backbreaker
Master Don Juan
I dont' come here as much anymore. but when I do.. my gosh. it's gotten bad.
alot of you are still having the same problems if not worse than when you came here.
the probbem, as I see it, and there is a page full of them, but the biggest one is no one is willing to break what I call the circle.
The circle of AFCism starts in HS. when you REALLY start getting interested in poon tang. if you are here, more than likely you sucked at it. I wasn't BAD.. actually i was pretty good, however it was becuase I'm good looking and played basketball. the second I opened my mouth women couldn't get away fast enough. Regardless, you lone so much for that girl, it takes over your mind, your thoughts.. you start to put HER name as the password to everything (my old oneitis once emailed me from my email account, and she said "I kinda figured you had my name as your password"), you think about her at night, you think about her in the day.. she's all you think about.
It becomes an obsession. This is 99% of all men. the persuit of ass can be the label of most lives.
let me move on.
you then get to college. you meet a woman. who is there, your age, and she actually, for whatever the reason may be, wouldn't mind ****ing you. you think she is so great because she is different than most women. she gets it. she's special.. yes, she is different in the sense that she wll open her legs for you.
you date this woman for 2-3 years while in college. you toss around the idea of marriage. hell you might even get married. you are in a "serious relationship":crazy:
Progress until you are out of college. she matures. she grows up. she gets a job. she gets out there in the real world. most men.. espically the men here, didn't do anything to better themselves thoose 3 years.. you were a Default BF. Now when she goes to work, there is a manager next office over whoose 5 years older than you, works out everyday.. reads, is good looing.. has his **** together. you are no longer the best option. she leaves.
you are heart broken. either married or not it doesn't matter the result is the same. 3 "wasted years" of your life wiht this "horrible slut" who doesn't understand what a real relationship is like
so you move on. you must find "mature women". you don't deal with kids anymore. kids cheat. kids go to clubs. you go to the bookstore and try to find a woman... and in the most non sexual enviroment possible you try to check out glances, body language... you are looking. this goes on for 2months/years...then you meet her. she glanced at you and "accidently bumped into you". she's good looking, she seems to have her head on straight. she gets you!!!! she's MATURE!!! she's not like that other "bimbo" who left you. Yes... I WILL SHOW YOU MY UNDYING LOVE FOR YOU!!! YES i WLL BUY YOU THE CHEDDAR BISCUITS!!!
what you don't realize, or you are so caught up in the newness of the ***** she is laying on you, is that she is a chain smoker.. her last BF "didn't get her and was an *******".. in reality he got her very well... well enough to realize he had better options. and she'd go suck him off right now if she could. However, that clock isn't moving any slower and you'd do.
she "likes you so much" you move foward. you have no control over the relationship, she moves in. she tells you what you can do and can't do. she holds back sex. you still get married. you might be taking care of kids by now.. her kids. not yours.
3 years pass.. the relationship is worst than the first. you are at a dead end job. she is at a dead end job, probably ****ing her boss as well. she doesn't care about how she looks anymore, she wastes money when bills need to be paid.. she's not a good women.
then for whatever the reason may be, her EX shows up and before she can get two sentences off, his **** is half way down her mouth.. and it's all your fault. you ruined the relationship. you don't get her.
So now you are 30.. two bad relationships. by now you will take anything that gets wet. your life has dwindled down. you think life is declining instead of you realizing you are in your prime. you place an ad in the paper, find a woman that's been divorced 5 times and live miserably ever after
that ist he life for most people. most people I know fall not too far from that. My dad's been married 3 times. My mom twice and was engaged once. My mom is a good woman, but I can see why she coudl run a man off.
you have to wake up. break the circle. how do you break the circle?
first of all.. listen to everything I say... seriously. No.. i mean it.
You have to get to the root of the problem. the root of the problem is that ***** is a drug addiction that you can't overcome. I laught at guys who look down on guys who snort a little coke or smoke a blunt from time to time, but cry on the other end of the phone because the girl won't give him a 2nd date. you have just as bad an addiction as the drug user. and just as deadly.
there are two ways to cure this addiction. first, you have to find something meaningful in life. you have to. this isnt an option.
and I'm not talking about "oh.. i love playing the gutair".. or I like to swim, or I like to play in my rock band...
you need to find a calling that is soo deep, so meaningful, that it's always your n umber one prority in life. it's so meaningful, that it will require you to be the best in every, EVERY aspect of your life.
