The Logical Player
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Telling a guy to get various hobbies in order to be more interesting - this is very bad advice for someone who may be a loser or an AFC.
Here is why - If the man wanted to learn how to salsa dance, or cook, or do Yoga, or paint, HE WOULD HAVE DONE IT ALREADY.
Why is there such a big assumption that men want to learn how to salsa dance or do any of these other hobbies that they are not interested in??
In essence, the advice "get hobbies so that you are more interesting in women's eyes" is VERY bad, because you are telling the AFC to do things that he does not like to do simply to make women like him more.
Please tell me, what do the following three AFC acts have in common:
1) Man buys a woman a $200 dinner and a $100 gift on the first date, hoping this will make her happy and help him get laid.
Or
2) Man has no interest in rock climbing, but still signs up for 10 lessons for $300 in order to spend some time learning to climb rocks, thus having a hobby just for the purpose of later telling a woman that he rock climbs, in hopes that it will turn her on enough and help him get laid.
3) Man has no interest in salsa dancing, in fact he prefers to grind with the hotties in a club, but still decides to sign up for 10 lessons of salsa dancing that set him back $300. After he is done with his lessons, he can salsa dance a little bit, and now he can tell all of the women he meets that he dances salsa, in order to make them happy and hope that it turns them on enough to help him get laid.
What do these have in common? THE MAN ENDS UP DOING SOMETHING THAT HE THINKS HE NEEDS TO DO TO HELP HIM GET LAID.
I am very very much against guys getting hobbies doing things that do not interest them thinking that it will help them with women. This is why I see posts from guys that go something like "I do this, this, this, I am so interesting and such a catch, but why can I not attract women??""
BECAUSE ITS IN YOU, NOT ON YOU - that being GAME, SEDUCTION SKILLS.
Seduction skills and game are learned ONE way and ONE way only - interaction with as many females as humanely possible, with the intent always being to at the very least hook up. Not just friendly interaction, but actual GAMING of women, that is the ONLY way to become good with women. Hobbies that you do not even like that much will only help as much as paying for a $200 that you didn't want to pay for (but still did).
Why should a young guy NOT have a girlfriend?? Because having a girlfriend usually means he is not out there interacting with other women on a sexual level, and not working on his game - then when the poor loser gets dumped when his college girlfriend cheats on him, he all of a sudden has to enter the game with NO game - just another reason I advice young guys to not settle for the first piece of azz that "wants" to commit (aka wants you all to herself) but has no intention of spending her life with you.
You guys see now how this is all tied in? Having a girlfriend = ability to pick up women at will slowly deteriorating.
Tricking yourself into doing a hobby that you never really had interest in = trying to compensate for not having the ability to pick up women.
Hitting on as many women as possible = PRACTICE = the ONLY way to develop enough game to consistently get the results with women that you truly want.
Here is why - If the man wanted to learn how to salsa dance, or cook, or do Yoga, or paint, HE WOULD HAVE DONE IT ALREADY.
Why is there such a big assumption that men want to learn how to salsa dance or do any of these other hobbies that they are not interested in??
In essence, the advice "get hobbies so that you are more interesting in women's eyes" is VERY bad, because you are telling the AFC to do things that he does not like to do simply to make women like him more.
Please tell me, what do the following three AFC acts have in common:
1) Man buys a woman a $200 dinner and a $100 gift on the first date, hoping this will make her happy and help him get laid.
Or
2) Man has no interest in rock climbing, but still signs up for 10 lessons for $300 in order to spend some time learning to climb rocks, thus having a hobby just for the purpose of later telling a woman that he rock climbs, in hopes that it will turn her on enough and help him get laid.
3) Man has no interest in salsa dancing, in fact he prefers to grind with the hotties in a club, but still decides to sign up for 10 lessons of salsa dancing that set him back $300. After he is done with his lessons, he can salsa dance a little bit, and now he can tell all of the women he meets that he dances salsa, in order to make them happy and hope that it turns them on enough to help him get laid.
What do these have in common? THE MAN ENDS UP DOING SOMETHING THAT HE THINKS HE NEEDS TO DO TO HELP HIM GET LAID.
I am very very much against guys getting hobbies doing things that do not interest them thinking that it will help them with women. This is why I see posts from guys that go something like "I do this, this, this, I am so interesting and such a catch, but why can I not attract women??""
BECAUSE ITS IN YOU, NOT ON YOU - that being GAME, SEDUCTION SKILLS.
Seduction skills and game are learned ONE way and ONE way only - interaction with as many females as humanely possible, with the intent always being to at the very least hook up. Not just friendly interaction, but actual GAMING of women, that is the ONLY way to become good with women. Hobbies that you do not even like that much will only help as much as paying for a $200 that you didn't want to pay for (but still did).
Why should a young guy NOT have a girlfriend?? Because having a girlfriend usually means he is not out there interacting with other women on a sexual level, and not working on his game - then when the poor loser gets dumped when his college girlfriend cheats on him, he all of a sudden has to enter the game with NO game - just another reason I advice young guys to not settle for the first piece of azz that "wants" to commit (aka wants you all to herself) but has no intention of spending her life with you.
You guys see now how this is all tied in? Having a girlfriend = ability to pick up women at will slowly deteriorating.
Tricking yourself into doing a hobby that you never really had interest in = trying to compensate for not having the ability to pick up women.
Hitting on as many women as possible = PRACTICE = the ONLY way to develop enough game to consistently get the results with women that you truly want.