Pimp-sicle
Master Don Juan
Got a little bit of a situation on my hands.....LOL I could make this short and to the point, but I'm a story teller so that will be hard to accomplish.
Ok so here we go. Took a quick 3 week class that just ended last Thursday. Immediately noticed this solid HB8 (great eyes, super hot body) when she came and sat right by me after the 3rd or 4th class session. A few class sessions later I notice this girl is giving me flying IOI's non verbally. Her body language was very open, she was constantly running her fingers through her hair, always staring at me for brief intervals, wagging her leg, then suddenly stopping when I move, then continuing again, pushing her chest out, dressing sexier the next few days. You get the idea. She then started up a random conversation with me and I knew that had to execute a game plan to close her.
So I waited until the 2nd to last day of class when the teacher decided to show a movie. Needless to say I # closed her with ease and she even mentioned how "smooth" I was in getting it... We ended up talking through about half the movie and she was putty in my hands. Laughing at all my witty remarks, smiling constantly, making very strong EC etc. When our conversation was at its HEIGHT I decided to duck out.
The next day was the last day, all we had was our final and we could leave. I walked in and as soon as I sat down she looked up at me, smiled and said hi. We took our final, she finished before me and on her way out she looked at me so I said bye. I waited 3 days and called her up. She was a little caught off guard when she answered because she had no idea who it was but then warmed up when I told her it was me. I fluffed her about the class for a few minutes. I also learned that she lives 45 minutes away from me which kinda suxs but was not a big deal. I then went straight to the focus of the phone call, setting up a day/time to meet up. She told me that Mon-Thrus she's very busy with school all day on two days and work on the other two. She told me the best time to hang out for her is Friday-Sunday. This kinda caught me off guard, because I was hoping to set up a get together a few days away from the phone call, not a week in advance. I specifically told her I wanted to go mini-golfing and she was down with that. I told her I would call her later on during the week and figure out a place and time where we could meet up half way since she lived sooooo far away. She mentioned that she didn't mind driving down towards me (high interest) so I told her I'd keep that in mind and got off the phone.
I called her on Wednesday night, and ran into the classic DJ problem. I got her voicemail. So I left a message saying:
Hey HB8, its PIMP, its about XXX time on Wednesday, give me a call back when you get this.
Well its a day and half later now and I haven't heard back from her. Soooooo I'm a little confused but not completely. I took the time to do a "search" and found some very interesting debates about "phone etiquette" and must say it the reason I decided to post this. Normally I'd just NEXT but I think that's too much of a fall back solution here at sosuave, if things go off course even slightly, guys say NEXT NEXT NEXT!! So I'm going to look deeper for a second.
On one hand, I DO agree with those who say, if the girl is interested she will call back. And why would you want to waste your time calling a few more times, even if you do get a date with her because she's not showing you any respect by returning your phone calls.
Then on the other hand we've all known that girls simply DO NOT CALL GUYS this early on in the game no matter where they're interest level is at until they've had a few successful date or even slept together. Yes, its quiet stupid but its reality.
So my question is how do I play it from here?? I definitely dig this girl and she seems to be a rare breed of (hot as shiat) and not a stupid party girl slvt that w-hores around every weekend getting wasted (that pretty much describes me though...). And I'd be shocked if she wasn't interested based on how receptive and happy she was when we were flirting etc in class that day. How have you guys handled similiar situations? Did persistence end up working in your favor or was all that work ulitmately for nothing??
Thanks for reading all that when I could just asked the question....
PIMP
Ok so here we go. Took a quick 3 week class that just ended last Thursday. Immediately noticed this solid HB8 (great eyes, super hot body) when she came and sat right by me after the 3rd or 4th class session. A few class sessions later I notice this girl is giving me flying IOI's non verbally. Her body language was very open, she was constantly running her fingers through her hair, always staring at me for brief intervals, wagging her leg, then suddenly stopping when I move, then continuing again, pushing her chest out, dressing sexier the next few days. You get the idea. She then started up a random conversation with me and I knew that had to execute a game plan to close her.
So I waited until the 2nd to last day of class when the teacher decided to show a movie. Needless to say I # closed her with ease and she even mentioned how "smooth" I was in getting it... We ended up talking through about half the movie and she was putty in my hands. Laughing at all my witty remarks, smiling constantly, making very strong EC etc. When our conversation was at its HEIGHT I decided to duck out.
The next day was the last day, all we had was our final and we could leave. I walked in and as soon as I sat down she looked up at me, smiled and said hi. We took our final, she finished before me and on her way out she looked at me so I said bye. I waited 3 days and called her up. She was a little caught off guard when she answered because she had no idea who it was but then warmed up when I told her it was me. I fluffed her about the class for a few minutes. I also learned that she lives 45 minutes away from me which kinda suxs but was not a big deal. I then went straight to the focus of the phone call, setting up a day/time to meet up. She told me that Mon-Thrus she's very busy with school all day on two days and work on the other two. She told me the best time to hang out for her is Friday-Sunday. This kinda caught me off guard, because I was hoping to set up a get together a few days away from the phone call, not a week in advance. I specifically told her I wanted to go mini-golfing and she was down with that. I told her I would call her later on during the week and figure out a place and time where we could meet up half way since she lived sooooo far away. She mentioned that she didn't mind driving down towards me (high interest) so I told her I'd keep that in mind and got off the phone.
I called her on Wednesday night, and ran into the classic DJ problem. I got her voicemail. So I left a message saying:
Hey HB8, its PIMP, its about XXX time on Wednesday, give me a call back when you get this.
Well its a day and half later now and I haven't heard back from her. Soooooo I'm a little confused but not completely. I took the time to do a "search" and found some very interesting debates about "phone etiquette" and must say it the reason I decided to post this. Normally I'd just NEXT but I think that's too much of a fall back solution here at sosuave, if things go off course even slightly, guys say NEXT NEXT NEXT!! So I'm going to look deeper for a second.
On one hand, I DO agree with those who say, if the girl is interested she will call back. And why would you want to waste your time calling a few more times, even if you do get a date with her because she's not showing you any respect by returning your phone calls.
Then on the other hand we've all known that girls simply DO NOT CALL GUYS this early on in the game no matter where they're interest level is at until they've had a few successful date or even slept together. Yes, its quiet stupid but its reality.
So my question is how do I play it from here?? I definitely dig this girl and she seems to be a rare breed of (hot as shiat) and not a stupid party girl slvt that w-hores around every weekend getting wasted (that pretty much describes me though...). And I'd be shocked if she wasn't interested based on how receptive and happy she was when we were flirting etc in class that day. How have you guys handled similiar situations? Did persistence end up working in your favor or was all that work ulitmately for nothing??
Thanks for reading all that when I could just asked the question....
PIMP