lurker said:
wow if you wrote this then you must be smart . some kinda professor, good post.
Ha - not really. Not yet.
lurker said:
i hope men do not over analyze thier problems and thoughts so deep though when it comes to women all that deep thinking **** isnt necessary becos very smart intellectuall men fail with women.
Absolutely. The problem is that overanalysis is a seductive trap into which to fall. It isn't something you can turn on or off, it is more akin to a kind of addiction which creeps upon a person slowly.
It is something, I contend, which must be fought tooth and nail.
lurker said:
so me thinks we shoudlnt complicate our lives when it some to women, but i sense that this post is about life in general and not just women. iv seen good tips today id give this 4 stars. very good man ill print this thanks.
Thank you for the props. At the same time, a number of issues have risen recently in my life which I think it is only fair to raise here. The fact is that fighting free of hell, although pivotal, is only one step.
I am an expert at this - at not failing.
I'm reading 'Think And Grow Rich' by Napoleon Hill right now. It's absolutely superb. He advises that we fix a goal in our minds - something that we desire above all else, and hammer that goal home until it is all that echoes around our subconscious. We then pursue it doggedly, and never, ever allow ourselves to be discouraged.
Once we do that, we can marshal all the forces at our disposal and allow ourselves to acheive literally any goal.
This is an extremely impressive book, and I think fills in many of the gaps in my own psychological strategies for living.
To put it briefly - there are greater things a man can aspire to than simply not failing.
I shall post in more depth about this once I've had time to digest it.