The Bored Sex: Women, more than men, tend to feel stultified by long-term exclusivity—despite having been taught that they were designed for it.

[MatureDJ]

The Bored Sex

Women, more than men, tend to feel stultified by long-term exclusivity—despite having been taught that they were designed for it.

www.theatlantic.com

 

[Gamisch]

The Bored Sex

Women, more than men, tend to feel stultified by long-term exclusivity—despite having been taught that they were designed for it.

www.theatlantic.com

Yeah. Female sexuality is different from male sexuality. Just look at how they sell stimulating products . A sexshop for example. It will be 20% male producst and 80% female. A boy girl porn movie will be more than enough for most men. Women on the other hand need all kinds of things.

Female sexuality is rather mental while male sexuality is rather physical. Huge problem when you are jn a long term relationship.That's why a woman at some point can tell a man that's she loves him to death, but she doesn't want to/loves to have sex with him. And at this point a lot of men decide to let her do whatever she wants...

 

[MatureDJ]

... a woman at some point can tell a man that's she loves him to death, but she doesn't want to/loves to have sex with him.

There are alternative vesicles for this - i.e., mouth, hand, a33-on-lap.

 

[pipeman84]

She has suggested more radical-seeming potential fixes, too, like opening up the marriage.

That doesn't sound to me like the suggestion of a bored woman, but a woman who doesn't love her husband.

But Meana discovered that “institutionalization of the relationship, overfamiliarity, and desexualization of roles” in a long-term heterosexual partnership mess with female passion especially—a conclusion that’s consistent with other recent studies.

In other words, the man stopped being a man. 100% agree with this. BUT, that's just half of the issue, with the other half being proper woman selection and screening. For instance, if a 30yrs old woman who has had 5 relationships, now marries a guy and 2 years later blames the loss of passion on the institutionalization of the relationship and on the man, I call BS. The elephant in the room is that she entered this marriage with a ton of baggage so there's no surprise that the poor sap collapsed under its weight.

Lastly, the author of the article, Wednesday Martin, is a feminist, so this thinly veiled encouraging of women to be hoes doesn't come as a surprise.

Women cannot be pigeonholed; the glory of human sexuality is its variation and flexibility. So when we speak of desire in the future, we should acknowledge that the fairer sex thirsts for the frisson of an encounter with someone or something new as much as, if not more, than men do—and that they could benefit from a gray-zone hall pass, too.

 

[Millard Fillmore]

Monogamy ain't natural - for either sex.

This is why if you're in an LTR or marriage, fool around a little. Keep it interesting.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Monogamy ain't natural - for either sex.

This is why if you're in an LTR or marriage, fool around a little. Keep it interesting.

Copium

 

[Millard Fillmore]

Copium

Everything's a cope, including calling things a cope

Fact is marriage was invented for business, not for relationships. Purple pill dudes can't accept hard facts.

 

[SW15]

The Bored Sex

Women, more than men, tend to feel stultified by long-term exclusivity—despite having been taught that they were designed for it.

www.theatlantic.com

Why Women Divorce - Alpha Male 2.0

-By Caleb Jones UPDATE: When I first wrote this blog post, I thought the woman I was talking about was separated. In fact she was not. It was a joke she made on her blog. It doesn’t change what I’m talking about below, since this...

alphamale20.com

Wednesday Martin is a feminist

Yes, she is a well known feminist.

A Conversation with Bestselling Author Dr. Wednesday Martin - Pitzer College

#1 New York Times bestselling author Wednesday Martin, Ph.D., discusses elements of the elite subcultures she has studied, her bestselling books Primates of Park Avenue and Untrue, and her current […]

www.pitzer.edu

Monogamy ain't natural - for either sex.

Women Get BORED With Their Monogamous Men - Even More Scientific Proof - Alpha Male 2.0

It’s always nice when science reinforces the things I’ve been saying for years. It happens so often these days I’ve pretty much stopped reporting it. Yet I recently came across this New York Times article that’s quite wonderful. It’s got me written all over it....

alphamale20.com

 

[Millard Fillmore]

Why Women Divorce - Alpha Male 2.0

-By Caleb Jones UPDATE: When I first wrote this blog post, I thought the woman I was talking about was separated. In fact she was not. It was a joke she made on her blog. It doesn’t change what I’m talking about below, since this...

alphamale20.com

Yes, she is a well known feminist.

A Conversation with Bestselling Author Dr. Wednesday Martin - Pitzer College

#1 New York Times bestselling author Wednesday Martin, Ph.D., discusses elements of the elite subcultures she has studied, her bestselling books Primates of Park Avenue and Untrue, and her current […]

www.pitzer.edu

Women Get BORED With Their Monogamous Men - Even More Scientific Proof - Alpha Male 2.0

It’s always nice when science reinforces the things I’ve been saying for years. It happens so often these days I’ve pretty much stopped reporting it. Yet I recently came across this New York Times article that’s quite wonderful. It’s got me written all over it....

alphamale20.com

My take is fool around but be discreet. Keep her on her toes. Don't be dumb, don't get sloppy and don't take a goomar. Idiot men have multiple "relationships" (and families lol). If you're uber rich then fine, have at it. Plebes gotta strap on the jimmy and keep it on the DL.

 

[SmoothHendrixPS2]

Women's sexuality is as narcissistic as it gets. They're socially programmed to want monogamy, but they're biological makeup will always want more!

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

A previously banned troll by any other name, smells just as bad…

Everything's a cope, including calling things a cope

Fact is marriage was invented for business, not for relationships. Purple pill dudes can't accept hard facts.

 

[Ricky]

There is alot of truth to this. Couldnt get the entire atlantic article.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Most men suck on the bedroom...of course they would get tired of bad sex

 

[Barrister]

Interesting article - but there is always an angle when it comes to the Atlantic. In this case, the acceptance of a woman wanting to be a h0e is being said to be "normal" now and okay to be that way. "Oh your husband is making you orgasm multiple times a week and you aren't happy with the sex anyway and want to open your marriage up to other sexual partners? Perfectly normal!"

Yes, people of both sexes get bored in a long term LTR/marriages and fantasize about and sometimes do bang other people. But let's be real, would you expect the tenor of an article about a husband saying the same exact thing to be the same? Of course not. He would be vilified as a dirty cheater and be condemned to the lowest depths of hell because he still wasn't happy with his wife who was dutifully being fvcked by him and making him cvm multiple times a week.

 

[Barrister]

Most men suck on the bedroom...of course they would get tired of bad sex

Most women suck in the bedroom. In fact, I would say the vast majority of hot women I have been with normally expect you to do most of the work in bed while she just lays there and gets plowed. They can normally be directed on what you want, but it isn't the same as when she takes things into her own hands.

The women who are best in bed normally are the Cluster B types in my experience. Partly why they are so hard to let go of despite being completely toxic.

 

[Bokanovsky]

In general, men can manage wanting what they already have, while women struggle with it.

What a self-serving crock of sh!t.

 

[Ricky]

Women's sexuality is as narcissistic as it gets. They're socially programmed to want monogamy, but they're biological makeup will always want more!

i think its more attention and the feeling the guy they could get is better than the one they are.currently with (hypergamy) more than the sex