I thought I'd use my BlockBuster job to a new advantage!
Ok, so I have been looking through the DJ boot camp and have realised that I can skip the first couple of weeks. I did skim it a while back, but I never really followed it to closely. I just got rejected by a co-worker last week, she has a boyfriend. She was new and I thought that she was giving me some intest signals. Guess I was wrong, but it was the easiest attempt so far. And it only took a day to get over. Not the rejection so much as the dissapointment. And especially cuz I built up the thought that she liked me too much. So, I figure I'm getting very close to doing a cold approach. Anyway, I have gone back to bootcamp and thought I'd take it seriously. I figure I'll just start on week 4, since I can talk to people and girls and I have confidence. I like the fact that I should focus on getting rejected 10 times. With that the goal, it should be easier. I thought I'd pace myself by spliting up the admount of rejections to about 2 a day. Then I thought, well since my game is best while I'm at work, why don't I try then? I have to work the whole week so I will have lots of time(though I open everyday till Friday and there won't be many women coming in my age, that can help me to practice while taking it slow). And if I don't fare well, then I have Saturday off to go to the mall and really try. But, I figure that at work is a great place, because I will most likly never see them again and I only have a short window of time to number close. Plus, it won't be busy so that's an advantage there. I haven't figured out what I will say, so here is a theoretical (sp?) situation:
Me: Hi how is everything today?
Her: Fine thanks
Me: Let's see what movies your getting today. Hmm, Pirates of the Carribean? Yeah that was supposed to be a good movie and alot of people say I look like Jony Depp.
Her: Really? Are you sure?
Me: Ok, fine just me. But, let's be honest, I'm better looking then him anyday.
Her: Sure whatever you say.
Me: Wait, are you saying I'm not better looking then him?
Her: Well.....
Me: Hey I happen to know that I'm cute, ok? I've been told that plenty of times, by women mind you.
Sounds good eh? I usually do a Johny Depp joke simular to that one, but it was a bit to AFCish for my tasts, so I have been reworking it. Working at a video store kicks, so much funny material to use. Like swithing title names and what not. I'm really good at buliding rapport and making the ladies laugh, now I just got to go for the number. Anyway, thought that I would leave some reports in this topic ever few days if anything happens. I do have to say though, gettin rejected is becoming easier and easier the more I try. Hey, success comes through faliure.
Ok, so I have been looking through the DJ boot camp and have realised that I can skip the first couple of weeks. I did skim it a while back, but I never really followed it to closely. I just got rejected by a co-worker last week, she has a boyfriend. She was new and I thought that she was giving me some intest signals. Guess I was wrong, but it was the easiest attempt so far. And it only took a day to get over. Not the rejection so much as the dissapointment. And especially cuz I built up the thought that she liked me too much. So, I figure I'm getting very close to doing a cold approach. Anyway, I have gone back to bootcamp and thought I'd take it seriously. I figure I'll just start on week 4, since I can talk to people and girls and I have confidence. I like the fact that I should focus on getting rejected 10 times. With that the goal, it should be easier. I thought I'd pace myself by spliting up the admount of rejections to about 2 a day. Then I thought, well since my game is best while I'm at work, why don't I try then? I have to work the whole week so I will have lots of time(though I open everyday till Friday and there won't be many women coming in my age, that can help me to practice while taking it slow). And if I don't fare well, then I have Saturday off to go to the mall and really try. But, I figure that at work is a great place, because I will most likly never see them again and I only have a short window of time to number close. Plus, it won't be busy so that's an advantage there. I haven't figured out what I will say, so here is a theoretical (sp?) situation:
Me: Hi how is everything today?
Her: Fine thanks
Me: Let's see what movies your getting today. Hmm, Pirates of the Carribean? Yeah that was supposed to be a good movie and alot of people say I look like Jony Depp.
Her: Really? Are you sure?
Me: Ok, fine just me. But, let's be honest, I'm better looking then him anyday.
Her: Sure whatever you say.
Me: Wait, are you saying I'm not better looking then him?
Her: Well.....
Me: Hey I happen to know that I'm cute, ok? I've been told that plenty of times, by women mind you.
Sounds good eh? I usually do a Johny Depp joke simular to that one, but it was a bit to AFCish for my tasts, so I have been reworking it. Working at a video store kicks, so much funny material to use. Like swithing title names and what not. I'm really good at buliding rapport and making the ladies laugh, now I just got to go for the number. Anyway, thought that I would leave some reports in this topic ever few days if anything happens. I do have to say though, gettin rejected is becoming easier and easier the more I try. Hey, success comes through faliure.