When I meet women, I get the same exact response every time.. 1) you'r different, and 2) are you gay? because I'm not showing interest... then I hit them back with "what you think you are that damn hot to where if a guy isnt' interested in you that he must **** other guys?" I"m sidtrcking here.
My calling is horse racing. However and I"ve never done this before here, so listen closely.l 'm going to tell you what my calling is. what keeps me up at ni ght. what wakes me up in the morning.. what drives me to be who I am. I love horse racing.. and I make a damn, DAMN good living at it. but my passion is two fold... to 1) bring as many people into this sport of kings as I possibly can, as I don't realize why a sport I love so much can where it is in the public eye. I have made it my personal mission to bring as many people I can into the game, either by owners, trainers, fans, it doesn't matter. I want people talking horses. I want Millie Ball to be a household name. I want to be able to go into a video game store and buy a decent horse racing game. I want horse racing to be on sportscenter other than the first saturday in may. Nothing gets me excited more than talking horse racing with anyone. Nothing.
However, my even bigger calling than that, is I want to take down Coolmore. that's somethign I never told anyone berfore and I'm telling you now. For those of you who have no idea who coolmore is.. coolmore is the biggest, most successful stallion farm in the world. They are the most influencial horse racing company in the world. In america they are known as Ashford Stud. They charge you 200k to bred to Giant's Causeway, do that about 100 times, then ship him to Austraila in September to get 100 more foals, and that's one horse. Unlike Darley, who is Basically the company name for the UAE prime minster who owns it, and who just blindly spins money on anything and sees what sticks (this year alone they paid 53 million for the breeding rights to street sense (whcih I actually like), 20 milion for hard spun, 31 million for any given saturday, 30 million for admire moon, 41 million for authorized.. and I left one out but I can't spell his name) wherease coolmore's owner has one of the most astute pedigree minds on earth. Rags to Riches is basically owned by Coolmore. So is Scat Daddy, Circular Quay, The Green Monkey and I can go on and on. The best 3YO filly probably in the world is a filly named Peeping Fawn in Europe.... Coolmore. George Washington? coolmore. Dylan Thomas? coolmore. Sadler's Wells? Gataleo? Hurricane run? coolmore, coolmore, coolmore. Word is, if you want a Sadler's Well's offspring, you have to cough up upwards of 500k. AFter Gataleo became so successful they took his feedown and made it private. it's a private fee. and if I had the right filly. I"d consider it. he throws champions. Mr. prospector is the only other stallion EVER to claim that type of stud fee, besides Storm Cat. Mr. prospectors fee WAS 1 millino dollars and a year long waiting list to get to him. They win grade 1 races a week
i'm getting way off track... as you can see, this is my passion. I can go on and on all day. and see how none of that a woman was involved?
damn.. I have to get my mindset back on women to finish.
the point is... I may or may not achieve my goals.. but I will die trying. Women wise, I want a woman that will add to that and only add to that, and if I get the slightest bit of "me me me" the b!tch can hit the door and shut it behind you. i'm done.
when I don't have a woman, my life doesn't suck. that's more time I can chase my goals. I sleep and eat them. every waking moment I'm up, well not eveyr but 90% of the time, I'm thinking "what can I do today to take down coolmore". that's my mindset. **** women.
I don't get caught up in silly ass he said she said immaturity games. I end ****. I dont' have time (liteararly)
I don't do the whole "let's talk on the phone" bit. I'm researching pedigrees or watching races.
I don't work out to "get chicks".. I work out so I can be as healthy as I possibly can so I can life as long as I can, to achieve my goals.
the girl I have now understands that. another other girl I have met is just a sperm deposit until I find otherwise.
Get the **** off this site!!!! stop asking bull**** ass questions like 'does she like me" or "what this a good example of C/F", or "looks don't matter!!!"
