you get a great tip"
she gets excited, smiles, touches my arm & says (in her cute russian accent)
"ok, ok go ahead. try guess my name"
"hmm well it has to be a sexy name with a scarf like that"
Russia: "Its actually not mine"
Me: " Well you're sexy enough to know to where it"
"let me see..hmm ..I ..EEE Alena? she says with a big smile, "someone told you that" with a great big smile I say (as I touch her arm) "of course I asked for your name"..
Then I pay the bill & she follows me outside where she claims that she needs to go to the store ...Its f*uckin 12 degrees out! lol

the seed is planted...

So the next time I go in there here's what I'm gonna do.
But please discuss what you would do:

Im gonna walk in. walk right up to her. bend a little. extend my arm & in a russian accent say, "ALENA dance with me" & proceed to do the cha cha in the diner...lol

Since I'm a ham & ALWAYS the center of attention whomever is with me is gonna get noticed haha. Always felt this works great in the right situation

 

[I'm in the Mood]

Glad you had a good time!

Doing the cha cha in the diner sounds a bit weird, but if you think you can pull it off then go for it. Oh and make sure that you close next time! If you're really into her you're going to have to invite her to hang out with you so your relationship can develop out of context of the restaurant.

 

[NoCommitments]

yea i knw it seems a little weird and its def outta my element in a freakin diner. remember I havent played the game in like 15yrs 2 very long ltr's so I'm tryin crazy **** & seeing how they work. If i get thrown out well then I'll have to find another diner :woo:

maybe I'll do a merengue instead :rock:

 

[cordoncordon]

yea i knw it seems a little weird and its def outta my element in a freakin diner. remember I havent played the game in like 15yrs 2 very long ltr's so I'm tryin crazy **** & seeing how they work. If i get thrown out well then I'll have to find another diner :woo:

maybe I'll do a merengue instead :rock:

Orrrr.....you could go in, order diner, and then ask for her number.

Don't go overboard my friend.

 

[NoCommitments]

I need help getting back on the horse guys!!

I came to this site bcause its been a while since I've been in the game. Used to be a natural dj but its been a while so I def need some encouragement/insights

so I'm sitting in the diner. Didn't get her as my waitress but I remarked to her about that & she thought it was cute..didn't do the cha cha lol

At the end of lunch I see her sitting there so I go up to her (heart pounding) & say:
(Remember there's a real language barrier here)

NC: "Ur leavin already"
HB: "What dya mean already I've been here since 7 (its 3pm ny time)
NC: oh u wrk 7-3.that's cool. Whatdya do after work?
HB: Go home & relax
NC: Nice. Well give me ur number cause I wanna take u out one night (which is exactly what I told myself NOT to say...f*ckin brain!)
HB: I'm leavin for poland next week (I thought she was russian)
( I ask a bunch of questions about her country, family, how long she's been away etc...) Its slow here in the winter
NC: U guys shld do a theme night
HB: What's that?
NC: U knw karaoke, dancing ..polka (as I snap my fingers & dance a little w/a smile)..Well than I hve to take u out b4 u leave..here.. leave me ur number ( I try & give her my cell)
HB: U gimme ur number..she reaches for a napkin
( Than she just types it in her phone)
HB: I'll text you (ouch)
NC: Ok let me go finish my coffee

I leave about 3 min later without saying goodbye. I personally don't think it went well...whadya guys think?
man I forgot how important practice is!!! I feel like an athlete that's been benched for yrs

 

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BTW I really REALLY wanna bang this chick...super sexy!!!
So bany helpful critiques are appreciated

 

[cordoncordon]

I would say your chances of this one are lower than the temp in Poland right now. Her IL appears very low.

Nice effort though, use it as learning for the next one!

 

[Incognito72]

She won't text you. The fact that she asked for your number when you asked for her's shows she was tryin to get rid of you. She acts nice to you to get a big tip, not because she wants your ****. Nice effort anyway.

 

[I'm in the Mood]

Lol, it would have been hilarious if you actually told her you thought she was Russian!

Don't worry about it man, I've had a similar experience with a waitress at a diner. As a matter of fact, she used the same tactic on me as your waitress used on you. She turned the situation around and was like "actually, why don't you give me your number."
For future reference, you must draw the line there. When a girl refuses to give you her number and asks for yours, she is not trying to call you. It's obvious man, and next time you should end the interaction right there. "Sorry, I'm afraid this isn't going to work. Check please "

I know exactly why you didn't get her interested in you. You did not have enough of an emotional connection with this girl. You only had two interactions, and neither of you really know much about each other. You did flirt with her which is good, but you have to go in and out of flirting and having personal conversations to really build the relationship.

If you've already given up on her, I applaud you.

 

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haha you funny bast*rds! thx for the feedback guys it really helps...
I'm writing on here to get back my confidence & game so this is a learning experience. Probably my 3rd so far. I REALLY NEED TO PRACTICE!!!
I've had so many opportunities in nyc to talk to women & I keep chickening the f*ck out..just street chicks, stores, duane reades, dunkin donuts, etc...I have good openers but I lose interest then they lose interest. gotta get my sh+t together. the breakup is f*ckin with me head

Do you guys know anything about the boot camps?? Is it a waste of time? what's the advice of the DJ's that have been successful on here, Not on their own, but with training??

She won't text you. The fact that she asked for your number when you asked for her's shows she was tryin to get rid of you. She acts nice to you to get a big tip, not because she wants your ****. Nice effort anyway.

I DID NOT give her a big tip!! that would've been super lame on my part! so if that was her ploy she's not dealin with a desperate man. plus she sux as a waitress lol

If you've already given up on her, I applaud you.

YES I am def not holding my breath for a freakin dumb text from a waitress.lol... come on man..Im a little rusty but I'm def not green haha