The BPD ex moved onto another new man

[051AV]

Heard through the grape vine she dumped my replacement for a new man that makes me laugh the path of destruction continues I'm glad she's out of my life its going on 3 years I never want to see her ever again. The guy she was with is devastated and heart broken from what I was told, he will soon realize it was a blessing in the skies.

Sadly I know the guy she's hooked up with he thinks she's great, give it a month or two this guy doesn't know what he's getting involved in he's 14 years older than her.

She used my replacement for everything he was worth and dumped him I'm happy she's out of his life she damn near killed him now hopefully he see's the light and moves forward with recovery. His health is fvcked its going to take him a couple years to get his physical health back to what it should be, his mental health gotta be completely destroyed.

Sick women like this should be taken to a remote island and left there, she preys on weak men, chews them up and spits them out, she took on the wrong man she broke her teeth on me. I shouldn't care but it makes me angry I know its a mental illness that she can't control. I hope the guy she dumped doesn't try get her back he needs to get away from her.

Worries me a little she may come back sniffing around to see what I'm doing, it will be NC for damn sure. I wouldn't mind seeing her again so I can tell her to fvck off again, I like seeing her squirm she's intimidated of me.

 

[Polysix]

now hopefully he see's the light and moves forward with recovery.

what about you?

Worries me a little she may come back sniffing around to see what I'm doing, it will be NC for damn sure.

It is no NC, because she is still in your head. How long?
For your on sake 051AV: Get out of your PTSD, forgive her, cause she didn´t choose to be ill like that and move on man.

 

[051AV]

Life is good I'm happy to have her out of my life, I know she didn't choose to be the way she is, she knows she has issues. I want to see the guy she dumped see the light and regain his life which he pretty much took over and destroyed. The man had his whole future planned out he would have reached his goal by now if he didn't get involved with her, would have been in the high 6 figure income bracket. I've said before I knew him long before she ever did, I seen him change, not a good change, I know she made me suffer a little stress his was 10 times worse.

I've recovered from her it took well over a year to bleed out the poison she was injecting into me, I've come out of this a new man and much more aware of toxic women, fvck I can spot a toxic one just observing her and talking to her. I shake my head at how she can move onto another man and make him a victim of her toxicity, the guy she's with now knows she's nuts he's seen what she did to me but he's ga ga over her. She better stay away from me I don't need her taking the box off the shelf with my name on it and open it expecting she can come back.

 

[051AV]

What makes me laugh, the guy she's seeing now is only maybe an inch taller than her he's not very tall maybe 5'6" a good 12 inches shorter and 100 pounds lighter than my replacement. I've worked with him too its how I know him, she used to say our age difference was too much shes with a guy now nearly 14 years older her and I are 9 years apart.

 

[dude99]

What makes me laugh, the guy she's seeing now is only maybe an inch taller than her he's not very tall maybe 5'6" a good 12 inches shorter and 100 pounds lighter than my replacement. I've worked with him too its how I know him, she used to say our age difference was too much shes with a guy now nearly 14 years older her and I are 9 years apart.

When they jump on Jimmy rebound they dont care about all the the fact this guy is evetything she complained about, age, height weight. He is what he is. Jimmy rebound

He is probably tempororary too. Just be thankfull she isn't calling you.

 

[Roober]

Why do you care what your ex of 3 years is up to? You say You don't care but create a thread about it to discuss with complete strangers.

Your words and not matching your actions. Its time to move on.

 

[hockeyfreak79]

Yeah this shouldn't even be a blimp on your radar. Next time someone spills some "grapevine" shït just let them know. Hey I don't care about drama gossip crap about so and so and just leave it at that and change the subject.

 

[QuadDeuces]

If an ex of 3 years ago still bothers you you have some inner work to do.
You have a reactive codependent addictive personality and low self esteem aka a scarcity mentality.
Get an abundance mentality, slay more women and have some self respect.

You can label them BPD, NPD, ASP all you want but the only one who is in control of your emotions is you, not some dramatic slut.

 

[Von]

Why you still care about her?

You might write about how you dont care about her and feel sorry for the guy

But your actions are that you wrote a thread about her hooking up with a new guy.

Time to move on dude

 

[El Payaso]

Why do you care? Move on.

 

[SuckItUp]

Agreed about moving forward; however, experience with a BPD can challenge your sanity so checking on a new guy can help reaffirm that you were just a placeholder.

recovering from a BPD relationship is like being an alcohol addict or a drug addict. Your “sobriety” is always being challenged.

 

[Murk]

3rd thread about this girl, I remember the one saying she gave her bf a heart attack. You seem like a stalker/creeper.

 

[051AV]

No I'm not a stalker, I really don't care about her, I'm amused at the path of damages she causes, she has created quite a reputation for herself at the corporation she works at. When she started with the corporation everybody thought she was the sweet innocent new hire there was nothing wrong with her. A week or two into our relationship I knew she was damaged goods, I really did bring out the worst in her. I laugh today thinking about the smear campaign she had against me trying to convince people I was the most evilest person on the planet.

I do wonder why she started to show me her ugly side so early in the relationship, revealing the fact she had mental health problems and she was on meds, a fact she hid from my replacement for months told him the meds were vitamins. I learned a lot from her, never get involved with crazy, they don't change, there is absolutely nothing you can do for them they are broken. I've got my life back its taken a long time to get my health back it's fun being able to flirt with 20 year olds again. I have avoided lots of women that I sensed had issues now that I know what to look for.

I hear the drama about her from a former co-worker he tells me so I can have laugh.