***** get a life...seriously.. get a life.. because most of you are dead and dont' know it.
snap out the circle, or else you are liteararly wasting your life
alot of you are still having the same problems if not worse than when you came here.
the probbem, as I see it, and there is a page full of them, but the biggest one is no one is willing to break what I call the circle.
The circle of AFCism starts in HS. when you REALLY start getting interested in poon tang. if you are here, more than likely you sucked at it. I wasn't BAD.. actually i was pretty good, however it was becuase I'm good looking and played basketball. the second I opened my mouth women couldn't get away fast enough. Regardless, you lone so much for that girl, it takes over your mind, your thoughts.. you start to put HER name as the password to everything (my old oneitis once emailed me from my email account, and she said "I kinda figured you had my name as your password"), you think about her at night, you think about her in the day.. she's all you think about.
It becomes an obsession. This is 99% of all men. the persuit of ass can be the label of most lives.
let me move on.
you then get to college. you meet a woman. who is there, your age, and she actually, for whatever the reason may be, wouldn't mind ****ing you. you think she is so great because she is different than most women. she gets it. she's special.. yes, she is different in the sense that she wll open her legs for you.
you date this woman for 2-3 years while in college. you toss around the idea of marriage. hell you might even get married. you are in a "serious relationship":crazy:
Progress until you are out of college. she matures. she grows up. she gets a job. she gets out there in the real world. most men.. espically the men here, didn't do anything to better themselves thoose 3 years.. you were a Default BF. Now when she goes to work, there is a manager next office over whoose 5 years older than you, works out everyday.. reads, is good looing.. has his **** together. you are no longer the best option. she leaves.
you are heart broken. either married or not it doesn't matter the result is the same. 3 "wasted years" of your life wiht this "horrible slut" who doesn't understand what a real relationship is like
so you move on. you must find "mature women". you don't deal with kids anymore. kids cheat. kids go to clubs. you go to the bookstore and try to find a woman... and in the most non sexual enviroment possible you try to check out glances, body language... you are looking. this goes on for 2months/years...then you meet her. she glanced at you and "accidently bumped into you". she's good looking, she seems to have her head on straight. she gets you!!!! she's MATURE!!! she's not like that other "bimbo" who left you. Yes... I WILL SHOW YOU MY UNDYING LOVE FOR YOU!!! YES i WLL BUY YOU THE CHEDDAR BISCUITS!!!
what you don't realize, or you are so caught up in the newness of the ***** she is laying on you, is that she is a chain smoker.. her last BF "didn't get her and was an *******".. in reality he got her very well... well enough to realize he had better options. and she'd go suck him off right now if she could. However, that clock isn't moving any slower and you'd do.
she "likes you so much" you move foward. you have no control over the relationship, she moves in. she tells you what you can do and can't do. she holds back sex. you still get married. you might be taking care of kids by now.. her kids. not yours.
3 years pass.. the relationship is worst than the first. you are at a dead end job. she is at a dead end job, probably ****ing her boss as well. she doesn't care about how she looks anymore, she wastes money when bills need to be paid.. she's not a good women.
then for whatever the reason may be, her EX shows up and before she can get two sentences off, his **** is half way down her mouth.. and it's all your fault. you ruined the relationship. you don't get her.
So now you are 30.. two bad relationships. by now you will take anything that gets wet. your life has dwindled down. you think life is declining instead of you realizing you are in your prime. you place an ad in the paper, find a woman that's been divorced 5 times and live miserably ever after
that ist he life for most people. most people I know fall not too far from that. My dad's been married 3 times. My mom twice and was engaged once. My mom is a good woman, but I can see why she coudl run a man off.
you have to wake up. break the circle. how do you break the circle?
first of all.. listen to everything I say... seriously. No.. i mean it.
You have to get to the root of the problem. the root of the problem is that ***** is a drug addiction that you can't overcome. I laught at guys who look down on guys who snort a little coke or smoke a blunt from time to time, but cry on the other end of the phone because the girl won't give him a 2nd date. you have just as bad an addiction as the drug user. and just as deadly.
there are two ways to cure this addiction. first, you have to find something meaningful in life. you have to. this isnt an option.
and I'm not talking about "oh.. i love playing the gutair".. or I like to swim, or I like to play in my rock band...
you need to find a calling that is soo deep, so meaningful, that it's always your n umber one prority in life. it's so meaningful, that it will require you to be the best in every, EVERY aspect of your life.
