i have returned to this forum after a long hiatus, and after several successes and rejections, i have to say that i still don't understand what makes a guy creepy to a chick. It boggles me. Exp.-i meet a really cute girl who happens to be mutual friends with most of my friends. very flirtatious she was. i've made the afc mistake of telling a chick she's beautiful on more than one occasion. "ur so adorable," i said. well she returned positively with "i beg to differ, i'm certainly not as adorable as you..." awww, yeah, she wants me...or so i thought. one night i'm checking email when she im's me (she got my sn from someone i know), so i figured "hmmm, she must be interested in me..." cool. i talk to her on aim, but for the most part just chat. believe me, i watch what i say around women, i'm not ur typical creepy afc (anymore...hehe). so to say, i've grown out of it. anyway, i find out she is attending classes at the same campus as i (thru im convo) and she says we shd hang out. so i email her later on that she shd give me her nbr so we can talk more and meet at school during breaks or whenever-well, she simply never responded to me. believe me-i would have much rather gotten her nbr face to face and had her reject me then and there-that would have been such relief! but no response leaves a guy wondering "what did i do wrong? she must think i'm creepy" i had no way of getting her nbr from her personally and up front cuz' i think getting a girls nbr from her friend is lame (duh) and for creepy guys. but get this-if her guy friend who tags along with her is ultra creepy (u know-slackjaw, one eye higher than the other) then what must she think of me? Dayuuum...lay it on me fellows...