When I meet women, I get the same exact response every time.. 1) you'r different, and 2) are you gay? because I'm not showing interest... then I hit them back with "what you think you are that damn hot to where if a guy isnt' interested in you that he must **** other guys?" I"m sidtrcking here.
My calling is horse racing. However and I"ve never done this before here, so listen closely.l 'm going to tell you what my calling is. what keeps me up at ni ght. what wakes me up in the morning.. what drives me to be who I am. I love horse racing.. and I make a damn, DAMN good living at it. but my passion is two fold... to 1) bring as many people into this sport of kings as I possibly can, as I don't realize why a sport I love so much can where it is in the public eye. I have made it my personal mission to bring as many people I can into the game, either by owners, trainers, fans, it doesn't matter. I want people talking horses. I want Millie Ball to be a household name. I want to be able to go into a video game store and buy a decent horse racing game. I want horse racing to be on sportscenter other than the first saturday in may. Nothing gets me excited more than talking horse racing with anyone. Nothing.
However, my even bigger calling than that, is I want to take down Coolmore. that's somethign I never told anyone berfore and I'm telling you now. For those of you who have no idea who coolmore is.. coolmore is the biggest, most successful stallion farm in the world. They are the most influencial horse racing company in the world. In america they are known as Ashford Stud. They charge you 200k to bred to Giant's Causeway, do that about 100 times, then ship him to Austraila in September to get 100 more foals, and that's one horse. Unlike Darley, who is Basically the company name for the UAE prime minster who owns it, and who just blindly spins money on anything and sees what sticks (this year alone they paid 53 million for the breeding rights to street sense (whcih I actually like), 20 milion for hard spun, 31 million for any given saturday, 30 million for admire moon, 41 million for authorized.. and I left one out but I can't spell his name) wherease coolmore's owner has one of the most astute pedigree minds on earth. Rags to Riches is basically owned by Coolmore. So is Scat Daddy, Circular Quay, The Green Monkey and I can go on and on. The best 3YO filly probably in the world is a filly named Peeping Fawn in Europe.... Coolmore. George Washington? coolmore. Dylan Thomas? coolmore. Sadler's Wells? Gataleo? Hurricane run? coolmore, coolmore, coolmore. Word is, if you want a Sadler's Well's offspring, you have to cough up upwards of 500k. AFter Gataleo became so successful they took his feedown and made it private. it's a private fee. and if I had the right filly. I"d consider it. he throws champions. Mr. prospector is the only other stallion EVER to claim that type of stud fee, besides Storm Cat. Mr. prospectors fee WAS 1 millino dollars and a year long waiting list to get to him. They win grade 1 races a week
i'm getting way off track... as you can see, this is my passion. I can go on and on all day. and see how none of that a woman was involved?
damn.. I have to get my mindset back on women to finish.
the point is... I may or may not achieve my goals.. but I will die trying. Women wise, I want a woman that will add to that and only add to that, and if I get the slightest bit of "me me me" the b!tch can hit the door and shut it behind you. i'm done.
when I don't have a woman, my life doesn't suck. that's more time I can chase my goals. I sleep and eat them. every waking moment I'm up, well not eveyr but 90% of the time, I'm thinking "what can I do today to take down coolmore". that's my mindset. **** women.
I don't get caught up in silly ass he said she said immaturity games. I end ****. I dont' have time (liteararly)
I don't do the whole "let's talk on the phone" bit. I'm researching pedigrees or watching races.
I don't work out to "get chicks".. I work out so I can be as healthy as I possibly can so I can life as long as I can, to achieve my goals.
the girl I have now understands that. another other girl I have met is just a sperm deposit until I find otherwise.
Get the **** off this site!!!! stop asking bull**** ass questions like 'does she like me" or "what this a good example of C/F", or "looks don't matter!!!"
***** get a life...seriously.. get a life.. because most of you are dead and dont' know it.
snap out the circle, or else you are liteararly wasting your life
